This Japanese dating variety show will help you understand that truly rich people possess these three qualities!

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Really rich people all have certain characteristics

Some time ago, netizens on Weibo were crazy about a Japanese variety show " Billions of Marriages".

The content of the program is a bit ruinous: five money-worshiping women have to go on a blind date with a rich male guest.

The money-worshiping girls are all young and beautiful, including models, singers, female anchors, former idols of girl groups, and school girls.

On the other side, the male guests are not all rich people. Some of them are real rich people, and some are fakes.

The gold diggers have to judge who is the real rich person based on their words and deeds.

As long as you find a real rich man and confess your love to him, he will really try to date you after you get off the show.

Male No. 1, a tax accountant, is 31 years old. His annual income is confidential. He is the most handsome, so the ladies all feel suspicious.

Male No. 2 is a gym owner who also invests in real estate. He is 36 years old and has an annual income of about 2.7 million yuan. He looks like a replica of Tao Zhe.

Man No. 3, CEO of an IT company, has the highest annual income, 600 million yen (approximately 36 million yuan), and his clothes are a bit fancy.

There are also men No. 4 and 5, who also claim to be operators of large companies.

The blind date has begun. A money-worshiping girl asked IT Man No. 3: "Where do you usually buy clothes?"

The IT man replied without hesitation: "ZARA". Everyone present had expressions of disbelief.

After all, in most people’s minds, wealthy people generally wear high-end clothing and luxury goods.

An ordinary T-shirt from ZARA only costs around 100 yuan. How could a rich person choose such a common fast fashion brand?

On the other side, the fitness man inadvertently revealed his high-end watch and revealed that he was driving an Alfa Romeo.

When it came to the outdoor BBQ interactive session, the IT man took the initiative to open red wine for everyone.

Unexpectedly, the posture was not skillful at all, and the ladies present were even more suspicious:

“Rich people are generally not very good at tasting and opening wine. "?"

The fitness man who was chatting happily with the money-worshiping girl next to him lightly outlined his entrepreneurial experience:

"Because my brother lives in Manhattan, every month I had to take a private plane to go there once.

When I was studying art in California, I happened to learn about a popular weight loss method, and then I returned to China to start a business and achieved career success. ”

In contrast, the IT man’s entrepreneurial experience seems much simpler:

“I hate working for others, so I started my own business after working for half a year.

I am a I am not suitable for people who work for others. It is difficult for me to follow their rules, but I like to create rules.”

When asked where he usually spends his money, the IT man’s thoughts are: Spend your money on experiences.

It is not impossible to buy a car or a brand, but the happiness these things bring to you is short-lived, and you will fall into a sense of emptiness in an instant.

Therefore, he is more willing to spend money on traveling with friends and creating beautiful memories.

How is it? Did you guess it?

A fitness man who wears famous brands and watches and has a background of studying abroad is actually just an 18th-tier actor, not a rich man at all.

The IT man who wears ZARA and is not very skilled at opening red wine is a rich man who doesn’t choose to deduct anything.

The IT man’s real name is Fukuda Takuya. He has appeared in magazines and published books. He has an annual income of 600 million yen at the age of 31.

The money-worshiping girls were shocked and felt like they had lost hundreds of millions.

In fact, truly wealthy people generally have the same three qualities as IT men.

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Don’t deliberately pursue luxury goods

I once met a sister at a party who always talked about famous brands when chatting.

“Yesterday I fell in love with a Dior haute couture dress, the one worn by Angelababy. It was so beautiful.”

“Oh my God, why is that woman still wearing it? I’m wearing an out-of-season LV. It’s so tacky.”

“The salmon here is too stale. For Japanese food, you have to go to the Chikuyotei restaurant in Ginza for it to be delicious.”

I thought this sister must have a well-off family, but after asking about it I found out:

She came out to work from a rural area when she was 16 years old, and now works as an administrative assistant in a foreign-funded company.

Surrounded by colleagues who often traveled abroad on business, she gradually began to have a sense of vanity.

Not braised chicken with rice and Lanzhou ramen;

I live in a 20-square-meter rental house on the edge of the city, but when posting on WeChat Moments, I always like to locate some five-star hotels.

A truly wealthy man will not deliberately pursue luxury goods, let alone show off.

Steve Jobs, who has been wearing a black pullover, Levi’s jeans and New Balance sneakers for ten years;

Zuckerberg, who always has the same round-neck gray in his wardrobe Short-sleeved;

Chow Yun-fat, wearing 15 yuan cheap shoes, riding a bicycle to buy groceries, and donating a net worth of 5.6 billion;

Wang Leehom, was exposed on the show that he always It’s wearing socks full of holes, and wearing a piece of clothing that has been mended for more than ten years...

Jiang Xun, the master of aesthetics, said it well:

"Once you deliberately pursue something Big brands, once you deliberately adhere to any standard, you have lost your taste.

Taste is to be yourself, know what you really want, and know how to live your life. ”

Really rich people do not deliberately pursue luxury goods, but live tastefully.

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I like spending money to buy experience

I once asked my friends:

"Last year, how did you feel about spending money? What is the most worthwhile thing to spend money on?”

Someone said: “I saved up two months of living expenses and went to attend a Mayday concert.”

Someone said. : "I went to Hong Kong Disneyland with my boyfriend."

Others said: "I gave myself a holiday and stayed in Tokyo alone for 5 days."

None of them People think that the most valuable thing to spend money is to buy certain items, but they all buy experiences.

There is a term in psychology called "hedonic adaptation." It means that happiness is always easy for the brain to adapt to.

The things we dream of become less happy the moment we get them.

And if you spend money on experiences, such as buying concert tickets, taking French courses, attending cooking classes, and going to Monaco for vacation. . . . . .

Then, you will feel happier for a longer period of time.

Just as psychologist Gilovich found in research: "Any product that brings excitement will appear mediocre after two weeks of use. But the experience will precipitate and become a part of our self, living in us forever." In life."

Really rich people generally understand this truth: spending money to buy experiences can bring more satisfaction than spending money to buy things.

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Spend time on truly valuable things

Really rich people may be as clumsy in life as IT men .

Because their time is spent on truly valuable things.

For example, Wang Jianlin’s schedule once overwhelmed the circle of friends.

I got up at 4 o'clock in the morning. I was so busy with all kinds of work all day that I didn't even have time to breathe.

For example, when Zhang Chaoyang was live broadcasting at the Wuzhen Internet Conference, he revealed his tight schedule and was so busy that he only slept 4 hours a day.

Go to bed at 1:00, get up at 4:30, watch the news from 5:30-6:30;

7:00-8:00 carefully prepare live broadcast content, 8:00- Live broadcast at 9:00, daily meetings from 12:00 to 18:00;

Running from 18:00 to 19:00...

For example, Bill Gates gets up at 6 o'clock every morning. You can work without sleeping for 36 hours, and then fall asleep for 10 hours.

For example, Apple CEO Cook gets up at 3:45 every morning, is the first to arrive at the office every day, and the last to leave.

For example, General Electric CEO Jeff Immel has worked 100 hours a week for 24 consecutive years.

In contrast, when we go to work, we fish and gossip in the tea room;

When we get home from work, we check Moments, watch short videos, play games, and stay up early in the morning to watch in bed. Cool article.

Why do those big guys like to spend time at work even though they are so rich?

There is a word in psychology called "flow", which refers to:

When people are immersed in something they are doing at the moment, they are fully focused, fully engaged and enjoying it. a mental state.

When flow occurs, there will be a high degree of excitement and fulfillment, and it will be difficult to feel the passage of time.

Some people will have a flow experience when playing games;

And the real bosses will feel selfless happiness when studying and working.

They like challenging projects to gain great satisfaction and sense of achievement;

They do not like to seek short-term pleasure in short videos or mini-games, but rather yearn for Fulfilling happiness, such as deep work, reading, and fitness.

The richer people are, the more they like to spend their time on truly valuable things.

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Written at the end

This variety show of the island country makes people ponder after watching it:

Instead of expecting to marry Rich people, it is better to see and learn the characteristics of rich people first.

This road of life is never easy once and for all.

There is no shortcut, it is better to rely on yourself to become a real King.