How to satisfy both the boyfriend's wedding in the countryside and the woman's wedding in the hotel?

Follow the wedding customs of the bride and groom, hold two weddings, and neutralize the thoughts of the two families.

Newcomers should wait for guests at the gate of the hotel. When they pour wine, someone will give a program and someone will rip them off. After the party, everyone will have sugar and cigarettes. Wenzhou: Newcomers don't have to wait at the door. You can give a program at the banquet. After the banquet, each person can pay 100 yuan. Yiwu: Newcomers should wait at the gate of the hotel. No programs are allowed at the party. There was no sugar or cigarettes after the party. Hangzhou: Newcomers should wait at the gate of the hotel, and programs can be given at the banquet. After the banquet, two bags of sugar for one person are smoke-free. Marriage customs vary from place to place. In some places, people beat gongs and drums and set off firecrackers in the middle of the night to welcome the New Year. In some places it is after 7 am, and in some places it is near noon. If so many people get married in the same community, it is impossible for the residents of this community to be quiet.

Fujian wedding custom-handkerchief party decided to bring a pair of chopsticks to her husband's house for life, and the betrothal must be accompanied by the man himself and his parents. The bride price is quite simple. The woman gives her a handkerchief in public, which is considered as a lifelong engagement. On the eve of the wedding, the bride will keep vigil with her sisters. One is to catch up and say goodbye, and the other is to show "exuberance". At noon the next day, the woman's family held a "wedding banquet". After the banquet, the mother, aunts and sisters cried around the bride and were not allowed to set off firecrackers. Brides wear more dresses when they go out, but they can also use a full set of red dresses instead. The more the bride's dowry, the richer the woman's family wealth. In order to make her daughter marry beautifully, the woman will prepare a lot of expensive gifts and send them to the man's house with the bride on the wedding day. Sometimes the gift-giving team consists of several cars and a large group of relatives and friends, and the scene is spectacular. In the bride's dowry, in addition to China's traditional etiquette supplies and gold wares, household appliances, large furniture and even bicycles or motorcycles are given by the bride's family. In addition, the bride will bring a new pair of bowls and chopsticks to show that from now on, she will send them to her husband's house for dinner. After the bride enters the door, she should offer tea to all relatives of the male family, even children of several years old. The order depends on the age of the generation. When offering tea, elders will give their newlyweds gold wares (mostly rings). When offering tea to female elders, they will pin a hairpin on their hair and give back a ring. After the wedding, a banquet will be held to greet relatives and neighbors.