Men have three kinds of licentiousness to you, but in fact they don't love your performance and will not respect you. what do you think?

It is very difficult to love someone. In the end, the love from eyes to actions, from details to essence, may not be received by the other party.

People who love each other are like a person holding a Morse code book, trying to analyze each other's signals in their own way, which is hard to understand and cannot be * * *. Because of this, the question of whether you love me or not often appears in couples' conversations.

Want to know if the other person loves you, in fact, you can see it in many behaviors of the other person.

In my opinion, whether a man loves you or not depends on whether he will respect you while being intimate.

Why do you say that?

In life, we are too close to a person and often indulge our behavior too much.

For example, when you are with your parents, you sometimes vent your emotions on each other because you are close.

This impudence will hurt each other's feelings, which is really undesirable. However, many people will regard this impudence as a sign of closeness, so as to kidnap their lover and become their own venting tool.

In addition, if a man has these three kinds of licentiousness to you, he can say that he doesn't love you, or that he doesn't know how to love you.

There is no respect between people, so they don't cherish each other. How can I say love?

0 1: I have the audacity to impose my own ideas on you.

A man who really loves you will not let you follow in his footsteps hysterically, but will slow down and wait for you.

The communication between lovers is indispensable for ideological communication, and naturally there will be differences.

The correct way of communication is not that one person brainwashes another person, nor that one person blindly listens to another person, but that two people exchange opinions and choose a safer one after weighing the pros and cons.

However, if you meet someone who is opinionated and just wants to stick to his own opinions and doesn't know how to respect you, don't give up your position in a hurry. On the contrary, only by persisting can you make the other person feel that you are a thoughtful living person, not a vassal of anyone.

If a man only brainwashes you and repeatedly asks you to agree with his ideas, he can only say that he doesn't respect you and doesn't think you are a thoughtful living person.

Such a man really wants to be together for a lifetime, which will only make you depressed and lead a yellow-faced life.

He asked you to quit your job and cook with the children at home, and you listened.

He asked you to do four or five jobs alone to support your family, and you listened.

He asked you to have one child after another, and you listened.

……

Finally, he tells you that he has loved enough and is tired.

All your energy has been exhausted in this kidnapping marriage.

Dear you, let your thoughts dominate your life, not the man who doesn't know how to respect you.

02: Impose your preferences on you impudently.

Men really love you, not only respect your preferences, but also give up their preferences to satisfy you.

One of my readers told me that she married her husband for three years, ate spicy food for three years, and got gastric ulcer.

I asked her in surprise, why didn't you tell her husband that you can't eat spicy food and don't like spicy food?

She said he knew, but he couldn't help eating spicy food. If he didn't eat it for a day, he would feel uncomfortable, so he had to learn to cook some Sichuan and Hunan dishes with injustice.

I asked her, do you think you love him?

She said, of course, otherwise how could I get a gastric ulcer because of his spicy taste?

I asked her again, do you think he loves you?

She was silent for a while before saying, I don't know, it's ok for me anyway.

I said, no, he didn't.

Actually, it's very simple logic. The performance that she loves him is to eat spicy food for him, so how can a man who makes his wife eat spicy food and get gastric ulcer for taste love his wife?

Whether a person loves you or not depends on the time and energy he spends on you and on the practical things and changes he will do for you.

Good for you?

Let's go

03: Make decisions without authorization.

If a man loves you, everything in the future is you.

Some readers asked me, my husband often lets some relatives, friends and colleagues spend the night at his house. What does he want to say, but he thinks it is unreasonable. Moreover, there is no spare room at home, and he always lends them his six-year-old daughter's room, which is very bad.

I'm surprised, but seriously, it's not uncommon.

In the eyes of some hospitable Jianghu men, similar things do not need to be discussed at all. How can people stay in hotels when relatives and friends come?

But the problem is that this is your home, your wife's home and your children's home, and it can't be decided by one person, one vote system.

There are many similar things, such as what furniture to buy, secretly paying the down payment for the car, buying financial investment by yourself and so on.

Remember a word, husband and wife have the same fate, and your wife has the right to decide her own fate.