Inventory of wedding customs in various parts of Henan province and wedding customs competition with local characteristics.

Wedding customs have a long history and are constantly changing, with distinctive characteristics of the times. They are also an important part of traditional customs in China, and wedding customs vary from place to place in China. Let's take a look at the marriage customs in various parts of Henan.

Puyang, the marriage customs in various parts of Henan

Puyang's early feudal thought was so serious that it was incompatible with water and fire. Even if the portals were opposite, they could not get married. Just like men and women are dragons and tigers. Dragon and tiger relative? ; Is the dog a rabbit? Dogs and rabbits eat each other? ; Is it a chicken monkey? Isn't this the end of the chicken? Wait a minute. But now this phenomenon is basically gone!

On the wedding day, when going out, the bride's feet can't leave the ground, right? Don't touch your mother's soil? Take a basin with you when you leave. Married girl, splashing water? I gave you the basin, so I can't come back.

When you get to the man's house, you should burn the car with burning straw and firecrackers for a week before getting off the bus to drive away evil spirits. The bride got off and straddled the saddle, didn't she? A good horse has no saddle, and a good woman doesn't marry two men? Said.

On the afternoon of the wedding day or the next morning, smart women will twist their faces for their new wives with red lines. I think I've seen it in costume dramas before. I put a little powder on my face when I twisted it. The song goes like this: Open a new face, make a new thread, eat fire this year and eat happy noodles next year? .

The couple's pillows are stuffed with wheat straw, seed cotton and red dates, which means to have a baby early. This should be filled out by the couple themselves.

On the second day of marriage, the new daughter-in-law will visit the man's relatives and get a red envelope.

On the third day of marriage, the newlyweds will go to the Yue family to recognize the door. What is this called? Walk for three days? Go back together after lunch. You can't spend the night. You must stay at your husband's house for nine days before you can go back. Stay for seven days after returning home, and then stay for eight days. That's why. Live seven first, then eight, and get rich in your husband's family? Proverbs

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Marriage customs in Luoyang and Henan

Luoyang is the ancient capital of the 13th Dynasty, with a capital of one thousand years. It has been a political, cultural and economic center for thousands of years, so the marriage custom centered on Luoyang has spread all over the country with the development of society.

The night before the wedding, the healthy boy in the man's close relatives will sleep in a new bed, commonly known as "pressing the bed", which means that the bride will soon give birth to a fat boy.

On the wedding day, when the bride gets on the bus, her feet can't touch the ground and she is held by the groom. She has to take different routes back and forth. Whenever she goes to a road junction, a big tree, a dry well or an ancient temple, she will set off firecrackers to ward off evil spirits.

When you arrive at the door of the man's house, the man's house will set off firecrackers immediately, and the ceremony must be held before noon 12, otherwise it will be unlucky.

Luoyang is very noisy. According to custom, the bridal chamber should be noisy three nights before the wedding. In three days, no matter how big or small, the new wife must be ready.

On the second day after marriage, the parents of the newly married wife came to see their daughter and brought four-color gifts to the man's house. The third day after marriage is the return day.

Taboo:

The groom-to-be should not sleep alone in the new bed on the eve of the wedding, and his brother should not get married before his unmarried brother. What is this? Barley is not ripe, but wheat is ripe first.

Can't do quilting in September. Is October quilting perfect? And then what? Sewing a quilt in September gives birth to nine girls in a row? . What a vicious proverb

What is the most taboo of Luoyang people? A year without spring? Marriage, if you pay attention, you will find that every few years, Luoyang will have a concentrated wedding climax, and everyone is vying for it, as if to catch the last bus, for fear that there will be no shop after this village. In other areas, some people cracked it with flashlights that day.

Cry when you get married. Crying means you don't want to leave your parents. It also means saying goodbye to girlhood. She is a sensible daughter. If you don't cry, you are ill-bred and your family will feel embarrassed.

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Marriage customs in Zhengzhou and Henan.

Six customs and habits

Choose to transport the new house for decoration, and red happiness hangs high in the hall;

Kiss the bride without looking back, and worship the flower room before noon.

Guests and friends thanked Sifang at the feast and returned to Zhang Yue three days later.

One month to two weeks before the wedding, the man's family will ask two or four female relatives (must be Quanfu) to make an appointment with the matchmaker and bring the bride price, gift money and dowry to the woman's family; At this point, the woman needs to return the gift.

In the morning, the groom leads the team to meet the bride, with the float ahead and the team behind. After arriving at her mother's house, her family usually closes the door and refuses to marry her husband. It is not easy for her friends to coax her into marrying our girl. ? Don't look back? You mean? Don't go back when you get married. The route to the bride's wedding reception and the ceremony to return to the hotel can't be completely repeated.

It seems that the groom is going to approve the red list in Dengfeng. /kloc-before 0/2 o'clock, the couple will worship the heavens and the earth and have good luck.

Go back three days after the wedding (the third day) and don't spend the night.

Taboo:

If it rains on the wedding day, don't help the couple open an umbrella (break up), which is considered unlucky by the people. The groom's hairstyle should not be combed in the middle, and short sleeves (half sleeves) should not be worn in summer. People think the mouth color is not good.

The bride's girlfriend should not block the door for too long, and should not be too difficult for the groom. Parents' relatives and friends should generally leave before their husbands' relatives and friends at the wedding banquet. Is there a saying? Is it safe for guests to go to the main house? ! Parents and relatives should understand this.

Marriage Customs in Anyang, Henan Province

The day before the wedding, the man should prepare a table of wine and vegetables to be sent to the woman's house. This is called "wine-raising ceremony", and now it is mostly changed to cash.

On the wedding day, the man went to the woman's house to pick up the bride to eat spicy noodles, and the woman hid her shoes (this seems to be available in most places). The man gave 101 thousand, and the last dollar was recovered, which means one in a million, so this piece must be recovered.

At the man's house, the family will put on makeup and dance yangko around the bride for more than an hour.

Make trouble in the bridal chamber at night, after drinking the soup, the husband and wife make the bed, and then the husband and sister send the urinal (carrying the urinal can't leave the ground).

Put a pair of chopsticks in the pillow of the new house, and put some ginseng fruits (peanuts) and red dates in the bedding, which means early birth.

Newlyweds can go home on the third and ninth day, but they can't stay at their parents' house. They can go back to live for a month after the honeymoon expires.

What do girls want at home on the second day of the first month (or the fourth day) after they get married? Chasing prostitutes? The bride's family has prepared a mat, a cattail leaf fan and other electrical appliances, and also prepared a new suit for the new son-in-law to meet his daughter. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law hosted a banquet, and the parents of both sides chatted about their family.

To tell the truth, Anyang area does not require the man to give much, not to mention the price is so high that 10 thousand yuan can't buy much, and the woman also pays, and some directly bring a passbook. In Anyang, the bride price is only one meaning.

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Hebi, the marriage custom of Henan

Emphasize before Hebi gets married? Parents' orders, matchmakers' words? , pay attention to the right, more traditional.

Love needs a matchmaker, and when proposing, the man needs a matchmaker to propose to the woman. There is also a local saying that the eight characters can be engaged. The man chooses a good day to give the dowry such as gold and silver jewelry, cloth and clothes to the woman, which is called bride price.

The wedding is the most solemn part of the wedding process. Along the way, firecrackers continued, and the musical instrument class blew the beat, which was very lively. When the bride arrives home, she worships heaven and earth first, then the high hall, the husband and wife worship each other, and then enter the bridal chamber. At this time, the wedding banquet opened, and the relatives and friends who came to congratulate came home with joy, and the young people stayed up all night. The habit of accompanying the next generation and being younger than the groom makes trouble in the bridal chamber. The wedding process was completed in one go.

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Xinxiang, the hometown of marriage customs in various parts of Henan.

The woman can be two or three years older than the man, but not one year older. Wife is two years older, but gold is longer? ,? Wife, junior, be a high official? ,? Female freshman, no food? .

New bedding and pillows for both men and women must be sewn by women with children and couples. Before sewing, my mother-in-law should grab three handfuls of cotton and smooth it, then sprinkle some peanuts, red dates and walnuts on it, and sew it into the bedding when sewing. Have a baby early. ?

The day before the woman's wedding, her sister or sister-in-law put money in the box. When she arrived at her husband's house, her mother-in-law also put money in the box, which was more than the money in the box.

The day before the wedding, the man decorated the new house, and the groom's younger brother pressed the bed that night and was allowed to wet the bed.

The bride must wear blue shoes on the sedan chair, and these shoes are not allowed to be worn back to her family. When getting off the bus, her feet must not touch the ground, and she must step on the blue cloth from getting off to the audience.

After paying homage to heaven and earth, the bride enters the bridal chamber, and her sister-in-law carries a washbasin and puts a bun and a coin in the water. The bride must take off her bun and throw it under the bed. Then, her sister-in-law sent the cooked jiaozi to the bridal chamber and asked the bride to squeeze it out with chopsticks for the groom to eat.

After seeing off the guests, all the relatives of the man got together and the brides bowed their heads and kowtowed one by one. The worshippers all want to give red envelopes.

After returning to China in three days and nine days, the bride's brother can take her home for a few days. Nine? .

Marriage Customs in Jiaozuo, Henan Province

The sooner the groom picks up the bride on the morning of the wedding day, the more blessed he will be.

When the bride enters the groom's house, she worships heaven and earth. Change your mouth? Just shout? Mom and dad? . The groom's parents want to give it? Change fees? .

In other places, pot ashes and shoe polish are mostly used to make your father-in-law happy and your mother-in-law happy. Here, we should clean up the bridesmaids and groomsmen of the bride and groom, smear their faces, the more represents the deeper blessing, and then open the table.

Jiaozuo also comes back once every three days, so the gifts you bring back must be even.

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Marriage Customs in Kaifeng, Henan Province

The local marriage customs in Kaifeng usually do not look for the same surname or the same village.

A woman's dowry should include bedding, clothes and? Boxes, tables, cabinets, chairs? The four big pieces were sent to the man's house a few days before marriage; What's the name of a gift from relatives and friends? Add box? . I remember it was Wei's or a place where the bride could not wear underwear on the wedding day. Fortunately, when my friend got married in winter, he wore long trousers and put a chest patch on them.

When the groom gets married, he needs to take a little boy and two girls to the woman's house. Press the sedan chair? In other words, the bride's marriage to the man's house will bring good luck to the family to have a son. The two girls said that the man's family cordially greeted the bride.

On the woman's side, we should prepare a unique meal dowry-take-away meal. The meals she brought with her were prepared by her parents in advance, mainly including meat, vegetables, steamed stuffed buns, noodles and jiaozi. The woman pinched jiaozi to hold her in-laws' mouth and not let her daughter suffer indignities.

When arriving at the woman's house, the groom and the woman's elders should bow first to show their respect. Will the woman's relatives and friends take the opportunity to come forward? Shit? Male guests, mainly the groom and the best man, paint the groom as a big face and the best man as a bad face, creating a happy atmosphere.

Don't go back to the man's house when you are married. The woman has to wait for the man to get off the bus and cross the brazier when getting off, which means that it is unlucky to burn anything, and the husband and wife will cross more and more in the future.

After the wedding reception, relatives, friends and guests began to make a scene at the wedding. What was that? In-laws? Graffiti the groom's parents' heads and faces with gray, ink and pigments, put on pointed paper hats, pepper skewers and big red flowers, wrap up skirts and put on clothes backwards, making the old couple look deformed and very funny. However, in-laws can't be angry, they are happy and at the mercy of others.

On the third day, the groom needs to accompany the bride? Back to the door? The groom wants to buy a four-color gift for his mother-in-law. You can mix things at will, but you have to add up to four to be lucky. It takes six days for the bride's family to visit her, and twelve days for the bride's family to take her back. Also called? Back to the door? .

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Marriage Customs in Shangqiu, Henan Province

The day before the wedding, the bride and groom can't meet, and the bride should wear big red underwear.

A man in the wedding procession was happily holding a big cock. When he arrived at the woman's house, the woman's mother nodded at the cock three times.

From the bed in the boudoir to the middle of the wedding scene, the bride can't touch the ground with her feet or the soil on her soles.

The bride and groom hold enamel double happiness washbasin and bow their heads to accept red envelopes from all relatives and friends. Red envelopes are all rolled with money and wrapped with red rope or red paper.

In the evening, the bride's first dinner at her in-laws' house must be brought from her family, and there must be noodles. You can't have a bite of rice and a sip of water from your husband's house.

When the newlyweds pay homage, young people can use shoe polish, engine oil, diesel oil and bottom ash to smear on the faces of the groom and his parents to show happiness. The more they wear, the longer the blessing will last.

The husband and wife went home for three days and came back the same day. Six days later, the family came to see the bride. Twelve days later, the family took the bride away and said? Back to the door? .

Marriage Customs in Xinyang, Henan Province

The day before the wedding in Shangcheng County, the man will warm the sedan chair in his yard, and the guests will be full at night and drink warm wine. In Xinxian and other places, on the eve of the wedding, mother sleeps in a new bed to warm the bed.

Wedding time, Huaibin, Gushi, Xixian and other places in the early morning or early morning, Huangchuan, Shangcheng County Chengguan at midnight.

The way to get on the bus varies slightly from place to place. Before getting on the bus, the bride in Shangcheng County sits on the prepared water bucket for a while, and then is carried on the bus by her uncle or brother. Luoshan county was carried by the bride's brother; In some places in Huangchuan, relatives carry cars, and another boy presses them. Xinxian, Xixian, Huangchuan and other places have the habit of the bride crying and marrying, that is, from the sedan chair to the man's house, the bride has been crying until she suffocates.

Generally speaking, marriage is the main seat at noon and the main seat the night before.

In some places, the groom does not attend the wedding, but only sends a group of people.

In some places, stools are used as piers to support ladders, which run from the new house to the kitchen door and are covered with red carpets. The bride walks to the kitchen from above to offer sacrifices to the stove, which is called the Champion Bridge.

A meal in front of the bridal chamber. Everyone gets together to give the bride and groom problems, which are usually a little colorful. Children should not participate.

On the third day of marriage, the woman took the man back to her mother's house. At this time, the man should prepare some gifts, but he can't take the road that the bride took when she got married. He must find another way to get back to the door. In Guangshan, I went home on the third day and only took the groom to my father-in-law's house. On the sixth day, the bride left her family.

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Marriage customs in Xuchang, Henan.

Watch this, okay? There are two specific times, the first half of the marriage is on February 2 of the lunar calendar; If you get married in the second half of the year, you should send it on June 6 or 10 10. This is to give the woman enough time to prepare the dowry.

Similarly, the route of the wedding ceremony should be explored in advance. Not going back? .

The number of people going to the wedding banquet is odd. After receiving the bride, they just give the yes-man a double number, and the groom can't go in person no matter how anxious he is.

A man should bring a lovely little boy when he gets married. Press the sedan chair? He didn't get off the bus until the woman sealed the ceremony.

When a daughter gets married, she can't touch her family's soil, otherwise her family will become poor, so prepare pine and cypress branches to step on her feet, or let the groom take them away directly.

My uncle is the oldest relative, so my parents can't attend the wedding.

Some people set off firecrackers around the wedding car after returning home, and another person followed closely with a red-hot plowshare with wire and poured vinegar on it. What is this called? Plough? , what is it? Geely? Homonym of.

After the bride comes down, light two piles of straw, and the bride should pass through the middle. It is said that straw fire can ward off evil spirits.

The groom's brother or our brother leads the way with a bucket. There is grain in the bucket, and cypress branches are inserted in the grain, and red dates are hung on the cypress branches. There is also a pole for weighing grain, with nine copper coins hanging on it. It's called. Brother, the more you fight, the more you fight. .

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Marriage customs in Luohe and Henan.

The bride's uncle wants a red basin with mirrors, combs, towels, cups, sheets, chopsticks and instant noodles.

The bride's family should prepare four things, charcoal? Prosperous, hairy? Rich, Apple? Is it safe, wormwood? Grace and love; The bride's aunt will put a red scarf on her.

Contemporaries of the groom will sprinkle broken flowers on the bride's head and set off long firecrackers at the same time.

Some nosy people take this opportunity to paint the groom's parents' faces with the paints they have already prepared. What's this called? Hit the face? . The groom's friend threw bad eggs (really bad eggs) at the groom and put cream on them to express his blessing.

Go to the groom's house, and the groom's sister will change shoes for her new sister-in-law.

After entering the door, the bride should wash her hands before eating.

After the ceremony, there will be a wedding, not the bride, but the bridesmaid.

The last course of the banquet is meatball soup or egg soup, indicating the end of the banquet. If you eat too much, people will make fun of you and say, what is this called? Fuck off soup "

On the third day after marriage, the newly married wife will go to the kitchen to cook; After breakfast, my husband and I went back to my parents' house. Three days ago? .

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