Zhao: Interpretation of "Tian" (3 1) Ding Yuanying's "Tian Xingjian gentleman strives for self-improvement"

In the last article, we used seven articles to talk about several topics that Ding Yuanying and Han Chufeng talked about on the way to the hotel and after drinking in the hotel, which involved many profound things. You can read the original text more, refer to the interpretation, and leave a message if you don't understand. We can supplement it later.

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I drank with Han Chufeng in Zhengtian Group until late at night, got as drunk as a fiddler, slept all morning, left Beijing the next afternoon, set off for the ancient city, and met Rui for the first time.

When Rui and Xiao went to Frankfurt to find her, they gave her some simple information about it and had opinions on it. This time, seeing the smell of alcohol deepened their prejudice, but because of the small entrustment, they didn't say much, just made a few polite remarks, and settled down and went to find his friend Ouyang Xue.

At this time, Ding Yuanying's impressions in Rui and Ouyang Xue are alcoholism, womanhood and debauchery. Ouyang Xue also confidently believes that she will contact Rui again soon.

Really should be Ding Yuanying's words, everyone thinks he is a dragon born chicken, different, in fact, all the same.

Eight months later, he got his wish.

The Spring Festival is coming, and the policemen are on duty. At this time, Rui Xiaodan thought of the Spring Festival. As a host and a small friend, he should call to see if he needs help to show his concern.

It's just that the content of the call made her a little uncomfortable, and there was a feeling of doing bad things with good intentions, which was very frustrating.

However, Ray Xiao Dan found it difficult to think calmly. What happened? This is obviously a question of "consciousness position", which means that there is no room for anyone to help this program in his mind, only the position where I can do something for you. This is an unconscious and condescending conscious position.

After thinking for a while, Rui Xiao Dan thought it would be better to go there. Opinions belong to opinions, and manners belong to manners. He learned that Ding Yuanying went downstairs to eat three meals a day, every day, and only prepared instant noodles for half a month during the New Year, so he asked Ouyang Xue to arrange for someone to send something that could be cooked with noodles.

Ray Xiao Dan is still a little surprised and confused about Ding Yuanying's living arrangements. She remembered Wen Ya's words: With my intelligence, I can't understand such a person.

But how smart is Wen Ya Jr., even she can't understand it?

Ding Yuanying's behavior is the idea of self-reliance. He deeply realized that the disease of traditional culture in the past depended on words, the favor of the emperor, the savior, friends and himself. It is precisely because of this naive thinking that Ding Yuanying does not rely on people when he is in trouble, and really does not rely on the favor of the emperor, the savior and friends to solve problems from himself, so he can't get out of it, and he is a spirited gentleman.