Love is flawed and true.

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Zhang Dai, an essayist in the late Ming Dynasty, famously said, "People can't make friends without addiction because they are heartless; There is no communication between people without shortcomings, so there is no true qi. " It means you can't associate with people who don't have hobbies, because such people don't have deep feelings and can't associate with people who don't have shortcomings, because such people don't have true temperament. What he said really makes sense.

Most people who have no hobbies are bored. They are either impatient with fishing, afraid to walk when traveling, and reluctant to spend money on photography, or they are too dirty when they see dogs and always forget to water the flowers. Finally, they are left lazily leaning on the sofa watching soap operas or playing mobile games. They seem to be not interested in anything, nothing can arouse their interest, and it is difficult to stir up emotional waves on unimportant things. Getting along with them is like touching a hibernating snake, which makes people feel cold and get goose bumps, let alone making friends.

People who have no shortcomings must be very smart. As the saying goes, "gold is not enough, and no one is perfect." It is difficult for a person to find faults from any aspect. This is a big problem in itself, because he must be deliberately disguising himself, always facing you with his shining side, and clamping the ugly place like hiding his tail. They especially like the eyes of people around them. These people may be just to satisfy vanity, or they may be hidden. Such people are so-called hypocrites, so you'd better be more careful.

Both "addiction" and "defect" have the prefix of disease, indicating that there is defect, but it is not a serious problem, just like the smelly fish in Anhui cuisine, which is slightly rotten, but not rotten, but smells good. Hobbies and hobbies are the seeds of energy and capital drip irrigation. People get along with things for a long time, which can spark precious love and nourish the cherish of friendship. It is often said that shortcomings are always vivid signs of life. If you want to cover them up, you must have ulterior motives, just like steamed bread, whiter than snow, probably smoked with sulfur.

There are no certain rules for making friends, but Zhang Dai seems to have drawn two shallow red lines for us to choose friends, which gives us more guidance and basis. At the same time, it reminds us of our life plan. Be a real and interesting person, pay more attention, add some true feelings and make friends all over the world.

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