What was the most disgusting thing that happened to you on your wedding day, and did it affect your married life?

Many years ago, when I met the true love of my life, my husband, he fulfilled all the dreams I had had about men since childhood. Mature, knowledgeable, wise, tall, with good facial features. A family of intellectuals, well-educated and sensible. Of course, we have our own shortcomings and minor problems. We have been getting along for several years after marriage, and now we are basically stable and balanced, but this is all for another day. At that time, I felt that I had found true love and was a lucky and happy person. We had been together for more than a year, and our relationship was very harmonious, so we decided to enter the sacred palace of marriage and live together for a lifetime.

We received the certificate in August. On December 22 of that year, which was the day of the winter solstice, we checked the almanac and it was an auspicious day, so we held the wedding at the local five-star hotel Qiaohong Crown Hotel. We also invited close relatives, friends and colleagues from both parties to witness our happiness. The environment of the entire hotel is high-end and atmospheric. Although we only invited a small number of people for ten tables, the atmosphere was very lively. Many relatives and friends whom we hadn’t seen for a long time asked us to express our sincere greetings.

The wedding team and emcee on the day were also very awesome. From the exquisite decoration of the venue, the exquisite skills of the makeup artist, the graceful demeanor and professional hosting ability of the emcee, from my father holding my arm to sending me to my husband, to the sweet vows and the exchange of wedding rings. Halfway through the process, I hurried off the stage and went to the dressing room to change into a headdress and a third dress, when something very disgusting happened.

I bought the candy for my wedding myself, from a store recommended by a friend I don’t know very well. In fact, there are quite a few people who make wedding candies. The quality of this store is pretty good. To save trouble, I ordered a lot of wedding souvenirs, wedding candies and other small items there. On the morning of the wedding, the female owner of the wedding candy shop personally delivered it to us, along with a gift of two hundred yuan, asking to help us. Feeling embarrassed, he arranged a seat for her at the wedding banquet.

Because there are some valuables in the dressing room, clothes, handbags and many souvenirs. My husband's family sent my husband's sister-in-law to look after the items for us in the dressing room. When the emcee process was more than halfway through, I came in to change into the third dress. The girl was in the dressing room, my best friend was also there, and my sister-in-law was also there. She said very loudly that when her friend held a wedding, her husband's aunt also looked after the valuables, but in the end a lot of things were lost and it was the aunt who took them away.

As soon as she spoke, the atmosphere in the room suddenly froze. My sister-in-law's face slowly changed, and my best friend was embarrassed and speechless. I was very angry. She was just a stranger selling wedding candies to us. How could she say such rude words out of nowhere. And because she and my best friend are very familiar with each other, my sister-in-law should not have any misunderstandings. The originally happy days may lead to hidden dangers for conflicts.

After the wedding, I explained to my sister-in-law for a long time and apologized to her on behalf of the girl. As for the female boss who bought wedding candies, she later tried to get close to me, but I politely distanced myself from her and never saw her again.