My girlfriend is a nurse. What kind of mentality is it to like going to bars?

Nowadays, people are not so traditional and closed. Few people think it's bad to go to a bar, which is full of immoral people. Now most people accept going to bars for entertainment, which is nothing.

Your girlfriend likes to go to bars, and she probably has the following ideas.

My first thought is to make more friends. After all, your girlfriend is a nurse. This job is relatively closed. Usually, she meets either doctors, patients or their families. She deals with these people every day. I am busy at work and have no time to make other friends, so I want to take this opportunity to meet some cheerful and lively people in the bar.

My second idea is to release the pressure of work. The relationship between doctors and patients is particularly tense at present. If some patients are sick, they have a particularly bad temper, especially yelling at the nurses. Either they hurt themselves by injection, or they didn't dress the wound when changing the medicine, or the pillow was given too high. Every day, it's either this fault or that fault. She suffers from the oppression of others, and she is particularly wronged. She seldom contacts you and doesn't like complaining so much with you, which may affect your mood, so she wants to go to a bar to drink and dance, release her pressure and forget those unhappy things.

The third idea is purely to pursue personal sentiment and want to enjoy the happiness of life more. Originally, the profession of nurse was relatively dull. Usually, she needs to give people a serious look, so her original personality must be disguised. Every day she doesn't listen to this complaint and that complaint. She has no personal space at all, so what she wants here is herself, that is, to enjoy living and to be able to release her nature here.

As her boyfriend, you should take care of her personal emotions at ordinary times. If she only goes to the bar to pursue these things, I don't think you need to be so nervous. If you are afraid that she has other ideas, you can go to the bar with her and see what she is doing in the bar. If you think she will hide some little secrets by going, you will arm yourself to follow her? Either wait for her in the bar where she often goes, secretly observe whether she is having an affair with anyone, or play with some strangers. If she just drinks and dances with her, don't doubt her any more.