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You really have no eye!

Whether in the workplace, blind date occasions, private parties or getting along with elders, it seems that as long as someone is there, it is indispensable to "observe words and observe colors." Learning to observe people's emotions is an important ability to get along with others, but not everyone knows how to judge a person's current emotional response through "micro-expression". The relationship between "micro-expression" and emotion is particularly important!

Today I will tell you how to see through a person instantly with psychology-micro-expression!

First of all, surprise: both humans and animals keep the same expression. When people encounter unexpected stimuli, they will stop all activities, look up, open their eyes, lift their eyebrows and open their mouths slightly at the moment they receive the stimulus information, which is very, very short.

Second, disgust: When you see the word "disgust", you will imagine the classic expression in your mind: squinting (meaning don't look), wrinkling your nose (meaning don't smell), bending your mouth backwards, and maybe sticking out your tongue (meaning don't eat). Yes, the source of disgust is the rejection of rotten food. Because ancient ancestors ate rotten food, which caused strong discomfort, when they saw and smelled rotten food, they instinctively rejected these things.

3. Anger: The stimulation of anger is usually evaluated as an evenly matched object by emotional holders, so the expression of anger will take several unified forms: first, frowning indicates strong concern; The second is to try to raise your eyelids and carefully observe the every move of the stimulus source. Anger also has a remarkable feature, that is, eyes stay, breathing is aggravated, muscles are tense, and everything is prepared for the next offensive action.

Fourth, fear: fear is the oldest emotion of human beings. Because human beings did not have the advantage of hand-to-hand combat in ancient times, they belonged to the lower part of the food chain, so when encountering carnivorous beasts, fear appeared far more than anger. The expression of fear has three basic typical characteristics: the eyebrows gather in the middle and rise, the eyes are wide open and the mouth is open.

5. Sadness: The sad expression is directly related to crying. The first action after a person falls to the ground is crying. Of course, the crying of babies is not only used to express sadness, but also to express all negative emotions such as anger, disgust and fear. The typical action features of sadness are frowning, drooping eyelids and downward lip angle.

6. Pleasure: Pleasure is the only positive emotion among the six emotions, and when it comes to pleasant mood, it will naturally be associated with a smile, which is the most complicated and suitable expression in human social interaction. The two parts most associated with laughter are the eyes and mouth, and the most typical one is "the corner of the eye is down and the corner of the mouth is up".

7. Lying: Most people know that if a person's eyes are evasive and erratic when talking, then this person is probably lying. But you should know that the latest research shows that some scammers deliberately make eye contact with you for a long time to avoid appearing evasive. Even some experts make more eye contact when they lie, so that you can judge whether you believe his lies by your expression. When a liar looks into your eyes, his body will appear stiff, unnatural, motionless, his eyes will not blink, his eyes will open too wide, and even people will feel a little uncomfortable.

Finally, although micro-expressions are difficult to control, we can't judge others completely by micro-expressions. Some people have their own unique habits. But more micro-expression knowledge can help people see through others and be loved by others.