Confessions of women: cheating, lovers, extramarital affairs, I just tied myself up! What the hell is going on here?

It is a responsibility and a responsibility for two people to form a family. Mutual loyalty is a solid fortress to support this family.

Once any party loses loyalty, it means that this family may collapse at any time. Even if you want to repair it, it is very difficult, because at that time, everything was out of your control.

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Chen Jianghe's wife got married in 10, and she has two sons. He and his wife are separated because they work in other places. Chen Jiang can only go home two or three times a year, so it is inevitable that he will feel lonely outside.

Later, he met Duan Jing, the proprietress, in the hotel. During that time, because I frequented this restaurant, I became familiar with the proprietress in the long run.

On weekends, Chen Qiang slept in the dormitory until noon. He heard someone knocking at the door before getting up. He opened it and paused. It turned out that Duan Jing came to see him and brought him lunch.

At noon that day, the two of them talked a lot together, and Chen Qiang didn't know until that day. Duan Jing recently divorced, and Chen Qiang also told her that she has a wife and two sons.

As soon as I opened my mouth, I felt a feeling of short encounter, and before I knew it, I chatted at night. Chen Qiang stayed at home for dinner, saying that she usually ate her cooking in her restaurant. Today, he wants to lend a helping hand to Duan Jing.

So they went downstairs to the market together and bought vegetables and fish. Chen Qiang cooked three dishes and one soup, and his best sweet and sour fish.

Chen Jiang told Duan Jing that he usually cooks at home, and his wife likes to eat his fried dishes best, saying that his cooking is better than that of the chefs outside.

Duan Jing ate and said, "I'm really happy to be your wife." Chen Qiang is so beautiful.

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After dinner, Duan Jing didn't mean to leave. She told Chen Qiang that I wanted to stay tonight, but Chen Qiang didn't refuse. Because I have been separated from my wife for a long time, the taste of a person is really uncomfortable. Duan Jing is so active, how can he refuse?

In this way, Chen Qiang cheated on his wife and Duan Jing.

With Duan Jing, Chen Qiang felt very satisfied, and Duan Jing never asked him anything. Chen Qiang felt guilty. Later, when he was paid every month, he would transfer part of the money to Duan Jing and give the rest to his wife.

His wife has no idea what he is doing outside, and always tells him to take care of himself when he is alone. Don't send all your money home. Don't be too frugal at ordinary times. Go out to eat when it's time to eat.

His wife's concern made Chen Qiang feel guilty, but as long as he saw Duan Jing, he would forget all his wife and children.

On the eve of the Spring Festival, the company's benefit is not very good, so it needs to have an early holiday. When Chen Jiang telephoned his wife and told her to go back early, she was so happy.

I haven't seen my wife and children for nearly half a year. To tell the truth, Chen Jiang is also eager to be reunited with his wife and children.

However, what he didn't expect was that at this time, Duan Jing proposed to him that he should go back to his hometown as a boyfriend to see his parents, so as to reassure them and stop urging her to get married on a blind date.

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Chen Qiang certainly didn't want to accompany her back to "acting". To tell the truth, he and Duan Jing just take part in accidental amusement. He never thought of leaving his wife and children.

So, he said to Duan Jing, we are together because of loneliness and companionship. I think our relationship will end here in the future.

But to Chen Qiang's surprise, Duan Jing threatened him that she knew his wife's phone number, and if he didn't promise to go home with her this time, she would tell his wife everything.

Chen Qiang was frightened because he knew that his wife was a man with sand in her eyes. She had warned him that if he dared to fool around outside, she would get a divorce.

Besides, Chen Jiang didn't want to divorce his wife. He is almost 40. Divorce for an extramarital woman is not worth the candle.

So, Chen Qiang quickly bought a ticket and set foot on the journey home. He wants to go home early, and then admit his mistake to his wife and ask her for forgiveness.

However, before he went home, Duan Jing really sent a short message to his wife, telling her the truth that they were together. By the time he got home, his wife had gone back to her mother's house with her two sons, and there was a signed divorce agreement on the table.

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Chen Qiang knew that everything was irreversible, and he regretted it very much, but now he knew it was too late.

Marriage is no joke. Only when you make a mistake can you regret it, and finally you can only do it yourself.

Therefore, men should not always think that betrayal is not a big deal, and they can go back to their families when they are tired of playing outside, but it will not be easy to go back then.

There is no regret medicine to buy in this world. If you lose it, you lose it. Maybe you will spend the rest of your life in repentance and regret, but everything you do is useless.

So, don't let the woman who is really good to you down for the sake of temporary loneliness and freshness. You should always remember that true happiness is not a temporary passion, but a long and dull companionship.

What does marriage mean to us? Maybe many men didn't seriously think about this problem when they entered the marriage hall. Therefore, when married life enters a dull period, they often fail to keep their bottom line in the face of external temptations.

Therefore, many originally happy couples, later because of one party's mistake, led to the breakdown of marriage and finally had to end in divorce.

Therefore, a long-term relationship between husband and wife is very important to each of our families. So how can we maintain the feelings between husband and wife in a dull marriage life? How should couples living in two places get along?

Only by truly understanding marriage and what husband and wife mean can we become more rational in marriage life, understand the bottom line of marriage and restrain ourselves.