"When you are old, you have to understand that it doesn't matter if you support the elderly and children. Money is king. " what do you think?

When people are old, some people think clearly: "Supporting the elderly has nothing to do with children. Money is king. " These people are rich and ambitious. I don't even expect my children to support the elderly.

I think, you are so rich and ambitious, do you even hire someone to do one last thing for your children? So you didn't raise your children for nothing? Do you think you are a clever fool? If you think so, what will your children think of you? I don't know if you have thought about it.

You have money. You've figured it out. Everything can be solved with money. However, some people don't understand, why? They have no money.

So please don't just think about yourself, but also think about those who have no money. They have no money and don't depend on their children. Who do they rely on? Northwest wind energy helps them to support their old age? This is completely impossible. So your question is one-sided, without considering the overall situation.

There are five viewpoints to analyze the topic of "providing for the aged has nothing to do with children, and money is king".

One is rich, not king. Health is king.

Money is not king. When you are old, health is king. With money, it's good to be able to take care of yourself in daily life. Buy whatever you want, travel if you want, and play if you want. In short, anything will do.

However, have you thought about it? When you lie in bed at home, who will bring you tea, water, soup and rice?

When you are ill in the hospital, who will help you register, pay the money and do this or that kind of examination? Who helped you to go to the toilet? If it weren't for your children, who would be so diligent, patient and careful to serve you? Therefore, it is king to have children and serve you, and health is king.

Second, money is not king. Having children with you is king.

Money is king. You don't worry about eating, drinking, wearing or living alone. But you can't be as good as your children and grandchildren. Because you are lonely. Therefore, I said that it is your blessing and your king that your children and grandchildren are with you.

Third, money is not king. People who pay are not as good as their own children.

Maybe you will say, you can pay people to do anything. Including cleaning, laundry, cooking, etc. But I'm sure there's one thing you won't pay for. Excuse me, do you also hire people to eat? Seriously, it is better to pay people to do things than to do things with children. Only your children know what you want and buy you what you want.

4. Being rich is not king. Children are the most unfilial, at least for you.

Money is not king in your own hands. In the end, others are the best for you. Others treat you well only after your money, not from the heart. And the worst thing your child can do to you is the meat that falls from you. They will die for you even if they are the most unfilial. Sweet or not, I don't care about my family. Don't you think?

Money is not king. Mutual respect is king.

Money is not king. The family is together, talking and laughing, making noise. You respect me, I respect you, and mutual respect is king. Family harmony is king.

You are old, you have to understand. It is king to have a good relationship with children. Money is not necessarily king. "Providing for the aged has nothing to do with children" is wrong, so it is easy to provoke family conflicts and cause children's dissatisfaction with you.

Money is a thing outside the body. Life does not bring, death does not take away. The person who loves you the most is your child. Although they didn't take good care of you and serve you well for one reason or another, they are your own flesh and blood after all, and I believe parents will understand and forgive their children.

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I quite agree with this sentence: providing for the aged has nothing to do with children, and money is king.

Undeniably, for the post-1970s generation, the issue of providing for the aged has been put on the agenda. Besides, most of the children of our generation are only children. After they get married, they take care of four old people. It is a little unsafe to rely on their children to support the elderly!

Perhaps, with the development and progress of society, the problem of residents' community pension should be solved within 20 years. However, from our own experience, we know that in the future, children can't rely on it, and the government can't rely on it. After all, we still have to rely on ourselves. From now on, you can start to prepare the pension plan, take precautions and nip in the bud!

In the past, it was natural to raise children to prevent old age.

Raising children for old age is a long-standing traditional concept in China, and it is also the reason why boys are preferred to girls in the past. In the past, only sons could inherit the family business and die for their parents after marriage. If you don't have a son, you have to adopt someone else's children to inherit the family business, or take the way of having a son-in-law to support the elderly. In the past, the only way to provide for the aged was children.

Due to the limitation of social system, people's family morality is very heavy. I am old, I am old, I am young, and I am young. This is a matter of course. Coupled with the large number of children, they basically live in a big family, and there are few opportunities to go out to work. Even if the children grow up, their lives mainly depend on their parents' possessions. For the elderly, there is generally no problem.

Now "supporting the elderly and preventing children" is forced by form.

With the continuous development of modern society, it is becoming more and more difficult to raise children to prevent old age. Especially for people born after 70' s and 80' s. If you rely entirely on your children to provide for the elderly, it is of course a heavy pressure for the only-child couple to raise two families and four elderly people. Although most old people now have retirement wages and various medical insurance, they basically don't have to spend their children's money on old-age care and medical care.

But nowadays, young people pursue a comfortable life and keep up with the competition in consumption. Tickets for cars and houses must be obtained by their own efforts. However, some unscrupulous children have the problem of gnawing at the old, hoping that their parents will pay. Parents will be angry if they don't give it. If they do, they will have to move their pensions. At present, there is a strange phenomenon of providing for the aged and preventing children in society. Under the pressure of form, it is ultimately up to you to guard against children.

People always know that relying on themselves is better than relying on others.

When people get old, they will understand that it is definitely insecure to rely on others to provide for the elderly. No matter children, relatives and friends, they all have their own careers and lives to live. I can't be with you all the time. Sometimes it is impossible to point at them anytime and anywhere to help you solve your problems. Only on your own can you live the life you want.

When you are old, you should understand that time is running out and there is no need to be mean to yourself. If you have money in your hand, don't panic; Keep the house and arrange the back road. Money is a child's contribution, and filial piety is a child's gratitude. We don't have to refuse their filial piety or give up their funding. However, we still have to rely on ourselves to provide for the aged, and we will arrange all the back roads ourselves, so there will be no worries.

Concluding remarks

Raising children for old age is a self-protection consciousness developed by China people since ancient times. It is also caused by the lack of official pension measures. If nursing homes can be people-oriented and charity-oriented, people's concept of raising children to prevent old age will change. This requires continuous social development and progress, which is a long-term process.

However, we don't have to worry too much about the future pension problem. With the development and progress of society, I believe that our future forms of providing for the aged will be diversified and socialized, and more community-based ways of providing for the aged will also serve the general public. For us, providing for the aged can't be ignored, and we don't have to be too anxious.

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The idea of raising children for the elderly has a great foundation in China, especially in the 1950s and 1960s, when a pair of parents would have many children, their inherent thinking was: having more children is how happy they are. In addition, China was relatively poor at that time, and social security was far from perfect. Many people want to protect their old age by having more children. These ideas are also understandable.

However, times are changing, and people's thinking is also changing. After entering the 2 1 century, many people are reluctant to have another child. Even if the country has liberalized the second child policy, the number of people willing to have a second child has dropped sharply.

Because of people's ideas and economic conditions today, people have made different behaviors from the older generation.

First, it has always been the concept of the older generation of China people to raise children to prevent old age. However, in reality, the more children there are in the family, the security of the elderly in their later years may not be satisfactory.

The more children are born, the more worried parents are: whether they have enough to eat and wear warm clothes, how their academic performance is, and whether they have gone out to make trouble. Tuition, training fees, tuition fees, etc. Every year is a big expense. After graduating from college, I have to worry about getting married. If it is a boy, at least one suite should be prepared, and it is best not to borrow money, otherwise the wife can't find it. After the children get married and have children, they have to help with the children. After working hard all my life, I may not be able to get the understanding of my children in the end.

When they really want to enjoy happiness, some children often push the buck and refuse to take the responsibility of raising their parents. This kind of ending is also what many parents don't want to see.

Second, the concept of raising children to prevent old age is no longer popular.

With the opening of China, the parent-child relationship abroad has also influenced our ideas.

Parents and children have always maintained an equal relationship abroad. They respect their children's decisions, support their children to participate in various activities, and always give them the most basic help in life. When they encounter some problems, encourage them to solve them by themselves. Encourage children to live independently as adults.

In the eyes of Europeans and Americans, children are independent individuals, and their future life needs them to go by themselves.

Many people in China are beginning to realize this. Children always leave us. We can't tie them to our side. They have their own lives.

Third, the improvement of the social security system.

With the development of national economy, the social security system is becoming more and more perfect. Once the elderly encounter diseases, medical insurance or agricultural insurance can pay a large amount of income, and the annual pension can basically protect the daily life of the elderly. Therefore, even without the help of children, the life of the elderly can be effectively guaranteed.

Moreover, there are more and more old-age care institutions, and many places have introduced various new old-age care measures, such as home-based care for the elderly and housing-based care for the elderly. It has effectively guaranteed the old people's sense of security.

In short, you can't rely entirely on your children to provide for the elderly. In most cases, we can only rely on ourselves, and the country's social security is becoming more and more perfect. Even if we don't have much money, we can spend our old age happily.

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I know many people don't agree with this sentence. In our China people's mind, raising children to prevent old age is king.

Because you can't move when you are old, you can entrust your body and life to strangers, pension institutions, caregivers and nannies you don't trust at all?

It seems unlikely that our society will have no trust in strangers at all. Even the old lady fell on the side of the road, and you dare not help her. If you are old and have no children around you, you may feel that the whole society is a cold piece. You will be afraid. Who will really take care of it? There is no such person.

But here's the problem. Young people are under too much pressure, and the pressure on young people will be even greater in the future. They may have to pay for the house, they have their own children to support, they may not be able to save any money financially, and they may need 996 for their work. If it is a one-child family, there are at least four elderly people to take care of. How can young people be busy?

After all, if you are not rich, then they are not rich. From a high probability, I will still find you an old-age care institution, a care worker and a nanny. If you are a conscientious parent, you will accept this arrangement from your child. After all, young people are not easy. Who doesn't want their children to live well? When the elderly get old, there will be less burden for future generations. Or euthanasia early, save the country some burden.

Our society will continue to age, and the speed will be faster and faster, which is a trend. There are fewer and fewer young people. Just like Japan now, young people go to work in big cities, and rural areas and some small cities are gradually hollowed out by aging. In a big city like Tokyo, although the population structure is not as exaggerated as that in rural areas, the population base is large, and the elderly population has increased more than that in rural areas. Therefore, the elderly have gradually become a big problem in society. Young people alone cannot support them, and the burden on the country is very heavy.

Especially for civil servants, the pension in the park is relatively high, and a large number of civil servants will retire in the future. Raising a retired civil servant is equivalent to raising three other old people. So this ratio is very scary.

So do you need a lot of money to say that you are old? Because it is difficult for you to rely on the government, and it is difficult for you to rely on your children. Because of the simple truth, with money, there is a chance of happiness when you are old. If you are old and have no money, who do you think you can rely on? Government or children?

From birth to death, in the final analysis, a person still depends on himself and fate.

Yes, it's up to you to support the elderly. But I didn't understand it until I was old. It's a little late. I should have known earlier.

In fact, no matter what age, we should believe in human nature. There is some truth in the saying that there is no filial son in bed for a long time. When you are busy, how can you come to the long-term sick bed to do filial piety? You know, people are getting older now. Some 90-year-olds, even 1000-year-olds, have children who are too old to be filial. I still need someone to take care of myself, so how can I take care of my elderly parents?

If you have money, you can hire someone to take care of it. Don't disturb the children. This will make your life easier. Especially now, people's physique really can't keep up with the previous generation. They have just reached middle age, and they are often tortured by various illnesses, even if they are powerless.

It is a little late to find the pain when you are too old to walk. You must make plans for the elderly in advance. The couple depend on each other. Don't get sick when you are old. No one will give you a sip of water. Be positive. Try not to hire anyone to take care of you, because you don't know how long you will live. Take good care of the money if you die. Don't wait until then, when you have no money, no one will take care of you. I want to die, I can't live, and I can't live. It's pathetic to work hard all your life. ...

"Parents' pension has nothing to do with their children, and money is king." I think it makes sense. Besides, health is the king of Wang Daozhong.

1, countless practical experiences tell us that parents should never expect their children to provide for the elderly. Parents are too old to move, even if their children are filial, they don't have time to take care of you in most cases. This time my father was ill in hospital, and I had personal experience. Although I have three brothers, they are all very busy and can't stay at my bedside for a long time. I can't help looking for a nurse. One day, 280 yuan. It's even more troublesome if you stay in bed for a long time. People say that "there is no dutiful son in front of a long bed" is a true portrayal. Not to mention those children who don't want to fulfill their support obligations, their parents are sick and they run away.

2. Pension has nothing to do with children, not that children really have no responsibility, but that children may be powerless. "Children should be raised, not left with their relatives". When parents are old, we are still working hard for our own livelihood, which is beyond our power. This is also a realistic problem.

If parents are old and rich, the situation will be much better, at least they can ask someone to take care of them. You can hire a nanny and an hourly worker. Those with good conditions can live in an optional nursing home. Parents are rich and do not depend on their children, which is the greatest help to their children and is also conducive to family harmony.

4. The most important one: Parents should think of themselves first, which is what I often say to my parents. Spending money on yourself and keeping in shape is the right way to go through the vicissitudes of life.

When people are old and sick, even if they have money, if you give money to children, they will say, Mom and Dad, please hire a nanny! If you are 80 years old and can still sing, dance, punch, swim and climb mountains, your children will definitely say, Mom and Dad, you are so smart. You see, this is the essential difference: health is the king of Wang Daozhong.

I hope my words can inspire everyone, thank you.

When people are old, they should understand that providing for the aged has nothing to do with their children, and money is king.

I don't think so at the moment. Family harmony is king. If you have children, you must trust them, but there are not a few unfilial people. That's just a few.

Although people are old, it is the wish of every old man not to add burden to his children in order to live. It is not how much money is king, but mainly good health and happy family. Old people love children, and children can be filial, so money is not important, and a happy life is king.

In my opinion, this sentence speaks for some people.

But it can't represent everyone's thoughts, and even make people ignore the existence of family ties.

After all, money is not everything. Some things can't be done with money!

For example, if you are uncomfortable, you can't move, you are sick in bed, you need someone to take care of you, and you have to run around doing things. ...

I don't have children to accompany me, but I just pay someone to serve me.

There is no sense of security and trust in the establishment of this relationship.

There is no affection between you, only money dependence.

Interests can make people feel confused, worried and uneasy!

In fact,

In this way, everything depends on money to solve all problems.

There is no life you want!

On the other hand, even if you have a lot of money, how much can you eat, wear and use when you get old?

Unless you have several serious illnesses, there is not much left.

With a lot of money, you won't be happy alone!

In fact, providing for the aged has nothing to do with children, which is wrong.

This is just theoretical wording, which is misleading to real life.

It's distrust of family!

If you have children, you have children. No, just no.

When you are old, even if they are not filial, they will still be your children.

They can't be indifferent, and there is no sign at all.

At least your mood,

Looking at the well-being of the family, I will be relieved!

Old people are afraid of loneliness and illness. I'm afraid I'll die after staying at home for a few days, and no one knows. ...

This kind of news is not uncommon, often seen, people feel very embarrassed!

They don't have no money, they don't have no king, they have no children.

Their pension is related to their children!

We are old,

I don't want to be rich, I don't want to be king, I just want my children to live a healthy life.

And so on!

"When you are old, you have to understand that it doesn't matter if you support the elderly and children. Money is king. " what do you think?

In my opinion, this is the idea of independent old people and cannot represent the opinions of most people.

Even let the flesh and blood become a money transaction, regardless of right or wrong.

That's a good idea,

But we can't ignore the existence of children.

And children,

It is impossible to ignore our existence.

Between, there is still a connection!

We should support each other,

Until the near future!

at present

Should be responsible for each other.

In the world, people on earth don't want money, of course, money is king. It is not king to say that old-age care does not depend on children. The history of China for thousands of years is not to say that it can be changed. Where is the moral name? I have traveled to many places in China, and I know many ethnic groups, and their parents don't respect them! It is true that no matter what kind of old people are, they should enjoy themselves in social life. If you are not lazy to your children, then you are not independent in your family. That won't do. For the family, you can relieve it with the children in that respect, but not alone. Children who are not filial can enlighten and learn everything.

This problem affects not only your children, but also the great children of all mankind. We should unite and love the next generation, which is our support and our country. We don't need to unite and love the next generation, we hope that the next generation of Chinese children will be more prosperous! More brilliant and powerful! It will be passed down from generation to generation. I hope America is an old man with children in the distance and filial piety by your side.

Personally, I hope it will help you.

It should be like this. Now they are all only children, and their burdens are quite heavy. If parents depend on them, they are very hard, so they are not old now, so they should save more money to prepare for the future. Only they have money, a sense of security and happy children.