Have you ever missed a hint from the opposite sex, only to regret it too late?

I must have missed it. Now that I think about it, I was still too naive at the time. Unfortunately, good things cannot come a second time.

1. Send a drunk female classmate home after high school graduation.

On the first night after the college entrance examination, the classmates in our class began to gather together to eat. Then one of the girls drank too much and asked me to take her home. At that time, I also Without thinking much, I felt that as a big boy, I would have no problem sending a girl home. Then when I went back, because there was still a way to go, her whole body was pressed against my body (she only After drinking more than one glass of beer), it took a lot of effort to bring her to her home. It was on the sixth floor. It was really tiring to support another person. After she got home, I was I planned to leave, because at that time I felt that the atmosphere was starting to become a bit ambiguous. Even if she asked to stay for a glass of water or something, I would still leave without hesitation. In this way, an ambiguous opportunity was passed by me.

2. Now that I have a girlfriend, I rarely communicate with the opposite sex. I try to avoid having too ambiguous relationships.

Since I had a girlfriend, I rarely communicate with the opposite sex. Even if I do communicate, it is only with those who are more playful, and they are basically just chatting. I never go out alone with the opposite sex. After all, I already have a girlfriend. It’s not good to be too close to other members of the opposite sex. The girls I mentioned above who are a bit ambiguous basically just say a few words occasionally. Nothing further.

I think since we have chosen each other as each other’s female (male) friends, then we have to give up some things, such as being too close to the opposite sex. It would be okay if the other party doesn’t mind so much. , it doesn’t matter much, but if the other party really cares too much, it’s over. You have to take a multiple-choice question. I did this multiple-choice question without exception. In order to be with her better, I chose Give up too much communication with the opposite sex.

3. The opposite sex may have given you hints, but if you miss it, you have missed it. If you have the chance in the future, cultivate it slowly. If you don’t have the chance, this will also be a beautiful memory.

If the opposite sex has a hint to you, but you don't understand it, then the two people behind you still have to pretend that nothing happened. You can't just be an afterthought because of what happened. Not even friends anymore, right? And if things develop well in the future, the two people will still come together naturally, and they will not stop getting together because of this lack of hints. It is never too late to meet the right person. We must have enough patience. , if two people really feel too embarrassed to even be friends because of the suggestion of this issue, then how can they be lovers? Couples know that sometimes there will be embarrassing situations with each other, but they still insist on being together. This is called a couple. Just because of a hint, they stop being friends. I think even if they really get together in the end, Relationships don't last too long.

I did miss the hints girls gave me, but I didn’t catch them at the time. Now she has her boyfriend, I also have my girlfriend, and our relationship is still the same. The relationship between friends has not been damaged too much. I think this state is a good state. Don't die because you missed a hint. Love cannot be rushed. Wait for the right person slowly.