Why do I think it's a dirty thing for those couples to open a room? Although I am still single, do I have psychological barriers?

1 This is not a psychological obstacle, but a cognitive deviation. This is closely related to the idea that all relationships with "love" and "sex" are dirty when you are growing up.

This concept may come from your family, whose values are conservative, implicit and orthodox, and they will not talk about the topic of "love and sex" easily. Such values have also been inherited by you. You must be afraid to talk about this topic in public, because you think it is very dirty.

Not only you, but also many people have such conservative ideas. They are not the result of their own cognition, but the result of being strengthened when they grow up.

It's like a child asking his mother, "Where am I from?" In the past, my parents basically told us that they were picked up, but they dared not tell us that they were born through sexual channels after their parents fell in love. In their minds, sex is indescribable. But with the change of society and values, we will change slowly. Nowadays, parents will tell their children that "your birth was planted by your father's seeds in your mother's stomach." In western kindergartens, there are open classes to tell children how they were born. Children don't misinterpret sex.

So your cognition is not objective, but if your knowledge structure is more and more, you will face the needs of human nature calmly instead of looking at a problem with colored glasses.

For example, the industry of "Miss" is still unacceptable to many people, but throughout history, this industry has existed since human beings, regardless of ancient and modern times, and the reasons are the embodiment of human needs. But "morality" has become the standard of contempt for people. It is impossible to really change the "moral concept" for a while. You need to establish a broad visual point and think about the problem itself, so as not to flaunt morality and despise the surroundings.