The wife has a tryst with many men at home, but the husband knows but does not divorce. What is the truth behind it?

What are the inner thoughts of those women who are unable to turn back after an extramarital affair but are unwilling to divorce? It may vary from person to person.

Some of them are stuck in the mud, and in fact they can't get out easily; There are also some people who hold the idea of luck and think that they can wander between extramarital affairs and play hard at the same time.

So, which men find that their wives have cheated on each other many times, and have no idea of turning back, but they don't divorce when they know it?

Let's take some time to listen to the narratives of the following people who have experienced together, and we will certainly get some insights.

1. Mr. Hu, my wife, this woman, is completely hopeless. She often cheats and finds a lot.

Maybe she thought it would prove that she was attractive. I don't know what she's thinking, but she never offered to divorce me.

As for me, because I want to leave my family property to my children, I have no choice but to divorce.

But as a man, I can't swallow this tone, and I'm determined to take revenge all my life. The way of revenge is to stall her and consume her.

From then on, I no longer have any concerns about her, but what she should do at home must be done consciously. Living a husband-and-wife life with her or something, and still maintaining the same old style.

Why not? Although I don't love her anymore, I can use her as a tool for free venting, and I can also solve the hatred in my heart, right? In addition, if you have the opportunity, you can be chic and find a balance.

In this way, I quietly responded to the harm caused by her infidelity. I think it is absolutely wonderful!

It takes all efforts for adults to be loyal to their feelings, but it is quite easy to let go of themselves. Who's afraid of who?

2. Mr. Shen, hehe, the man above talked about my heart, and now he has the same mentality of staying married as his wife.

I am in the same situation as him. It's almost seven or eight years since I found out that my wife cheated on me many times. I completely pretended not to know, and I was too lazy to divorce her.

She's probably still gloating over there, thinking she caught me. I have no choice but to face the reality and swallow it, right? Although my own ability is generally a fact, if I only care about my own happiness, I can take care of myself, but my children will suffer.

Besides, I don't want to take advantage of her! Leaving is just to reassure her, and it is impossible to retaliate.

So, without much entanglement, I chose to bear it. Anyway, I can't love a dirty woman whose heart is not with me. It is better to tie it together and make do with it!

I don't know if I can survive another 20 years, but at least during my marriage, I will try my best to punish her and repay her in every possible way.

As for the specific action, it is exactly the same as that of the gentleman above.

3. Mr. Chai, I am more convenient than the above two brothers, and I am too lazy to retaliate against my wife who is addicted to cheating.

Her ability and income are stronger than mine, which may be the reason why she didn't take my marriage seriously and cheated many times.

I was very angry when I found out, but I calmed down and wanted to open my heart.

Now she doesn't take me seriously. Now that I've cheated, it won't help if I get angry again. If I want to get rid of it, there is only one way: divorce.

But I don't want to. I feel hurt by her and set her free, then I will lose more! She didn't mention divorce? That proves that at least you can make do with me. That's all.

With her, I can live a stable and comfortable life, at least not like all the family burdens fall on my shoulders after divorce. So as long as I can do this, I will be relieved and satisfied.

Moreover, I can take back all my previous feelings about her, and I can live quite comfortably without caring about her existence!

Conclusion: Men are naturally more rational.

Therefore, it is not common to concentrate all love on a relationship and put it on a heterosexual. Even in love and marriage, this relationship is only a part of a man's life, not the whole thing.

Therefore, it is a fact that they are always calmer and more realistic.

It is not easy for a wife to try her best to get her husband's full attention, not to mention that you have completely lost your loyalty and betrayed each other again and again.

If a man doesn't mention divorce after finding out, it's absolutely impossible, because he loves this woman too much to extricate himself, mostly because he thinks it's more beneficial to him, and he can get back at each other under consideration.

The reason and reason are almost all explained by the man in this article.

Once a woman inspires selfishness and ruthlessness in a man's heart with her actions, don't expect the other person to be sincere to you and live a good life with you wholeheartedly.

Therefore, the expansion of self-satisfaction can be put away. Although you are really happy outside, you can't guarantee that your husband will almost let himself live with you in a more realistic and utilized attitude from the time he finds out.

Will this marriage be happy? I'm afraid that in a few decades, the parties themselves will sum up their experience, and it's too early for others to say anything now.