How to retaliate against a married mistress (should the original wife retaliate against a third party)

Some time ago, I received a message from a reader:

Teacher, I hate that woman. She is integrated into my family. I wish I could die with her. What should I do?

Readers also posted many bad things done by third parties, which angered her. Her anger seems to infect me through the screen.

Should the original wife retaliate against a third party? How can I give the deepest revenge to the third party?

You can look at a case that happened to me first:

My second uncle is a complete failure. He has been married and divorced many times.

My second uncle's ex-wife is a very gentle and thin woman. Who would have thought that such a gentle and thin woman would become a shrew?

When she found out that my second uncle was cheating, she was completely black and did a lot of jaw-dropping things.

First, she asked someone to investigate the name, home address, telephone number, work unit and parents' address of a third party.

Then she printed a lot of colorful leaflets on the Internet, printed photos of the third party, printed the mobile phone number of the third party, and some things she did. Collect leaflets in the homes of third-party parents and distribute them in the workplace.

Second, call a third party, insult her and scold her.

The third thing is to expose the phone number and home address of the third party on the dating network, so that others can think that the third party is a lady.

She also did a lot of radical things. The day after the leaflet was posted, she came to my house in tears and told my mother how difficult and wronged her marriage was.

What's the point of her doing this?

Yes, she retaliated against the third party because the third party destroyed her family. But it takes two hands to make a sound, and two uncles destroy the family.

Obviously, Bohr hurt her, and Bohr cheated on her again and again. Besides, she did such a big thing that a third party clamored to sue her.

When Bohr came home, the first thing he did was to find fault with her.

Left is a bitch, right is ignorant of law.

Bohr said with great sacrifice, "If I hadn't persuaded Xiaoli (the third party), you would have to go to jail now."

After that, Bohr never went home until he divorced Bohr.

Do you think my ex-wife Bohr did a good job? Did you do the right thing?

Japanese are really Japanese. Wrong. Really wrong.

It is illegal to damage the reputation of others. If it weren't for private mediation, she would probably go to prison.

The original wife never needs to kill 800 enemies and lose 1000 enemies, because the third party is not worthy.

Why doesn't the marriage counselor recommend revenge against the third party?

First of all, I lost my dignity

Some time ago, the president's wife personally pickpocketed the third party among network celebrities. On the internet, she often sees her original wife beating a third party, or tearing with a third party in the street.

I still remember the social news I watched before. My ex-wife was caught in a hotel, raped and stripped of a third party's clothes.

Netizens are watching the excitement, and the comments of male netizens are all one-sided, saying that the original match is such a bitch, no wonder her husband cheated!

The original wife was righteous, but she lost her dignity and looked ferocious because she couldn't control her anger.

Second, the loss outweighs the gain.

Revenge on the third party, hit the third party, can only alleviate the temporary anger. But there are also many sequelae.

Hit a third party and get even. If someone wants to sue you, you will either lose money or go to jail, which is not worth the loss.

What you do will only hurt the people who love you. Your relatives, friends and children will feel sad and worried about you, and a third party will take advantage of this and sell it in your husband's arms.

Wei Qing's marriage counselor thinks:

Many women feel that a third party has hurt my family, and I must get back at her and make her realize my pain.

At this time, it is better to let the original wife calm down, seriously consider the future of her marriage, and carefully sort out the marital property.

If your husband bought a gift jewelry for a third party, you can ask for repayment; If your husband bought a car to buy a house for a third party, you can immediately sue the third party and ask the third party to return the purchase price on the grounds of illegally handling the same property of the husband and wife.

At the same time enrich your heart.

The third party is just an episode in your life, and you don't need to treat it with your heart. You have a good life, which is the biggest revenge for the third party.