Book list

Opening my notebook, I made a lot of reading plans for August, but this August I only read four books, which was a lazy summer vacation.

I tried to recommend some books worth reading before.

But every time I fail because of my own procrastination, I seem to have found a solution to procrastination recently.

In this way, we can share the book list with you in time (and then we will put procrastination and how to get up early on the agenda)

There are three books I want to share this time: To Kill a Mockingbird, First Love Paradise by Fang Siqi and You should fly to your mountain with a bird.

Every book is meaningful and worth thinking about. After reading it, you will find that life seems a little more settled.

Have you ever been discriminated against by others?

To Kill a Mockingbird tells a story about prejudice.

Tom, a disabled black man, was accused of violating a white woman, and a lawyer defended the black man.

As a result, all kinds of gossip, ridicule and abuse followed.

Although this lawyer knew from the beginning that the lawsuit would be lost.

Because in the social environment at that time, blacks suffered serious racial discrimination.

But the lawyer said to his children:

Courage is knowing that you will lose before you start, but you have to do it anyway and stick to it anyway. You seldom win, but sometimes you win.

He tried to collect evidence to prove the innocence of the black man, but in the end he lost.

In the end, the black man angrily escaped from prison and was shot at will.

After reading this story, I feel very angry and sad.

Are the black people in the book also the epitome of some people in our real society?

They were prejudiced and discriminated against from the beginning.

It's like a thief who wants to wash his hands of it, only to find that people around him don't believe him at all. He is the first thing that comes to mind when he loses something.

Unable to stand these prejudices and discrimination, the thief who wants to turn over a new leaf has embarked on his theft road again.

The author said:

"Never know a person from other people's mouths, don't believe gossip, only when you get in touch with him can you see the truth."

We may all wear colored glasses and unconsciously shoot the bullet of prejudice at others.

I remember when I was in primary school, a child in my class was often bullied.

None of us helped him at that time. We just stood by and looked on coldly, and no one stood up to stop those violent acts.

Because he is often bullied, everyone is biased against him, so no one plays with him. He is always alone.

Finally, the little boy who was often bullied dropped out of school.

I was thinking, if we stand up together and help him fight violence.

Then maybe it will bring him warmth, and maybe it will change his fate from now on. He may go to junior high school, high school and finally college.

No one has ever tried to understand him. At that time, he was just a little boy less than ten years old.

We always use our own definition to understand a person, "I think …" "I think …"

"You can't really know a person unless you stand in his position and walk with him for a while."

So now when people talk about a person, I won't interrupt too much.

Because a person's good or bad, only in contact.

So that's why I recommend this book.

If To Kill a Mockingbird taught me how to let go of my prejudice, Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise made me start thinking about human nature.

One day in my freshman year, I came across this book on my friend's desk.

After reading a few pages, I was deeply attracted and felt depressed and painful at the same time.

I often remind myself that this is a book to be put on the pillow.

The author of this book shows us the good and evil behind human nature with his own personal experience.

The prototype of the hero of the story is the author herself, and this book is also her personal experience.

On the surface, this amiable teacher is a veritable "big tail wolf".

The teacher took the little girl to her apartment in the name of "tutoring" and then sexually assaulted her.

After what happened, the girl never knew what to do.

She also tried to say to her mother gently, "Mom, I heard that there is a girl in our school with the teacher."

Mother replied, "This girl is really shameless."

My mother's words also made her give up the idea of talking to her mother.

She chose to submit to humiliation. She deceived herself and fell in love with the teacher until she was deeply abnormal and chose to commit suicide and leave this world.

The book says, "patience is not a virtue, but it is a hypocritical world to regard patience as a virtue? The way to maintain its distorted order. "

In the face of this evil deed, many victims will, like the author, choose to submit to humiliation and suffer silently.

Because once things are exposed, you and people around you will be attacked by public opinion.

But if everyone chooses patience, it will only make the wicked more and more rampant and unscrupulous.

There is another sentence in the book that impressed me deeply:

"He found that this society is very convenient for sexy taboo.

Forcing a girl,

The whole society will think it is her fault,

Guilt will drive her back to her. "

I saw a Weibo not long ago:

"After a girl was raped by a boy, she didn't dare to tell her family, because she was a good student since she was a child and she was stronger. She felt that she couldn't stand such a thing happening to herself.

She felt that she was unclean, so she chose to bear it silently.

Like the heroine in this book, she tried to fool herself into falling in love with him.

Later, the girl got pregnant and had to go to the hospital for an abortion alone. When the parents of the other party knew about it, they said that the girl seduced him and called the girl shameless. "

I sincerely hope that everyone can understand this book and sex education should be popularized as soon as possible.

Don't wait until you are absent from school and think you haven't started school.

If you have such an unfortunate experience, don't deny yourself easily.

Because a person's value is not defined by others.

It is not accepted by anyone, and it is not an accessory of anyone.

You are yourself.

This book is very popular this year, so many people should have read it.

The story is mainly about education and family background.

After I read this book and learned about the author's background, I was shocked! ! !

It is hard to imagine such a thing happening in our modern civilized life.

In the United States in the 1980 s, it was hard to imagine that anyone would be isolated from civilized society.

The heroine of the story, that is, the author herself, was born on a mountain in the United States in the 265438+80 s, which is what we now call the post-80 s,

There are seven children in her family. Her father is a paranoid, preparing for the end of the world every day. Her family never went to the hospital when she was sick, and she was treated with folk remedies.

Her father won't let her go to school, but let her work in her own waste factory every day.

In this way, the heroine Tara 17 didn't go to school or see a doctor before she was seven years old. She wears men's clothes every day and works in her father's scrap factory.

Tara has to endure the atrocities and insults of her brother Sean from time to time.

When she grew up, the woman left her family and was admitted to Cambridge by her own efforts.

But this book doesn't mention how hard Tara worked to get into Cambridge University.

How did a girl who had never been to school before the age of 17 get into Cambridge, leave her family and fly to her own mountain?

I think besides her natural intelligence, she has made great efforts and persistence that ordinary people can't see.

There is a sentence in the book:

"Education should be the expansion of ideas, the deepening of empathy and the broadening of horizons.

Education should not make your prejudice more stubborn.

If people are educated, they should become less sure, not more sure. "

After reading this book, you will see and feel the power of education.

In fact, the shortcut to change yourself is education.

After finishing college, the hostess felt that her life had been split in two.

On the one hand, I can't give up the past because of my family, on the other hand, I want to escape from my family and fly high.

Perhaps being born in a family is the piece in our hearts that is difficult to tell right from wrong.

Sometimes it warms us, sometimes it hurts us the most.

A woman loves her paranoid father, but she still chooses to say goodbye to him.

Sometimes I think of the warm side of my brother who has been violent to me, but she is more glad that he is not around.

As the hostess said:

"You can love someone, but you still choose to say goodbye to him.

You can miss someone, but still be glad that he is not in your life. "

This is the list of books I want to share!

I hope we can become strong, independent and brave in our future life.

Today's sharing is over. See you next time ~