What are the highlights of Don't underestimate me? How do you vomit after reading it?

In recent years, there are many variety shows with parent-child as the theme, but there are only a handful of programs with children as the theme and discussing education. Last year, The Mysterious Child got a high score of 7.9 on Douban after it was broadcast on Tencent. On June 20th this year, another documentary "Don't underestimate me" featuring amateur children was broadcast on Zhejiang Satellite TV, focusing on the growth education of children aged 3-6.

What's the point? Li Chengru encouraged education and "praised" his father.

In the boys' dormitory, Li Chengru, who has always been "outspoken" in variety shows, changed the seriousness of the first issue and showed her gentleness. He became a kind "Grandpa Li" and patiently helped Mengwa dress. He was so tired that he was sweating: "More tired than shooting ten episodes." When farming on the farm, he praised every child in a fancy way. This kind of encouraging education was praised and supported by the battalion commander.

Guilty education

Momo's mother is a 28-year-old girl, but she takes a "guilt-oriented education" for her children-slapping them or slapping themselves when they can't fight, making them feel guilty and try again. In the reflection of DOG's mother, her mother taught her this way since she was a child. She tried to overcome it, but because she didn't know how to get along with children, she finally lived like her mother.

This kind of guilt-based education may be effective in the short term, but it often causes excessive pressure and tension to children. Children who grow up in this environment for a long time often have inferiority or rebellious psychology, which will cause irreparable harm to their psychology over time.

Children curse.

Gaga swore in front of the camera. During the live broadcast, Gaga's mother was still looking for reasons for herself at first, thinking that Gaga's dirty words were said by others. But soon in the live video, Lei Lei said that he learned it because his mother often told him to go out. "Such a big contrast scene is really not a program effect, and the director can't guide it if he wants to."

What are the spit points? Li Chengru and Wang Tao, the practice instructor, violated the regulations because they were soft-hearted, and exempted the children from the punishment of taking off small red flowers. Because of her distress, Ying Dad couldn't help but use the right of intervention and ran out of the observation room to comfort her daughter who was crying out of control.

Excessive connivance and intervention actually undermine the establishment of children's awareness of rules. How to overcome their "hard mouth and soft heart" is also an important lesson for many parents to reshape their educational concepts.