Love a person, what do you love?

A city is very big. If there are people you love in this city, then this city is small because your love overflows the whole city. The city is small. If the person you love leaves you, the city will be big, because you can't find yourself.

Sitting on the outdoor balcony of the coffee shop, watching people coming and going on the road downstairs. I wonder, how many people should a person miss in this life? How many people must a person pass by in this life before they can get to know each other, know each other and love each other?

I have a few friends, and before I know their current boyfriends and girlfriends, their current ones have become predecessors, or ex-predecessors. And all this, I saw it in the WeChat circle of friends.

In the circle of WeChat friends, you can see all kinds of life in one day, happy, unhappy, good, bad, ugly, beautiful and everything.

For example, I have a friend who was single in April and didn't even show signs of falling in love. In early July, she sent me an invitation and told me that she was getting married.

Because of this invitation, I began to think about my life. At that time, I was wondering if I, who was almost thirty and didn't want to fall in love and get married, didn't adapt to this planet.

In the next few months, my friends posted an average of five circles of friends every day, mostly about their daily lives and Xiu Xiu's love. From the circle of friends, they are very happy. My friend told me that they fell in love at first sight, and I nodded, but I didn't understand at all.

Fortunately, the wonderful thing about people is that as long as you fall in love with someone, you will settle down. As if in the vast waters, I found an island. Calm down from now on, no more tossing, no longer afraid of drowning.

I have a classmate, who lives near my home and eats together from time to time. After she got married a few years ago, apart from work, her husband and children became the whole content of her life, and she didn't even bother to send her friends. Only during the New Year can she see a symbolic circle of friends. We always say that she is busy and happy.

Perhaps, if you fall in love with someone, you will feel really rich inside. I think it is meaningless to show off my happiness to others. I don't think it's necessary to say anything to others. Mobile phones are no longer the best toys, and social interaction has become dispensable.

Several friends around me have experienced long-distance running in love, and then they either broke up or entered the marriage hall. A good friend and the other half have been in love for 6 years and got married early this year. In a recent chat, he said that they felt good before they got married and were not tired together, but they stumbled after they got married.

His words remind me of a sentence I wrote before: Love is easy because of the five senses. Because of the three views, it is not easy to get along.

To love a person, we must first love the living person, and love each other's looks and temper. This is a kind of love. There is also a kind of love, that is, love the imaginary person. For example, imagine each other as their predecessors, or first love, or imagine each other as their favorite idols.

Love can beautify a person. Just as Dante loved Beya Treize, he directly regarded her as a goddess. I have a colleague who thinks her boyfriend is a lot like Csillam, so she married him.

Because you love a person's imaginary part, you can tolerate her shortcomings. For example, when we first fell in love, the other party stood us up and we were late, and we could all bear it. If the imaginary part is removed, at least I can't stand being two hours late without anyone. This may be the reason why I have been single for almost thirty years.

In the face of a real person, I don't know how long I can stand it without the imaginary part and living under the same roof. Therefore, I can understand the helplessness of a good friend. He just loves the imaginary part of the other person, too much. When living with real people, he is not suitable. Try to live with the real ta and fall in love with the imaginary ta.

Life contains many interesting contents, such as writing, reading, traveling, family, friendship, photography, music and food. Love is just one of them, not the whole of life. If you regard love as the whole of your life, you will be trapped in love, become sensitive and fragile, and even lose yourself.

In a word, love is an art, and each of us is learning love and how to be loved.

I am Beibei Xiao, sharing interesting life with interesting words.

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