Bai's blind date has failed 60 times. What are the precautions when dating?

The Chinese nation has a long history of 5,000 years and is a veritable cultural nation. Then, in the marriage culture passed down for thousands of years, blind date occupies a very important position. Not only in ancient times, but also in today's advanced technology, information and social communication, blind date has become the love of many young people and old people, and has become the main way for many marriageable men and women to choose their spouses.

Step 1: Preparation before blind date

No matter who introduced the blind date, you have at least a minimum understanding of the other person: height, age, family, marriage experience, work, address, etc.

These simplest materials, if carefully analyzed, can "guess" some of his behavior habits and personality to some extent. If you are rational, you will probably have a certain concept in your heart, and what aspects will you focus on when dating; Emotionally speaking, as long as the other person has one or two qualities you like, you will look forward to the day of blind date.

If conditions permit, you can learn more about each other's lives from the side. In this way, if you know that he/she is excellent and you like him/her very much, you can only make targeted preparations to make the other party equally satisfied with you!

Step 2: First impression

Punctuality, dress and courtesy ... are the most direct manifestations of first impressions.

Punctuality: Whether it's a blind date or not, it's very important. I don't need to go into details. It is suggested that the man arrive 10- 15 minutes before the date, and order drinks and tea; It is most appropriate for the woman to arrive 3-5 minutes in advance.

Dress: Based on your prior knowledge of each other, dress makes them like you. Boys, general requirements: simple and generous, if the weather is suitable, you can try formal attire. Boys generally don't recommend wearing jewelry.

Girls, overall requirements: according to personal preferences, you can wear light makeup or no makeup, clothes, shoes and socks should be clean and tidy, and you can wear one or two pieces of jewelry. Remember not to wear heavy makeup, which will give people a feeling of enchanting and unreal.

Etiquette: Meeting for the first time is always the most precious. Jay Lanster College in the United States conducted a survey: the first sentence and the first action of the first meeting account for 78% of the first impression of the other party on you, which shows its importance. Etiquette is essential to make a good first impression on each other. Boy: Take the initiative to get up and move the stool for the woman, smile generously, keep a proper distance (70- 100 mm), and don't get too close to the woman to avoid embarrassment.

Girl: Steady gait, smiling. When you meet for the first time, you should keep a certain reserve and try to control the volume. You just need to let the two of you hear. When a man pours tea or takes food for you, he should say "thank you" more, and you must sit and stand with dignity.

The third step: the cost during the blind date.

As a 2 1 century gentleman and man, I personally think it is best for the man to pay alone. If your conditions are not too good, you can choose a place with lower consumption. If the woman's conditions are similar to yours, most of them will not abandon you, and more will think that you are real and will live. Of course, it does not rule out that some girls are not well-off and people are generally too materialistic. Many times blind date will have a third party, such as parents, relatives or matchmakers. That would be best. You can give money to your parents or matchmaker in advance and let them pay after dinner. Of course, I suggest that boys pay for their own money, which can give girls an intuitive impression: I will be with him in the future, and the person who pays for it will not be me. (Even if girls really pay with boys' money, girls are naturally stingy and don't want to take money from their own pockets. Girls don't spray, there is no malice. This is what many female friends in Bian Xiao say. )

Of course, there has recently appeared a blind date AA payment method on the Internet, which mostly happens on the basis that both sides have good careers. This way men and women need to discuss in advance and should not be decided in the process of blind date. If you don't discuss it beforehand, then the boy can open your wallet.

Conclusion: Blind date is actually a very subtle emotion. It feels right, everything is not a problem. Generally, people who take part in blind date, both men and women, are mostly experienced people. Therefore, it is best not to pester and beat!