What are the chances of cheating when the company sends male and female colleagues on separate business trips?

First of all, I had the same experience recently. After going abroad to participate in the exhibition, everyone visited customers separately and stayed abroad for a month, one of which was alone with male colleagues. We also rented a homestay and lived in a room.

And my colleague is a warm man who takes care of me. Living in a room in a specific environment abroad, sometimes you can feel the air filled with ambiguous breath. After all, I live alone, so I stay in my room most of the time, and only return to the living room when necessary to keep a certain distance from my colleagues.

Most people have a moral bottom line, and everyone will also measure the harm that cheating brings to their other half or family. Women must make great determination to cheat. Without men and women traveling alone, most people will cheat, which is extremely impossible for people with correct values!

Once I went out to eat with my colleagues, and we talked a lot. After all, there are many difficulties in visiting foreign customers. Being in a foreign land, you must feel lonely, especially after staying for more than 1 month, and you are not used to eating. My male colleague told me that if any beautiful woman winked at him in the street, he would definitely not stand it. I knew at that time that he was hinting at me, and of course he had expressed it to me many times.

Colleagues who usually have a good relationship here appreciate each other, so it depends on the attitude of both sides. As long as one side clearly refuses, the other side will not take action. After all, the workplace is also a special environment. Abiding by the rules of the workplace will affect the future cooperation between the two sides, and no one wants to take risks with their job prospects.

The cost of cheating is very high, not everyone can afford it, and not everyone is willing to take risks!

Most people can't afford to cheat. The result of cheating is that the other half knows that there are two kinds, family breakdown and divorce, and the other is just making do. For women, the cheating of the other half is like a thorn, a scar that can never be erased. With family constraints, the probability of men and women cheating on business trips will be reduced, because it is difficult to establish a family, and everyone knows that cheating is very harmful;

For women in China, the probability of derailment by traditional moral constraints is low;

The above is aimed at the family. For unmarried people who have no family constraints and the other wife is on a business trip during pregnancy, it must be said that the probability of cheating between men and women will be higher than above;

Unmarried people are not bound by law, but only by moral bottom line. Whether it can be restrained depends on people's values. I saw my husband's colleagues cheating on each other when I was traveling together. At that time, my husband's leader and we had to build a car alone, and we felt that our values were completely inconsistent and too open!

There are even more cases where the other wife is pregnant and cheating. In reality, catching a lot is a woman's sorrow! Human nature cannot stand the test, and there is no need to test it!

In summary

It is normal for both men and women to travel in the workplace. For women, we should pay attention to controlling the boundaries between the two sides. As human beings, we are bound by morality and belief and have the ability to control ourselves. Cheating is not only a violation of the basic moral salary, but also brings great harm to the people closest to you. Don't do things that you regret easily!

Can male and female colleagues cheat when traveling alone together? What kind of divine logic is this?

Gray believes that for most people in the workplace, when male and female colleagues travel alone, the probability of cheating is very small. Why do you say that?

Undeniably, some people in society always think with their "lower body", so they want to take advantage and eat tofu even if they have the chance. Such people, of course, always think of some dirty things that can't be seen, and naturally want to travel alone with their female colleagues and fantasize about a "secret sweet trip."

However, in the workplace, such people are a minority after all. For most people, they will abide by the basic moral bottom line and basic workplace rules and will not cross the line. After all, cheating comes at a price.

For most people, even if two people have been in love for a long time, contrary to the pressure of public opinion, whether they can move from ambiguity to substantive derailment still needs careful consideration before making a decision.

Then this time, male and female colleagues traveling separately will make two people who had no feelings and ambiguity suddenly tear off their masks and go to Wushan for greed, which is unreasonable in theory.

Therefore, male and female colleagues travel alone, unless they are already having an affair, it is easy to have an affair!

You know, the so-called infidelity must be a matter for both men and women, and it will only happen if you love me. For women, cheating is not so easy to happen!

In the workplace, whether married or unmarried, women will know the meaning of cheating and the price to pay for cheating. Therefore, unless they are secretly "silly and sweet" or want to take the opportunity to sit in the position of "scheming bitch", it is not in line with the value principle to have an affair with a colleague who has no special feelings so easily.

Moreover, as a weak side, women are more alert and protective. How can it be so easy for your male colleague to coax you into bed with a few sweet words?

In fact, many women in the workplace will be alert and responsive to the temptation of the opposite sex in the workplace. Most women with moral bottom line will dodge or refuse, instead of pandering and promising.

Therefore, when male and female colleagues travel alone together, the probability of women actively inviting each other to cheat is almost low, and the probability of passively accepting the invitation of male colleagues is also very low.

Even if the male side is a worm in his head, he is not afraid to belittle his identity and image and blatantly "make love". If there is no exchange of power or interests, the outcome will basically be a verbal refusal by the woman.

Cheating comes at a price. The cost of cheating is very high in China, a country with strong traditional ideas, regardless of men and women.

On the one hand, if you cheat, there will be two times once, and there will be countless times after one time. The so-called "always walking by the river, how can you not wet your shoes", especially married men and women, will bring great influence to families and individuals. This kind of thing is the rhythm of death.

On the other hand, if either side of the affair has bad intentions, it will take the opportunity to remember the so-called evidence or traces, and then threaten you when necessary in the future. This situation is not without precedent. Especially for men who are leading cadres, are there fewer such setbacks? So people with a little brains also know the risk of this derailment.

In the workplace, it is very normal for male and female colleagues to travel together. For ordinary colleagues, they basically don't understand that being alone is an opportunity to create ambiguity, which is inexplicable divine logic. Of course, if you have an affair or have your own purpose and want to get benefits by cheating, that is another matter.

People obey the rules because we are bound by moral concepts and have the ability to control our own desires. Cheating comes at a price. Most rational people and people with moral bottom line will not touch this red line easily, because cheating will cost you! What do you say!

Perfect match, no one touches her at night.

A lonely lamp and wine speak the heart, and a dry fire is irrational.

Do you think if you travel with a beautiful colleague for a long time, you will cheat?

On the issue of marriage, it is hard to say that it is possible for male and female colleagues to travel together, but it may not be derailed. Whether to cheat or not depends mainly on personal determination and principles. Of course, it is still possible in reality, but personally, certain conditions are needed:

According to some foreign analysis, married people are more likely to cheat, especially when their wives are pregnant or have just given birth. Because one or two years after giving birth to a child, women usually spend their main thoughts on the child and have many trivial things, so they will ignore their husbands and rarely live together. This process, from pregnancy to recovery, usually takes three years or more. These days, ordinary men are hard to control.

Because men are full of energy during this period, when traveling with female colleagues, some communication and even physical contact are inevitable because they have been in * * * for a long time, especially in summer, when female colleagues wear thin clothes, it is easy for men to extrapolate, and sometimes if they can't hold it, they will make lifelong regrets.

If a woman is married, but her husband is in poor health, it will be sloppy to live with her husband every time. As Pan Jinlian said, my mother just felt that you were dying. Then this kind of woman, after marriage, is seriously discordant, and there is nothing she can do in her friends, family and her own life circle. Now that you are married, you must accept this reality. When she is on a business trip with a man, sometimes,

If this is the case for the woman, it can be combined with the situation of the male colleague above. After the dead of night, both sides are full of food and drink. As long as the man is a little more active, he will generally succeed and eventually do something that he regrets for life.

Why do you mention your husband's character? Because if there is cowardly personality and domestic violence, then women will feel wronged and have nowhere to vent at ordinary times. When there are only two people on a business trip, it is inevitable to communicate at night in a strange city, so if a woman is wronged, it is easy for a man to fill her wronged spiritual space.

Of course, male and female colleagues should travel together at the same time. In terms of appearance, they must have similar appearances. Women can be ugly, but men must get by. At the very least, they can't make people feel sick. A person who travels for a long time has a great chance of cheating, but it is not absolute.

The above is purely a personal opinion. Do you think that if you travel with a beautiful female colleague whose family is wronged, will you cheat? Welcome comments

Boyfriend is a careful and warm-hearted man. When two people walk together, they will take good care of each other. For example, helping each other with their bags, taking photos, chatting and talking about their families. In the evening, I will send a message asking about the next day's itinerary. In the morning, I will send a message asking if I get up early, reminding me that it is time to have breakfast and when to leave for work. I will take pictures of my colleagues on my way to work. In short, I will take good care of each other when I am on a business trip.

I worked late the night before the business trip, because I was waiting for my female colleague to finish my business trip. At 7 o'clock in the morning, my boyfriend went out at 3: 30 in advance, went to the female colleague community to wait for her, and took a taxi to the airport together.

After returning from a business trip, I saw through my circle of friends that my female colleagues were very satisfied with this business trip, and they were in a good mood, and their interaction with her boyfriend became more enthusiastic. They seem to be different from other ordinary female colleagues. At noon, they cooked for her boyfriend and asked her what she wanted to eat at noon. This relationship feels so delicate.

Now every time I see the message sent to him by that female colleague, my heart is very uncomfortable. I believe that my boyfriend has not crossed the line with her for the time being, but in the future, I will often travel alone with my female colleagues for a long time, and my boyfriend is used to taking good care of people. It is good to have a travel experience with a female colleague, and it is easy to breed ambiguous feelings, especially for a female colleague who has entered marriage. Should this ambiguous sense of dependence be easier to breed?

The key is the attitude of women. If a woman doesn't like this man, or can stick to the bottom line, the chance of cheating is very small! You know, for this matter, men's attitude is not important, because most men can't stand the temptation. What's more, it is always a man's mentality not to take advantage of white or white. Unless the female colleagues together are beautiful and in poor shape, men rarely refuse!

Most women are emotional, and it's hard to give up if they don't like you. What's more, women pay more attention to family, not only to maintain a reserved character, but also to try to avoid gossip from outsiders!

There are also many incidents in which colleagues of the opposite sex travel together to cheat, but most of them are congenial or dry fire, which is not absolute! Two people who have no feelings for each other, even if they travel together for a hundred times, should be as clear as ever!

So it still depends on the individual, which has little to do with business trip, but business trip provides an excellent opportunity for those who have long been derailed!

First of all, I want to ask you, why did you cheat? There are many beautiful men and women in the world, and when they meet one, they treat themselves like dogs. God, do you really think of yourself as 007? The premise of cheating is that you already have a partner or are married and married, which deviates from the track of your love. You failed on the road of feelings, and your loyalty was completely shattered by yourself! It is generally believed that people who insult their wives and daughters will eventually be humiliated. Everything has a limit, and there is a bottom line. Don't step on the leg that you can't step over. Behind the beautiful poppies, there is terrible despair. A good friend is a real beauty. It is rare to have a bosom friend in life. A heart-to-heart relationship is enough. A temporary climax may bring you a sad ending of running water under the bridge. Friends who have cheated or are going to cheat, be careful.

Never test a person's humanity at any time, let alone test it.

The company sends male and female colleagues on a business trip together, and then whether the opposite sex will cheat, in fact, this problem needs to be analyzed in detail. Mainly depends on where the bottom line of two people is. What kind of people are these two? What is the relationship between them? What are their respective emotional conditions?

Theoretically, if two expatriates are unmarried, single, eager to communicate with the opposite sex and have a good impression on each other before, then if they are sent on a business trip, the probability of their cheating may be higher. After all, as human beings, everyone has a secular desire. Two people have been together for a long time, and the conditions are ripe. What should happen and what should not happen can happen.

On the other hand, if the two employees sent by the company on business trip are both married and each has a family, they may be relatively self-disciplined under the constraints of family and morality. However, this does not completely guarantee that there will be no cheating when the company sends them out on business trips. Especially when some families happen to have some family conflicts, or some couples have no feelings, or their feelings are on the verge of collapse, some people will also do some extreme behaviors.

Of course, in addition to the above two situations, there is a third situation, that is, both of them have relatively high moral standards, and both of them are relatively well-behaved people. They are very principled in everything they do, and they can also keep their bottom line well. When these two people are on business trip, they are also doing business. At the same time, they also attach great importance to each other's communication and exchange, and will keep a proper distance, so that there will be no big problems when two people travel together.

So in general, how high is the probability of having an affair when two people are on a business trip? There are many factors that determine this: one is to see what kind of state this person is in, the other is to see what kind of person this person is, and the third is to see whether this person has strong self-restraint ability and moral bottom line.

Of course, in addition to the above situation, there is an abnormal situation. It's just that one of these two people is very attractive, so it's also possible that some people suddenly have a good impression on each other in the process of getting along.

The word "cheating" defines two married people of the opposite sex. What does this mean? I don't think there is any possibility of sparks between unmarried people, right?

Whether two people of the opposite sex will have an accident on a business trip together depends mainly on their styles. As long as one of them insists, the other one can't do anything about it, and if he can't, he will spend money.

When two people of the opposite sex are on a business trip together, what is terrible is cheating, and what is even more terrible is cheating with feelings. Cheating can be redeemed, but feelings can't be redeemed. The probability of cheating is high, and the probability of having feelings is slightly lower.

Let's consider it from the side. Some companies deliberately avoid the opposite sex when sending people on business trips. This shows that the company subconsciously feels inconvenient or something may happen. If something goes wrong, the company cannot afford it. From here, it shows that the probability of derailment is still relatively large.

Let's see someone else. If we can separate work from life, the chances of cheating will be much smaller.

According to Shen Lizhi's point of view, it is unlikely that male and female colleagues will travel together alone, but they are likely to have a good impression: when two people are in the field together, it will be a bit ambiguous for a long time. People are not vegetation, who can be ruthless? Whether two people appear or not depends on the specific timing, the scene and the atmosphere. If the atmosphere comes naturally, there are many people in this situation. I will give you a detailed analysis as follows:

Male and female colleagues at work need to travel abroad together, and the purpose is definitely for the business development of the company. At this time, everyone's relationship is work cooperation. The reason why there is a man and a woman is that everyone has their own tasks because of their work and occupation; In addition, it is also the purpose for men and women to work better. Women have more advantages in business negotiations, and the cooperation between the two sides can handle the work more satisfactorily.

In most cases, people go to business destinations together and stay in their own hotels. At least in the beginning, they kept a certain distance, because they all had their own bottom line. In the process of business trip, when two people eat together or meet customers, when they are free, they either go out for a walk together or go to see the local scenery together, which is also a kind of mutual care.

Because they are all adults, if there is no on-site preparation, everyone will go back to their homes after the accident, and they are very aware of the great impact on their families and lives after the accident. From this perspective, the accident of male and female colleagues in this scene is a small probability event.

However, there are exceptions to everything.

If male and female colleagues travel together for a long time, then everyone will definitely have feelings when they go out every day. First of all, people have no acquaintances in other places, only colleagues; Secondly, it is easy for men and women to think more when they are together, and they will also have a good impression when they get along day and night. This is the fuse.

As you can imagine, when a man and a woman are on a business trip together, the man will definitely be a gentleman at first, helping his female colleagues with their bags, buying breakfast and so on. These caring behaviors will bring some good feelings to the woman more or less. Sometimes we discuss work together in the hotel. In such a closed space, the diffuse factors really make people think more.

If two people are talking about the finished works and the topic of life in the room, it is very likely that their feelings have found the same topic, and there will be ideas in their hearts. Casual touch will suddenly spark, which is a sign. But in this case, some things may not happen. Some people enjoy this feeling so much that nothing should happen. But after staying for a long time, if the woman doesn't object or even shows some signals, naturally the other party will follow suit. At this time, few men can insist.

There is also the possibility of accidents. If this business trip goes well, and you are done, find a restaurant to have a big meal, celebrate the results, and even have some red wine to set off the atmosphere. Because the task was completed, the body and mind were more relaxed, and everyone was on a business trip for a few days, so we could talk about anything. If someone asks about each other's life at this time, and the topic opens, the two people will talk, and with the role of atmosphere and red wine, there will be ideas in their hearts.

Generally speaking, at this time, women usually complain about their husbands' shortcomings, and male colleagues will sympathize with them, and they will also persuade women to relax. Everyone sees it smoothly and feels that they have found a confidant.

When they return to the hotel after dinner, they will feel that they have not finished talking and go directly to the hotel to continue talking. In this atmosphere and space, it must be the man who said to boil some water for you, and the woman smiled back. There is nothing wrong with turning on the TV and two people sitting there, or even sitting side by side chatting. It is inevitable that there will be collisions. At this time, I don't believe it myself.

However, after the release, everyone will definitely regret it and blame each other, but who can blame?

Two colleagues, a man and a woman, are on a business trip. Because women are reserved, if something happens, it is very likely that this man will irritate them step by step. This is not to say that men are unreliable, and most situations are almost unavoidable. It is normal for everyone to have a good impression when they work together, because everyone has shown their excellent side at work, but this is not the reason for cheating. Ladies must be prepared in advance.

1, reducing the chance of being alone.

If it's getting late, everyone can have a rest. If there are problems at work, we won't discuss them at night. No matter what the men say, let's postpone the discussion together tomorrow during the day to minimize the chance of being alone in the room.

2. Don't drink on business trip.

Whether it's a celebration or a customer reception, it's best not to drink as a lady. Drinking was a mistake, even others had a chance, and I was finally speechless. Now business is not done by drinking, but by the strength and benefit distribution of the company, so don't be moved by the language persuaded by others, and know how to refuse.

When two people are in the room together, it's best to leave the door open.

If two people are discussing problems in the same room, it's best to leave the door open and don't worry about anything. If the door is closed, the closed environment will make people think more.

4. Don't show too much.

Everyone is on a business trip, just finish the task. Don't pay too much attention to your image when you are outside, let alone show yourself too much. Wearing too many clothes makes people think too much.

5. Do not talk about family life.

Don't relax just because you are on a business trip, and don't discuss family and life topics with your male colleagues. Meaningless. Might as well go home early and rest. Women are more sensitive, talking about life topics will break through your defense, which is a shortcut for men to enter your heart, you have to understand this.

First of all, you have two families behind you, and secondly, you need to work together in the future, which you can't face. On the other hand, people are not satisfied. If you have one time, you may not be able to park your car. This is the beginning of your irreversible journey.

In any case, women will be hurt more, and they are likely to face the breakdown of their families. If they are weak, they will be held by male colleagues and have a difficult future.

Therefore, as a wise man in the workplace, we must be cautious about this matter. If you can't control it, you will have to pay for it.

The following words:

There are two possibilities, one is that the derailment rate is zero (of course, there is no zero in mathematics), and the other is the derailment rate 100%. Man is an advanced animal. He can completely control himself and sit still. Can we not break the moral bottom line after the meeting? Whether or not to cheat depends entirely on the individual. For example, if the woman is conscious or deliberately teasing, the man just speaks or acts as a gentleman, and the woman can understand without pointing it out directly, so that she will not be hurt. If the man is an old goat, deliberately courting, giving gifts to the woman to buy things, or even giving money, your woman can not accept it, or politely avoid it. Men know that they are boring, so they give up their wild desires. As long as you are firm, men will not break your fortress. If so, then the derailment rate is not zero! On the other hand, if one party is not determined, or both sides are hungry, isn't that dry wood caught fire? It must be 100% cheating.