The conditions offered by my girlfriend's house are not harsh, but what should I do if it hurts my self-esteem?

Your problem is nothing more than a face, and the solution is extremely simple. How can it be so difficult?

The problem of the house is easy to solve. Just accompany a car, the price can't be too high or too low. Buy some new home appliances, such as massage chairs, and send your parents-in-law to travel abroad. This is a face that can be said publicly.

The banquet is actually simpler. Your family wants to be lively, and so does hers. Then let's get together. Find a hotel as big as the factory lobby, and the guests can come to the table separately. Make the scene more beautiful. Both make sense.

Also, when you discuss problems, you can't just stand on your own side, mainly considering a win-win situation acceptable to both sides. I don't believe that both sides are talking about marriage, and they can still talk about it. ...