What do I want with my Cancer husband?

I am a Cancer man. Cancer men are a very charming group. They are gentle, delicate, smart, humorous, and very graceful. Therefore, many girls are obsessed with Cancer men until they can't help themselves. , and I just want to analyze the emotional thinking of Cancer men based on my own understanding of emotions and love.

1. Generally speaking, Cancer men are generally more emotional. They look strong on the outside, but are actually very fragile on the inside. They are easily moved and excited, and can shed tears easily.

Cancer men generally have strong analytical skills. They can find evidence of your crime through a few clues, and they can even analyze your crime in detail, making you feel like him. It's the roundworm in your stomach. You can't even hide the thoughts in your head from him, because Cancer has strong intuition, and generally his intuition is relatively correct. So, never lie to a Cancer guy, you will die miserably.

2. Cancer men are generally very possessive and controlling, and a bit chauvinistic. Please note that masculinity and gentleness and thoughtfulness are not contradictory. A Cancer man likes his girlfriend to rely on him very much. Of course, the premise is that he likes the girlfriend. This is very important; if it is not the girl he likes, he will not be interested at all. , if you stick too close to him, he will feel annoyed and hide away.

Cancer will be very careful and focused on the girl he likes. Once he really likes a girl and starts dating, he will usually put all his feelings and energy into it. He hurt her very much and was afraid that she would get hurt.

In fact, not only for the girl he likes, a Cancer man cherishes everything he owns, and he is the kind of person who is very nostalgic. He is definitely not the kind of person who has no stereotypes. A person who likes the new and hates the old may find a very worn-out gadget when looking through the cabinet. It may have no value at all in the eyes of others, but he will find it so precious that he is reluctant to throw it away.

This is reflected emotionally, that is, it is generally difficult for him to completely sever ties with his ex-girlfriend, especially sexual relations. As long as his ex-girlfriend is not the kind of person who stalks, the breakup will be simple and easy. She is the kind of person who won't bother him often. It's usually difficult for a Cancer to resist her occasional indulgence.

Of course, Cancer's ambiguous relationship with his ex-lover is limited to physical matters and has absolutely nothing to do with feelings. So, if you break up with your Cancer boyfriend, and you suddenly meet one day, and he expresses "sexual interest" in you, you must not think that it is because he loves you, absolutely not, he just simply regards you as His items are only used for occasional "use".

If you ask for emotional repayment from him because he had a relationship with you after breaking up, then he will stay away and leave no room for you. Therefore, Cancer boys generally have more lovers.

This is not to say that Cancer is not focused on feelings. In fact, the communication between him and his lover is definitely just physical communication, and there will not be too many emotional factors. To sum it up in that sentence, he just regards his lover as his own belongings and uses it occasionally. This situation usually manifests in those Cancers who have not found true love. This is what is commonly called the alternative among Cancers. The following will analyze why there is such an alternative.

3. Cancer has very high requirements for love partners. He usually has very strict requirements for his marriage partner, and he has a very clear concept of his future partner. He is generally very strict. Position your significant other according to that concept.

So Cancer has a very clear positioning on his friends of the opposite sex, and from the moment he starts dating, he has already positioned the relationship between two people, and this positioning is generally difficult to change. For example, If he positions a person of the opposite sex as his lover, then he falls in love with her just for fun. In this case, it will be difficult for the girl to be corrected in his heart, because if he can position you as his future wife, he will definitely It will not be positioned as any other relationship, he is very clear about this.

When Cancer positions his new girlfriend as a playful relationship, he will not refuse the embrace of his old lovers. This is the alternative among Cancers mentioned in 2.

In fact, the reason why they become an alternative is because Cancer has very high requirements for their true love. Some Cancers will never find a girlfriend that they can love sincerely, so they may remain an alternative for the rest of their lives. Because Cancer has a very clear positioning of their relationship partners and it is generally difficult to change.

If he is in a relationship with an old lover, and if the old lover threatens his relationship with his current girlfriend, no matter what his position is for his current girlfriend, he will mercilessly kick the old lover away to protect him. Existing relationships. Moreover, he will solve all these problems before his current girlfriend even notices it. This is what Cancer calls "specialty", so no matter what kind of girlfriend Cancer positions you as, you will feel that he is very special.