My sister is getting engaged. I would like to ask about the procedures and customs of engagement or marriage in Chifeng City, Inner Mongolia.

1, several wedding cars go to the bride's house (next of kin, car escort) to eat melon seeds and so on. The bride's family gave the hostess a red envelope (500 yuan) and the driver a red envelope (50, 100).

2. When the bride gets on the bus, she is accompanied by a mirror, a bridesmaid or a sister.

The wedding car drove to the new house (wedding room), where firecrackers were set off, and the younger brothers here robbed the bride of her shoes and corsage (mirrors can't be robbed, that's contraband) for money. After the red envelope is issued, I will enter the first door, and the expenses I need will be paid by my parents. (According to the different means of collecting money from relatives and friends, you need to prepare 300 packets of red envelopes. When you enter the second door, the groom's family will give you (prepare 300 red envelopes), some have the third door, and some don't. The third door is almost in the wedding room. This door needs more red envelopes.

4. The bride and groom enter the wedding room and take photos as a souvenir.

5. Go to the hotel to greet every wedding guest.

6.toast.

7. End.

Marriage: Marriage depends on the prestige in Chifeng, and the witnesses are highly respected, usually the leaders of our city (second-tier, high-level leaders rarely get married).

Some things before marriage are to decide what to give first, and then talk about fighting together.

When I got married, I had a house (about 300 thousand). I gave my wife hardware (rings, earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces), and my mother-in-law took it to buy it. The amount depends on your wife's means of collecting money and your family's financial resources. We spent 20 thousand.

The woman's family gave us 0.2 million/200 thousand cash and a 70 thousand car, furniture and household appliances (the grade depends on your financial resources) Of course, my wife has money. Some women don't give it if they have no money.

We can bring our own cigarettes and wine at the wedding. We were holding cigarettes of Jinliufu and Double Happiness.

I forgot to mention, there are also change fees and waist pressing money. We each pay 1 0,000 for the change of mouth fee and waist pressing fee, and the two companies give the same.

The price of my marriage

The man's house is300,000 yuan

Wedding 30 thousand

Jewelry and other 30 thousand,

Almost 400 thousand.

My wife's family expenses

Cash 200 thousand

Wedding 1 10,000

Furniture, etc. 6.5438 million.

About 300 thousand.

Of course, my wife is the only child in the family, and the family is very rich. Generally, people with ordinary family circumstances will give nothing, and when they meet people with younger sons, they will get nothing.

Marital income:

65438+200,000 cash

2.2 room 1. 1 The room is in my father's name, 1 The room is in my wife's name.

Step 3: a car

4. Twenty thousand yuan for the wedding ceremony.

Marriage is very worthwhile for wealthy families, but for ordinary families, it will leave a house and a car.

Of course, it is best not to be a neet. The second marriage hollowed out many people's property.

If you have to give it at home, there's nothing anyone can do.

Girls in our city usually want a house when they get married, but not many want a car. If the man has money, chasing the sentimental wife is almost bankrupt, and some even can't marry.

If the two companies are equal in strength, everything will be simple.

Personally, I think it is necessary to have a house, so don't sleep on the street. I really can't live in my mother-in-law's house, or rent a house, or let my wife be wronged.

The older generation in our city attaches great importance to face, but not to the love of new people.

I think many people say that they can't afford a wife, and they have no money and no feelings.

Some enlightened parents discuss marriage and decide whether the wedding is good or bad according to their own economic foundation.

Some people who have no money ask their son-in-law for money, while those who have money ask their son-in-law for important people.