Why do rural people like to set their own banquets instead of going to hotels?

Nowadays, banquets are particularly popular in rural areas. Getting married is a big deal, so arrange the banquet. In addition, there are dozens of birthday parties for the elderly. Maybe I just helped my father celebrate his 60th birthday last year, but this year my mother is 60 again, so I will continue to celebrate her 60th birthday. In recent years, school banquets have become more and more popular. No matter which school you are admitted to, parents will also hold a school banquet for their children! There are so many banquets in rural areas, although it is particularly troublesome to ask many relatives for help every time, many people still choose to hold banquets at home instead of going to hotels. The main reasons are as follows:

1, it is more affordable to have a banquet at home, and it will not cause waste. It is quite affordable to hold a banquet at home, because some poultry, pork and beef will be raised at home, and sometimes you don't have to buy them yourself. If we buy it, we will also buy it from people in the village, which is cheaper. Even many vegetables are grown at home, which can save a lot of money. And in the hotel, you will only eat one meal. After eating, those unfinished dishes are wasted. Few people in the hotel are willing to pack. If there are many people packing at home, the unfinished dishes at home can also be put in the refrigerator and eaten after freezing.

2. It's more lively to have a banquet at home. Generally, there is only one meal in the countryside, but close neighbors and relatives will come to help the day before, then assign everyone's work and prepare the menu for tomorrow's meal one day in advance. Moreover, there is still one day after the main seat to clean up the dishes and eat together, so there are three days before and after, and the home is more lively! The banquet must be lively, so everyone will choose to stay at home. Many people will get together because of this banquet, but if it is in a hotel, many people may give gifts instead of attending in person, so it will not be lively.

3, putting a banquet at home is more face-saving. Although the hotel is luxurious, environmental sanitation and the like may be better. However, it seems more dignified to have a banquet at home. Because it takes more time and energy to hold a banquet at home, if you hold a banquet at home, others will think that you are really attentive and attach great importance to it! But if you are in a hotel, others may say that you just want to make wine to get money, but you don't really want to make this banquet, so you will think that you don't pay enough attention. Moreover, a banquet at home is also in line with most people's tastes. If you go to the hotel, some people may vomit and say that it is not delicious and the weight is not enough!