"My mother said, if you don't pay 20,000 yuan for the correction of your confession, you can't call me your parents." Should I really pay for the correction of my confession?

Some people get married sincerely to settle down, while others use marriage to bring themselves money. This is a very cruel social status quo. Although this situation is not common, it does not mean that it does not happen. Whether it is high betrothal gifts or various ways of asking for "red envelopes" based on local customs, they are all taking advantage of marriage. She did not really regard the small family after marriage as her own home, but just kept squeezing the new family for the sake of her own family.

"When my wife first got married, she refused to change her name to mom and dad, and insisted on asking for money to change her name."

Chen Jiuran married a daughter-in-law, who was supposed to be well-paid. The bride price was not much, but the marriage cost a lot of money. Before the wedding, the bride's family said that a 30,000 yuan gift would be enough. Chen Jiuran was glad that he had not met a particularly deceitful mother-in-law, so he readily gave the gift and arranged the wedding.

The wedding was held in a hotel, bringing together all kinds of relatives and friends from both families. It cost about hundreds of thousands to get married, and I received a lot of money, but half of it was taken away. The mother-in-law took it away. Logically speaking, the mother-in-law's share of the money should be taken away, but the mother-in-law was not willing to pay any of the money for the wedding. The hundreds of thousands were all contributed by Chen Jiuran, and even the share of the money could not cover these expenses.

Not only that, his mother-in-law also made things difficult for him at the wedding. When the bride first arrived at the hotel, she didn't want to get out of the car. Chen Jiuran told her to stop making trouble and get out of the car quickly. There were so many people waiting, so don't embarrass him. The bride said: "My mother said that the bride will need to pay a fare when getting off the car. You must first come up with a fare of 10,000 yuan before I can get off the wedding car."

Chen Jiuran knew that she was making trouble unreasonably, but There was nothing she could do. All her relatives and friends were in the hotel, and the banquet was set up. If she didn’t pay the 10,000 yuan as a get-off fee, she wouldn’t want to get off the bus. If this matter becomes a big deal, it will become even worse. Chen Jiulin didn't have that much cash on him, so he asked his mother to scrape together enough money and threw the money to his mother-in-law: "This is 10,000 yuan, get your daughter out of the car quickly!"

The wedding was not easy. It went on as scheduled, but it got stuck on the part of paying homage to both parents. When the host asked the bride to call the groom’s parents, the bride remained silent. Chen Jiuran was anxious: "Daughter-in-law, please call me parents!" The bride said "uncle and aunt" as soon as she opened her mouth. According to the custom of the man's family, after a woman marries into the man's family, she must change her name to her parents, otherwise she will feel unfamiliar.

Chen Jiuran reminded her again: "We are getting married, you should change your name to your parents." But the bride said: "My mother said, parents will always only have their own biological parents, who want me If you change your name to Mom and Dad, you have to pay for the change. Please give me the change fee of 20,000 yuan, and then let me change my name to Mom and Dad.”

The people present heard the bride say this. No one is not angry. They have never heard of this custom. Are they really not making it up?

Of course Chen Jiuran was very angry when he heard her say such things. Plus, he remembered that she had just asked him for the bus fare in order to get an extra 10,000 yuan, which made him even more angry: "You If you want to marry me, you have to call my parents your parents. If you don’t ask for any change fees, you will get back all the money I gave you before. This marriage will never end. "Chen Jiuran's parents. Everyone on the side advised: "Forget it, forget it, it doesn't matter if you don't call me parents."

The bride's parents pulled the bride and wanted to leave, but were stopped by Chen Jiuran's parents. They went After talking to my in-laws for a long time and adding an extra 10,000 yuan as a bride price, the wedding could go ahead. I feel it is very inappropriate to ask for a bride price in this way. If it is explained once and for all before the marriage, I can still accept it. But what is the difference between asking for a bride price under various excuses during the wedding and fraud?

What do you think about this kind of thing?