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Happy train finally arrived at Hubei station again. Juda, the happy navigator of the family, guides the train conductors and flight attendants in Hunan, Hubei and Jiangxi, and loves his parents as scheduled. The grand event of Hunan, Hubei and Jiangxi has brought us endless strength and powerful motivation. I am very happy to be one of my parents who love me deeply and take on the task of meeting minutes. Thanks to the growth opportunities given by Hunan and Hubei and the strength of Jiangxi, supporting others is the fastest way to grow up.

? When dad Liang, the energetic host, invited dad Ju out with great interest, the scene was full of joy. Ju Da dedicated his first show in 2022 to Hunan, Hubei and Jiangxi. His strong personality and chivalrous tenderness gave us great encouragement. He accepts all kinds of things with a broad mind. The family sharing carefully arranged by the coordinators of Hunan, Hubei and Jiangxi, Dad Zhong and Dad Liang can let us see the essence of life from different perspectives and alert us to use it. "

When Dad Z from Jiangxi, Mom Z from Hunan and Dad L from Hubei appeared on the screen, they seriously introduced the current situation at home, analyzed the reasons for regaining happiness, and discussed the future direction. Their faces were full of sincerity and calmness, without the anxiety and uneasiness when they first got on the bus. They are particularly caring and willing people in various regions, and actively organize and contribute to regional activities.

They spoke unreservedly about the comfort and guidance their father gave them when they met with difficulties. Once, countless thrilling moments turned into humble and gentle words, and they simply could not see the pain and suffering at that time. Only those who have experienced it together can understand this unforgettable feeling.

Their hearts are full of introductions to the beautiful life now, care for children, improvement of the relationship between husband and wife, and smooth career. The smile that can't be hidden overflows into our faces and hearts through the screen, which is warm and harmonious.

I think they are the most respectable people. With longing for a better life, they bravely climbed on the train, knowing that boarding the train meant a thoroughly remoulded self-change, bidding farewell to the past without hesitation and accepting inner remoulding.

They cherish life, cherish themselves, cherish life, feel the painstaking efforts of Ju Dad, and give their families positive love step by step under the careful guidance of Ju Dad, so that their families can be positive. ...

Their husband and wife are the most powerful parents and are willing to support others. They share the turmoil in the school, do not compromise in the face of principles, and grow up in the struggle.

My son dropped out of school at home for 4 years from the third day of 20 15, and was exposed to great love through the sharing meeting of 20 18 in Nanchang. He very much agrees with the concept of living in the father-never giving in before the principle and unambiguous before the family; On may 20 19, he signed up for Changsha training camp, and his son resumed school in June. In June 2020, the college entrance examination was accepted. His son is unwilling, and he is still suffering after repeating 1 year. His previous grades did not improve, but he persisted under the guidance of Juda's efforts and was admitted to the second college entrance examination on 202 1. When the school started in September, my son decided to quit school because of some things in the school rules and was dissatisfied with the school. When they felt desperate, under the guidance of Juda, they strengthened their confidence, struggled to grow up in ups and downs, and persuaded their son with the help of the community. Things took a dramatic turn for the better and his son returned to school smoothly.

Reflecting on the development and solution of the whole thing, Z Dad shared that this is a process of never giving in before practicing the principle of residence and being unambiguous in front of the family. When something happens, I will be calm, dare to show my sword, share the same frequency with my husband and wife, adhere to principles, keep the bottom line, give feedback and communication to Ju Da in time, and resolutely implement the problems and key nodes that I can't grasp under the guidance of Ju Da. The key to solving this family crisis is to cooperate with Ju Da!

The storm of dropping out of school has been solved perfectly, not this thing, but all of it, and there is still a long way to go. They should continue to study hard, follow their parents, and love knows no borders. He hopes that his sharing can bring some enlightenment and help to everyone.

She is a great mother with infinite love. Her tenacity, faith and never-giving spirit make everyone admire her.

Since 20 19, she has been exposed to love without borders. She is a volunteer at every regional offline sharing meeting. When she sees the smiling faces of the sailing family, she will think and learn. Many of our parents witnessed her sharing on the stage in the parent lecture hall, which made the parents present cry several times. Holding the belief that her daughter must get out of the predicament, she practices the theory of living, reflects on herself in the way of living with her father and does it bit by bit. Her daughter is making progress every day. While improving herself, she helped others, and gave this love back to the relatives who needed help the day after tomorrow and the increasingly happy mother and daughter, which has always inspired the voyagers in Hunan and the whole country.

Today, with a more peaceful smile, she shared her daughter's mental journey in a wheelchair two years ago, as if it happened yesterday, and now she brings her joy to everyone:

My daughter, who has stood up, goes to work and takes the bus for three hours every day to make goods. Although the work is hard, she is in good health.

My daughter got her first salary, invited her mother to dinner and bought her a pair of soft and warm socks. It is estimated that her mother will cook dinner in advance when she comes home from work. Now my daughter is optimistic and filial. When my aunt took care of her sick grandmother, she asked who would cook for her grandmother in the family group, and her daughter offered to do it. Relatives in the family praised her daughter and envied having such a warm little cotton-padded jacket.

Mom Z shared her reflections. Since her child dropped out of school on October 7th, 20/Kloc, she also studied medicine and participated in many institutions, but she couldn't bring the child back to the right track until Gao Ge, a family member of Yuan Hang, Shaanxi Province, who studied in the institution together, told her that his son who dropped out of school at the age of 20 had returned to school and was in good condition. She recommended her mother Z to attend the Jupa learning camp in May, 20 19.

At that time, the child's physical condition was not allowed to participate in the study camp. Mom Z followed the parents' lecture hall for four times and slowly corrected her attitude and relationship with her children. She was lucky enough to attend the study camp before the city closed.

My daughter is versatile now, she can compose music and play the piano, and her life is in good order. Ju said that too much material wealth is a disaster for children. In this regard, mother Z has adapted to her children. Hard-won happiness, mother Z appreciates the help of her father and family. We also deeply wish this mother and daughter!

This is a loving and dedicated couple. Dad l shared two aspects, one is doing well, the other is doing well, and there is room for improvement.

The first aspect is to improve self-study, control emotions, try not to lose your temper at home, and let the family knot gradually open:

Family should be the source of happiness, but sometimes it becomes the source of trouble. When we are not clear, we tend to be more harsh on the people around us, complaining that our parents, our brothers and sisters, our lovers and even our children put the blame on others.

When putting the blame on family members, we can ask ourselves, am I really that innocent? Am I really as good as I think?

If we sincerely reflect on ourselves, we will understand that most of the problems in our family are rooted in our own hearts.

Do I really care about my family from my heart? Can I go beyond the problem and take on the responsibility of starting a family? Have I ever thanked my parents for their kindness?

Zeng Zi said, "The way of Yao and Shun is only filial piety." Many times, we may not even be able to repay our parents' kindness. At this point, what qualifications do we have to complain about our families?

After understanding these truths, we began to face ourselves squarely, and understood the true meaning of "doing something wrong, not asking for it", and truly tolerate love, respect, understand and care for children! The relationship between husband and wife is the most important of all relationships. Finding the strengths of lovers, seeing the strengths of children and giving full play to the strengths of children's nature have done better in the past two years after entering the rich culture.

On the other hand, in understanding and establishing rules, it is my next direction to reflect on what I need to improve as a father and learn from the good family I have done before.

S mother's happy smile is the best answer to her lover's responsibility and courage to look directly at the question. Mother s added that the child is in good condition now and has a good relationship with his classmates at school. There are also some twists and turns when the volunteer brigade returns. Under the guidance of her father, her daughter firmly returned to school.

Daughter's nature and conscience, seeing that there are children in the class who are in a bad mood to take medicine, take the initiative to chat with these children and tell them to communicate with others more, not to isolate themselves and not to hurt themselves; Because some children showed their daughters the marks of rowers, their daughters also asked schools and teachers to pay more attention to these children, telling schools that if there are children who commit such violence, it will also have an impact on schools. We are very moved by the kindness and love of the children. In terms of study, every exam is a little better than the last one. Later, in the third year of high school, art candidates who chose to paint basically arranged things themselves. Children's works participating in school activities were also recommended by the school to Hubei Daily for publication, which increased their confidence and stabilized their growth direction and pace.

Z Mom Share: Our focus is to change ourselves. Life is a spiritual method. Only by understanding it sincerely can we connect with the high energy living in dad, and there will be a kind of wisdom that really supports children's relaxed and happy study. Hone in things, work hard in your heart, serve your family sincerely, give your husband a smiling face and give your child a warmth, and the whole family will warm up. If you worry about your child's future, you will trip your child's steps. Instead of expecting children to be beautiful, it is better to expect their own beauty, be expected by children, constantly improve their own pattern and realm, and be a role model for children.

Strong love for parents comments lineup Dad Zhong, Dad Zhu and his wife, Mom Yu, Dad Chen, Dad Li and Dad Liang have, as always, helped a group of new passengers selflessly. They put off work entertainment early in their busy schedule, arranged their work in advance, and came to the online conference room on time. They stand firmly with us, conveying love and warmth. In the face of every new breakthrough in the new family, warm and powerful words emerge. Consolidate the theoretical experience and ideas, let the families who are still confused know more, practice more, master the code of family happiness, and return the ocean of children's happiness, so we are closely connected.

A strong review lineup, sharing excerpts, one of which may touch you to reflect and learn:

* * * In the process of growth, there will be conflicts between the old and new models, and growth will not happen overnight. Therefore, conflict is the best time for families and parents to grow up. In this process, parents' wisdom will be constantly tested, small problems and situations will be solved, and children will spiral up. If we fail to adhere to the bottom line of the principle of becoming an adult before becoming a talent, this lesson will certainly be made up in the future growth process.

* * * In the process of family growth, it is very important for husband and wife to share the same frequency. Mom's absolute support will give dad strength and a happy family.

* * * There is no ambiguity in front of feelings. Husband and wife love each other, respect each other as guests, set an example for their children, practice the theory of living, truly understand and care for their children, and take the initiative to talk about things that have nothing to do with learning. Every hurdle that children encounter will be crossed under the guidance of parents' love.

* * * Breakthrough can be reborn. Despair is not only a distance, a threshold, but also a turning point, an awakening and sublimation.

* * * It is very important to rebuild the relationship between husband and wife. A person who wants to grow up looks inward, and a person who doesn't want to grow up asks for it, hoping that others will change. Dad said that it was a psycho who changed his god with someone else.

* * * About the discussion that rules cannot be established without principles, every child is different and every family situation is different. How to establish and grasp the rules can't be scripted. How to implement the principle well? Many parents don't know what the principle is. They grasp the principle that children become adults, not talents. People have social attributes, so they should abide by social laws and not violate the laws of life.

* * * How to make children feel the love with temperature? Love is to moisten things silently and ask for nothing in return. Example is greater than words, and the child will naturally give back to you to see his kindness and gratitude.

* * * New families and families to be separated cannot apply the sharing practice of sailing families. These are special things, and under the great guidance, thousands of people give directions. The sharing of the sailing family is a personal experience, which gives everyone hope and direction.

Looking back, since we set foot on this train, we have reduced anxiety, anxiety, confusion and misunderstanding, increased a lot of patience, confidence and courage to explore, turned our eyes back to ourselves, examined our own shortcomings, improved our self-cultivation, stopped nagging and accusing others, paid more attention to the relationship between people, conveyed love and warmth with our hearts, and created a harmonious communication space.

China used 40 years of reform and opening up to make up for 300 years of world vacancy. When China stands on the top of the world, we realize that it is a social responsibility and the mission of the times to make our motherland strong.

? In family education, the incorrect way of love is toxic to children's growth, which hurts not only the children, but also the family behind the children, the family behind the family and even the nation behind the family. In order to prevent more tragic families from sinking, Juda resolutely assumed social responsibility, which is also a fearless spirit and mission of the times.

"Young people are strong and the country is strong", and teaching and educating people complement each other. For parents, self-growth and learning on the road of family education affect the growth of a new generation, the cultivation of new forces, the fate of the country and the hope of the nation. Therefore, parents' learning is also the call of the times.

Dad Zhong, the district head, conveyed the notice of the parents' growth class to us, and we got together to share everyone's happiness and "worry" about everyone's happiness.

At this time, we should not forget that there are families who are as confused and miserable as before, such as those who are tired of learning, who drop out of school, who are black and white, whose mobile phones don't leave home, whose children don't work after graduating from college, and so on. We are a beam of light in their darkness, lend a helping hand and help them out of the predicament of tutoring.

Small parent classes for new families follow the direction of "fewer but better" and accurately connect with new families, while a limited number of parent classes are "wide and better" for old families. In the immersion class, the sailing family keeps improving and climbing. The five-day classroom content "Five Positive Systems of Family Order Reconstruction" is accompanied by senior caring parents to sail happily. Here, we will reveal the secret for you and move towards family happiness. Willing to support those who deserve help is the most powerful. Offline parent growth classes will be held in various regions and groups, and appointments will be made after the Spring Festival, depending on the national situation.

? Thank you, Yu Ran, the navigation instructor who always guides our life direction, the head of the responsible area of the train conductor and flight attendant on the happiness train, the love for mom and dad, and the new family members who continue to join the happiness train. Because of your company all the way, the happiness train continues to move forward.

All the way to the sun, forge ahead,

On the way to the sun, don't forget your innovative thinking.

All the way to the sun, starting with the heart,

All the way to the sun, there will be dawn,

All the way to the sun, thank you!

Looking forward to meeting you at the next stop!

2022 1 month in Wuhan

Attachment: My train schedule.