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Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, then take the initiative and don't have a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable, and maybe the person you like will suffer.

Any girl's psychology is very complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. Kind girls are easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart. Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and it will be sad to see your indifferent eyes again, but she won't tell you and won't let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are persistent and will bring them a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will not regret it. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the sweetness that the initial efforts have brought? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like, and girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.

1. Thick-skinned: This is very important. Jordan chan said in the movie "Young and Dangerous": If a man is thick-skinned, he has successfully chased half the girls. Hey hey! ! Later, I tried to bail.

2. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you should show indifference, and find an opportunity to say to her on a special occasion: "XXX (name) I know you don't like me, and I know that feelings can't be forced, but ... (Remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then look at her affectionately) Say: You can't stop me from loving you, I will. I beg you not to take me as your burden. You can try to live your own life. I just hope ... just a little hope (eyes must be wet) that you can let me accompany you to take care of you and protect you ... although ... even if (tears are needed at this time, it's hard to say) treat me as a brother, as a younger brother, others can't help it, as long as. It's enough to be as sad as possible. That's enough. .......... (muttering to herself) At this moment, remember never to tell a girl that my life is yours and I can't live without you. Girls hate it when a boy dies in front of her.

3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: I can't teach you this, I can only rely on you. At this point, I want to remind you that no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she wears, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking" and make it up. Girls naturally like to be flattered.

4. Stability: This is all compatible with the third point. If you are not steady, girls will say that you are a playboy, and if you are not smooth-tongued, girls will say that you don't understand interest. Ha ha!

5. Romance: It's up to you. It is enough to choose the right time to surprise her. This trick will greatly expose the rich, so don't be afraid to spend money.

6. Be careful: no matter what you do, you should think of her first, (don't think you will suffer ... and so on) take care of her in every possible way, and you must make her feel that she can't live without you.

7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points, I feel that there is no girl you can't catch up with (this sentence does not include those who have too big a difference in appearance, such as men who look like turtles and women who look like angels). In short, use the word "heart" to understand what she thinks, what she thinks. Finally, may all lovers get married.

Warning: Don't cheat girls with the above points. If found, I will inform my spoony brothers to get up and beat up the bad guys.

[repost] chasing girls must read: tips! ! ! ! ! ! !

Right or wrong on the first date

1) Pay attention to her so that she can pay attention to you-

I hope she pays attention to you, in fact, it is best to start from herself, including paying attention to her daily dress, paying attention to some details in her life, what she likes to eat, what hobbies and interests she has, and so on. Once you have a chance to talk to her, you can naturally open the topic and discuss it. When she knows that you are paying close attention to her, she will unexpectedly draw her attention to you and may leave a deep impression.

2) Avoid an unstable first date.

After all, the first date is very important. Most girls prefer frank words to evasive ones. Therefore, instead of simply asking her when she will be free and other vague questions, it is better to boldly assume a date to show your sincerity. Otherwise, girls will be confused and don't know if your date is true or not. An erratic date is not sincere enough, so it is more than a failure.

3) Careful, caring and sincere-

She agreed to your date, which initially proved that she did not resist you, and even had a good impression and had the opportunity to develop into friends. At this time, you might as well pay attention to her dress that day and give her a gentle compliment, which is enough to make her happy.

In addition, you should make preparations before the date, such as finding out what dishes she likes to eat in advance, or booking three restaurants with different mood and food (of course, it is best to concentrate in the same area), so that she can choose at that time, which will naturally make her feel that you are so cautious, and the most important thing is that you are sincere. You can't ignore the opportunity to show your grace, such as driving the door, pulling the seat and sending her home. Remember, she will be special.

4) Avoid talking about past relationships-

You like a girl and have a lot to say to her, which is understandable, including your past and present. But many men make a mistake, that is, they put their past love history into their mouths on the first date, hoping that the other person can understand their past, but this often ignores the feelings of girls. Did you hear about your ex-girlfriend because she was dating you? Besides, most girls like to be unique in their boyfriends' hearts, and they will never let their boyfriends have another person in their hearts. Jealousy has long been closely linked with love, and it is not controlled by reason. Therefore, once old feelings are involved, it is better to be careful and considerate of each other's feelings.

5) Give her a small gift to make her happy-

Consider it a small gift. Choose a delicate gift for her in advance, such as a fresh and gorgeous tulip, a box of beautifully packaged chocolates, a necklace with simple design and an interesting little book. Gifts are more important than money, and it is best to be small. You shouldn't act in a hurry. Buying her gold ornaments or expensive leather bags on the first date will only scare her, and then she will give you a push.

6) Avoid boring topics and boring conversations-

If we can seize the opportunity to have a chat with her, we should communicate well. You can pay more attention to her recent situation, hobbies or views on things, ask questions to deepen your understanding and understanding of her, and let the topic continue naturally, instead of having a yes or no, which will be boring.

Similarly, you should talk about what you think the other person is interested in, not just your expertise or ambition. Don't bore her on the first date, then there may be no next date.

7) It is recommended that the whole appointment be successfully completed-

After dinner, ask her about eating. Ask her if she is interested in going to another store or staying for dessert. It will make her feel considerate. Dessert after dinner is a good suggestion. You can use this time to talk and laugh. After dinner, you should send her home. Before you leave, simply say to her: [It's good to be with you tonight]. That will make her happy. At this time, と

I believe she has no room to refuse you.