What is the contact process?

In fact, engagement is just like marriage, which requires both parents to choose an auspicious day to hold.

2. Draw up the number of wedding banquets

You don't need to invite too many guests to get engaged, mainly family members. Generally, men go to women's homes, even numbers are better.

3. Determine the agreed place

Generally, you can choose your own home or hotel as the engagement place.

If you choose a home, you will usually do it in the woman's home to show her respect. In some areas, women go to men's homes. This is decided according to local customs or mutual agreement, and there is no mandatory provision.

If you choose a hotel, you can book a big box. The space should not be too small. If the guests on both sides are unfamiliar, the larger space will not feel constrained.

To book a hotel, you need to determine the number of people present and choose a box of the right size.

Step 4 choose engagement clothes

Engagement clothes don't need to be too formal, just choose decent clothes. You can choose a clean and fresh skirt in summer; You can choose a decent coat in winter.

This man has prepared a list.

I. Dowry

Sanjin/Hardware: Traditional Sanjin refers to: gold necklace, gold earrings and gold ring; Hardware refers to necklaces, rings, earrings, bracelets and anklets.

B, bride price

According to local customs, it depends on the amount agreed by both parties (even number is appropriate)

C, matchmaker ceremony

D, banquet ceremony

E, engagement ring

6, the woman to prepare items

Prepare a set of 6 or 12 personal belongings for the man, mainly including: suit, tie, cuff nail, belt, shoes, bag, watch, etc.

The above is the process of engagement. Here, Bian Xiao still reminds everyone that engagement should be carried out according to local customs.

Extended data:

Engagement is a kind of contractual behavior in law, and it is also an identity contract. This identity contract has several characteristics:

1, the engagement shall not be concluded through agency, otherwise it will not have legal effect; In other words, the engagement can only be established if both men and women agree.

2. Only those who have the legal capacity for engagement can engage in engagement. The legal definition of engagement ability is based on age: male 17 years old, female 15 years old. A marriage contract concluded in violation of this provision is not invalid, but the parties or legal representatives may request the court to cancel it. Because, for minors under the age of 20, their engagement must be approved by the legal representative.

3. The engagement should not be enforced. Although the engagement should be observed, it should also follow the wishes of both men and women. If one party fails to perform, it cannot be enforced.

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