Should the rural elderly serve birthday wine on their 70th birthday? Do you want to ban it? What is the reason?

In the past, people's healthy life span was not long. The old man worked hard all his life, and his children got married and got married. Let them live a leisurely and happy life for a few years when they are old. This is a filial piety from children. As an old man, after 70 years old, he also has a sense of accomplishment and celebrates his birthday.

Now people's living conditions are good, but there are not many children, and some are not around. Many old people don't want to give their children trouble and affect their work and life, so they prolong their life. Some are 70 years old and haven't done it yet. So you can't force it to live forever. The most important thing is to look at the attitude of children. In addition, birthday celebrations are not as earth-shattering as before. Usually gather in a small place, have a reunion dinner, have fun, amuse the elderly and accompany them and their parents. However, some people celebrate the birthday of the elderly because they are exposed to the feelings in his circle and receive gifts. Most of these people are powerful or rich, and their purpose is to show their status and worship their ancestors.

Longevity is an individual's right, and other outsiders have no right to interfere, let alone prohibit it. In rural areas, people and neighbors are not used to attending ceremonies. Of course, if two families have a good relationship or have a child, that is another matter. Celebrating birthdays is different from other weddings and celebrations. Congratulations are entirely voluntary, and there is no custom or etiquette. Holding a birthday party for the elderly is also a manifestation of respecting the elderly. In rural areas with profound folk customs, it is actually very important to inherit this traditional virtue. In fact, there are many traditional virtues such as respecting, respecting, loving and helping the elderly in rural areas. For example, on New Year's Eve, we will give gifts to the elders or kowtow to pay New Year's greetings. In addition, when the elderly celebrate their birthdays, they will also receive collective congratulations and blessings from the younger generation. This is actually the embodiment of the traditional virtue of respecting the elderly. Precious spiritual wealth passed down from generation to generation!

If we treat the elderly sincerely, we should regard every day as their birthday. It doesn't have to be big fish and big meat, as long as it is the favorite of the elderly, it is a vegetable dumpling, a wow head and a bowl of corn porridge. Filial piety is a part of our life! The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; Children should be nourished, but kissing waits for no one! If it is a project to give others face, it is best to spread it out every meal every day. Old people will be happier!