Alas! Sometimes it's really more friends and more walls.

There is an old saying in China that friends go many ways. I don't deny its correctness, but really, sometimes many friends really block the wall, which will bring inconvenience and trouble to your life.

When I lived at home in my early years, I also believed the old saying of my ancestors. I often invite my colleagues to eat, drink and entertain, and I want to get along well with my colleagues. However, many times it backfires. Once, I invited everyone to eat and drink. In the convenient process after dinner, I personally heard words that made my heart ache. These words are like a sharp sword, and I will never forget them. As I grow older and experience more and more things, I gradually realize that it is really necessary to reduce unnecessary social interaction. Because it is true that sometimes one more friend is just another wall, which will only add to yourself.

At that time, I was about to go out to wash my hands after urinating, when I heard two older colleagues say to me, "Hey, this boy is unmarried and has no children to treat me all day. Why do you pretend to be a big-tailed wolf?" How smart we are, alas, all the money we usually earn is spent at home. "Hearing this, my anger directly went up to the top of the skull, three steps at a time, two steps at a time. I immediately put my hand behind the man. I held his head in one hand and turned his head around. My other arm swung two big masks and smoked them. I walked away angrily. From then on, I will never see each other again. Of course, only they admire me. Therefore, people who are not equal to your cognition should try to keep their distance from each other as little as possible, as well as people who don't match your values and circles. This way of getting along is not only ungrateful, but also brings you great trouble.

Passing through Kunming a few days ago, an old friend I haven't seen for years warmly greeted me. First I had dinner in the clubhouse, and then I was invited to the bar because I couldn't see the rest time. The noisy environment is out of place with me, but I'm too embarrassed to spoil my old friend's fun, so I have to struggle. Finally, I returned to the hotel in the middle of the night and got up the next day. This situation is better, but it always makes you a little uncomfortable to get along with.

Many people like to be lively and call friends wherever they go. But there are really many indifferent dinners. There is no need to attend. If others really want to entertain you, they will invite you three or four days or even longer in advance and arrange a convenient time and place to meet. But more often, it's all about joining in the fun, and after you go, you become a foil completely. It's just a foil. He will deliberately raise himself by belittling you. We really don't want to eat such a meal. After all, we are all decent people, and no one is short of this meal. As we all know, there will be a threshold for adding my WeChat friend position. At dinner, some friends of friends will admire you or want to add you as a WeChat friend. But after adding it, we don't communicate much at ordinary times, and we are silent in the friends list, and there is no communication in each other's lives. However, the location of friends on WeChat is limited, and some people will be deleted whenever something happens. Really, after you delete him, meet again next time. I don't know why, he will ask you why you deleted his best friend. This situation will be embarrassing. People with children can say that their children were deleted by mistake. People like us really don't know how to complain. It is better not to meet each other than to be embarrassed, and there will be no trouble.

In addition, there are always some people who want to be strong in society, and most of them are young people who have just left society. There will be an idea that I really want to know and make friends with people in higher circles. I always want to accumulate personal resources, but in the end, I just draw water with a sieve, and others will only think that you are buttering him up. In the end, you will find that your own value and coffee place are completely different from others, and you can't do anything with the help of other people's resources. On the contrary, you will only increase your troubles and degrade yourself.

In order to make friends conveniently, a series of dating software similar to LinkedIn or Pulse appeared. But I'm afraid only a few people really benefit from it, for nothing else, and the value is not equal. It is really unnecessary to go with the flow and pursue the so-called utilitarian socialization. It is better to do your own job in a down-to-earth manner and let all social activities go with the flow. In this way, I won't be so tired.

Many friends and many walls, people are really good at keeping everything simple.