Chen Sicheng has become accustomed to cheating, why did Tong Liya choose to forgive?

This year’s Spring Festival Gala hosting team has undergone great changes. Tong Liya joined the main venue. This reminds me of a sentence, no matter how many setbacks and hardships a woman experiences, if a woman becomes wise, she will really There is nothing wrong with men.

My impression of Tong Liya is still in "Beijing Love Story", in which Shi Xiaomeng was Tong Liya's first boyfriend, but under the living conditions at that time, Shi Xiaomeng led Tong Liya into an ordinary life. But after the intervention of my good friend, the whole life has changed. Perhaps for us, we are still marginalized people living in the city. Pure love is always a luxury hope. For Tong Liya, at least now it seems I am happy. Although I have experienced marriage changes, I have learned to be strong. Be positive and your efforts will always be rewarded

Tong Liya was born in Xinjiang in 1983. She has been very interested in dance performances since she was a child. She entered a dance performance class when she was 6 years old, and her academic performance is very good. Excellent, she was assigned to the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe as a dancer in the later period. At this time, Tong Liya only had a love for art in her heart. She believed that she could be admitted to the Drama Academy with hard work and receive professional knowledge. Finally, in 2004, Tong Liya became a dancer in Xinjiang The first Xibe student to be admitted to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama.

Professional knowledge is not as easy as imagined for Tong Liya. After all, there are only a few people with different talents. The success of something depends more on the degree of love for it. Only by accumulating hard can you get things that others can't get, but persistence is something that has to be done all the time. It is difficult for ordinary people, and it is also the same for Tong Liya.

By chance, Tong Liya participated in "New Love" during her sophomore year, and has since embarked on the film and television industry. The road today was far from smooth sailing as imagined. It was more bumpy and dormant. While accumulating experience, we grasped the "insignificant" opportunities. In 2008, Tong Liya rose to prominence in the film and television industry with "Mother's Grace" and gained recognition from the public. For Tong Liya at that time, this was not only career recognition, but also recognition of her persistence for such a long time. .

Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared. After the broadcast of "Beijing Love Story" in 2012, Tong Liya received widespread praise. Tong Liya finally had her day in her career. At the same time, in 2014 After the movie "Beijing Love Story" was broadcast, it has achieved great growth in terms of box office revenue and personal popularity. It turns out that opportunities are equal to everyone, it just depends on whether you seize it or not.

In the face of realizing self-worth, opportunities can only be seen after you pay, rather than suddenly one day an opportunity comes to you and tells you that you can succeed. The reason why Tong Liya is able to succeed in her career is more because of her persistence in her career. If you put it another way, it can be called strong. It is still difficult for her to succeed in the world alone. Film and television dramas, let Tong Liya has blazed her own path. Because of the drama, I thought he would get better, but my luck turned into disappointment

The most feared thing about career success is changes in relationships. I thought my life could be changed, but marriage changes appeared in Tong Liya's life. Among them, this kind of thing is always unpredictable, but it catches people off guard. I thought that if I put all my feelings on one person, my life would become happier, but in the end I realized that relying on others will always be insecure. Only when you are strong, others will not underestimate you.

There is a very important man in Tong Liya’s life. As the director, Chen Sicheng met Tong Liya because of "Beijing Love Story". Because of the filming, he went home late every day. For Tong Liya, Yan said that at that time, he was more like a small boat drifting in the ocean, because according to the custom of the Xibe people, the cemetery at home would only be reserved for his son and daughter-in-law, not his daughter. This is a rule and a distance. , there was an indescribable feeling in Tong Liya's heart.

At this time, Chen Sicheng broke into Tong Liya's life. His pure appearance and thin body made Chen Sicheng feel a little distressed at the time. Maybe at this time, Chen Sicheng fell in love with Tong Liya. I have to say that Chen Sicheng has a eloquent mouth and can take practical actions for the people he loves. He secretly deleted the scenes between Zhang Yi and Li Chen through filming, and tried to add scenes of his relationship with Tong Liya, just to be able to The two of them are closer to each other. Perhaps the love at this time is the most precious.

During the New Year this year, Tong Liya did not go home, but Chen Sicheng came to her side to accompany him to celebrate the New Year. This most feared loneliness and loneliness, Chen Sicheng took him to eat a bowl of noodles, and from then on After that, Tong Liya suddenly discovered that the man next to her looked good, but there were rumors that Chen Sicheng was not a reliable person. At this time, she felt a lot of hesitation in her heart and didn't know what to do.

"He was unreliable before, maybe he will be reliable in the future." This sentence was Yang Mi's words of persuasion to Tong Liya when he learned that Chen Sicheng was pursuing Tong Liya. I believe it. On February 22, 2012, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng confirmed their relationship. Especially on "Happy Camp" in 2012, Tong Liya looked happy, just like a little girl in love, but Chen Sicheng There is an air of having nothing to do with oneself. Maybe all luck will become hardships in the years to come. I thought Chen Sicheng would be reliable, but the final result made me disappointed. When "cheating" becomes a habit, why is Chen Sicheng so unscrupulous?

In mid-June 2014, Chen Sicheng and Zhang Xuan had a secret meeting together for six hours. The two held hands together. This day happened to be Zhang Xuan's birthday, and they sent a photo to thank someone for celebrating her birthday. On June 18, Chen Sicheng and Li Chun kept arguing on the street. If I were a married man, I would definitely not behave like this. Then in August 2015, Chen Sicheng and Wang Tianchu were involved in everything. He also bought many valuables for the other party. At this time, Tong Liya was pregnant. Then Wang Tianchu said frankly, "I didn't know he had a family." Tong Liya chose to forgive.

I thought this was the last time, but for Chen Sicheng, it might be just the beginning. After the birth of the child at the end of January 2016, Tong Liya recorded "Real Man", while Chen Sicheng and Internet celebrity Ye Zixi The tryst in the hotel was followed by the "Fight the Landlord" incident. I had a tryst with two women one night. The two women left the hotel at noon the next day. One of the two women was Wang Tianchu, who kept giving in. What resulted was infidelity again and again. If a woman did this, she would probably be scolded, but it was Chen Sicheng who cheated. With unrestricted tolerance, isn’t it the one who gets hurt in the end?

When they got married in 2014, Tong Liya's father said, "I hope that after arriving at the Chen family, you can do more work, cook for Lao Chen, and serve him." If it were replaced by It is difficult for today's parents to say that their daughter is a little princess beside them, why should she become a nanny and daughter-in-law when she goes to someone else's home?

At the same time, after Chen Sicheng’s affair, Tong Liya’s father liked a Weibo post, which wrote about “patience”: “Develop a patient, open-minded, wise heart, and happiness. will come”. Maybe in Chen Sicheng's heart, Tong Liya's father is his "gold medal to avoid death". No matter how outrageous things he does, he will eventually be forgiven. However, using the idea of ??"men are superior to women" to explain his father's behavior may make Chen Sicheng It's easier for us to understand.

For Chen Sicheng, his idea may be simpler. In February 2014, when Chen Sicheng was promoting a new movie, he was asked by reporters "whether he accepts extramarital affairs." Chen Sicheng did not immediately refuse or affirm. It may be a vague feeling, but Tong Liya's response was "I think... it's good to just go home." Perhaps from the beginning, Tong Liya was in a weak position in their marriage, and this situation continued to show up as they recorded the program.

When she is angry, Tong Liya will bow her head first, and sometimes she even needs to resolve herself. If it were me, I definitely wouldn't be able to do that.

Perhaps Chen Sicheng’s lack of scruples is also due to Tong Liya’s “dare not to speak out, dare not make trouble”. Perhaps in Tong Liya’s heart, this family is more important than anything else. Maybe it really is warmth and warmth. I know it, but at least I can’t stand it. Summary

From a personal point of view, the reason why I hate Chen Sicheng is simply because he got the goddess that the public dreams of, but he does not cherish it at all. "Various cheating" occurs frequently, and at the same time, I also feel a little unworthy of Tong Liya, I feel like I don't take myself seriously, at least there is no due respect in the relationship. Maybe sometimes the relationship is like Zhou Yu hitting the yellow cover, one is willing to hit, and the other is willing to suffer.

No matter what the outside world thinks, Tong Liya always remains silent. Tong Liya chooses to be silent when it comes to others, and the same is true for Chen Sicheng, but she has changed her lifestyle, taking her son to the crew to film, and has a career and a family. None of them fell behind. She ranked 38th on the Celebrity List in 2017, and her movie "Cohabitation in Time and Space" reached a box office of 900 million. No matter whether she has family members or not, Tong Liya has never relaxed about herself. No matter whether she has low self-esteem or not, At least I see the strength of a woman in her. What do you think? Welcome to leave a comment below.