How many periods does a woman's life have (release Linjiang amorous feelings platform)

How many periods does a woman's life have?

On a Sunday in late autumn last year, my relatives and children got married and hurried out of the house at 10 in the morning, ready to go to the hotel early to see if there was anything I could do.

The hotel is not far from home, that is, more than ten minutes' walk. Walking into the wealth hall on the third floor of the hotel, the wedding manager has arranged it. I didn't expect to meet my uncle's second daughter, Chunni. Actually, she is not a direct relative, but a distant relative. But we had an intersection of five or six years more than 20 years ago, and the relationship was not bad, so this meeting is very rare.

Chunni is about 1.6 meters tall, with short hair and wearing a black sportswear and sneakers. The whole person looks very energetic. But dressing up can often reveal the present situation of life.

Last year, I heard that Chunni's husband had passed away. I was afraid to ask more questions for fear of arousing her sadness. However, Chunni is still outspoken, but her eyes become more calm. After some warm greetings, she said to me, "When I went out today, I was introduced to a family. There is an old aunt at home, and her children are busy with work. I need to hire someone to cook, wash clothes, clean and stay at night. I want to try. " I said, "Well, try it. Don't do it if it's appropriate. "

While there were not many guests, Chunni told the whole process of her husband's illness, treatment and death. During this period, Chunni choked several times and her eyes seemed to overflow with tears. She turned her head, hesitated for five or six seconds before holding back her tears and trying to continue her story. In eight months, she experienced the most difficult and painful hurdle in her life.

In the early 1990s, Chunni's husband, Chen Qiang, came out of his hometown and contracted a small project in the mining area. In order to take care of her husband, she rented a house and lived not far from my home. At that time, the salary of employees in the mine was not high, which was more than 300 yuan. Chunni's husband can live a well-off life and eat and drink better than ordinary people. Chunni is the most beautiful woman in the local area.

Young Chunni has fair skin, round face and small facial features. She looks smart and capable. Maybe the economic foundation determines her own self-confidence. She is confident and flattered by some people. She even smiled with her eyes and eyebrows. Sometimes even laughing and belittling neighbors. You see who doesn't eat fruit all the year round, doesn't want to buy cooked meat for the New Year, and won't come without spending money. Alas, this life has been in vain ... whose daughter-in-law you see wears that little clothes all the year round, and women are wronged when they are young and don't dress up. ...

Many ladies and neighbors said behind their backs, "People who are full don't know that people who are hungry are hungry. Who wouldn't powder his face? "

"No one asks you if you are poor in the downtown area. Rich people have distant relatives in the mountains." Chunni's family usually has many relatives, especially when the crops are cleared in the fields in late autumn every year, parents will come to live for a period of time, and their brothers and sisters will accompany them. Home is like sashimi, buying ribs, raw meat, cooked meat and all kinds of vegetables. Make a big table for every meal, and the home is both liquor and drinks. After some kind words, my sister said, "Chunni was smart when she was a child. She used her poor exercise book in the front and continued to use it, knowing how to take care of her parents." My brother said, "My Chunni was born with a beaming face. She loves to laugh and looks very happy, which can bring blessings to the whole family. " Praise came one after another, and it was very lively.

Money is a good thing!

It can bridge family discord and maintain harmony.

Her relatives had just left when the relatives of her husband Chen Qiang's family came again. Sister-in-law, uncle, brother-in-law and Saturday and Sunday came one by one, like a big git. Chunni is very generous, and all relatives in her husband's family are treated the same.

Every winter and summer vacation, the nephews and nieces of both husband and wife also come for vacation. Aunt long aunt short, like mother and daughter. Chunni loves face, afraid to go back to the village relatives to make irresponsible remarks and try to meet the needs of relatives. There is also the second uncle's son, a distant relative in the village, who sells cake noodles, oatmeal noodles and millet. My cousin's son-in-law sells mutton, beef, rapeseed oil and so on. Chunni bakes sugar cakes and steamed bread even if she doesn't include jiaozi and fried cakes.

The rich days passed quickly. One of Chunni's daughter and son went to high school and the other to junior high school. At this time, Chen Qiang suffered from high blood pressure because he ate and drank all day in business. Even so, it didn't take them long to move back to their hometown to do business, and the family spent a lot of money just to make ends meet.

After Chunni's daughter went to college, her son also went to high school. Chunni's husband has diabetes. At first, he couldn't find out what type of diabetes it was, and his condition was not effectively controlled. He was once unable to support the family business. At this point, Chunni's father needs surgery for heart disease, which is really "it never rains but it pours". My brother, sister-in-law and sister-in-law are still eagerly looking at Chunni, hoping that Chunni will cover the medical expenses without them. Who knows that Chunni said she had no money, so she thought she would treat them well and let them be more. This time she was out of the pot, and her brothers and sisters complained that she was an unfilial baiwenhang at the critical moment.

Relatives at home think that Chunni doesn't necessarily have much savings at home. In fact, who knows whose day it is. Just answer: "a pair of beautiful shoes, only you know whether your toes hurt after wearing them, and outsiders only see the beautiful appearance of the shoes."

A year after Chunni's father died, Chen Qiang's health went from bad to worse, and she died after several treatments.

The sky is falling, and Chunni's family has some foreign debts besides little savings. In order to reduce the burden on the family, the daughter asked to drop out of school. Chunni strongly disagreed, let her daughter apply for a student loan and encouraged her son to study hard. Chunni can only be a nanny and has no retirement salary.

At this time, Chunni shook off the clothes that had been lying in the closet for many years, and recalled the scenery and publicity of her youth, only to understand who didn't eat fruit and cooked meat for a year. And the feeling that his daughter-in-law wears clothes all the year round, I can't help but wet my eyes. ...

Mother often said: "Life should be normal, and rice should be saved from the mouth of the jar, not until the bottom of the jar." If it's tight, it's gone One thing is not easy to handle. "

Money is really nothing!

My brothers and sisters have lost contact with Chunni! People are whispering!

The hotel broke up with Chunni after dinner, and she went to apply for a nanny by car. I can't help but look back several times, and the familiar back seems to be no longer tall and straight. Once that white and blessed face was carved with some fine wrinkles because of the vicissitudes of time or the cool breeze blowing in late autumn, and it felt a little haggard. The quality of life determined the mood and appearance. Those smiling eyebrows are full of sadness.

When I was a child, I often heard my neighbor's grandmother say that "a woman's life is an independent life", which means that a woman's life is one piece. I didn't think so before Looking at the back of Chunni today, I feel a little interesting.

I do not believe in life. Take your time. Perhaps natural and man-made disasters are resigned, and the lives of ordinary people are still in their own hands. ...