Marriage time machine: Do you choose to marry love or money?

In today's society, do you choose to marry love or money? For this vote, I believe that 100% of the girls are eager to marry love from the bottom of their hearts, but in the end only 5% married love, 10% married money, and the remaining 85% married forbearance and compromise.

In today's society, 85% of girls enter the marriage hall through blind date. They met a boy with good education, registered permanent residence, suitable age, figure and appearance in constant blind date, and then "took photos" with each other. In fact, two people have nothing in common, so they date again and again and go to movies/restaurants/parks again and again. In this process, two people have no love at all, but gradually get used to each other through almost compulsive getting along. Xiao Qiang said habit, not like, not fall in love with each other.

Two people who choose to get married because of compromise and forbearance will also have various contradictions after marriage. The most direct example is that many people have attended the wedding. Those couples who get married because of blind date, when the groom kisses the bride at the wedding scene, the bride's subconscious reaction is to avoid, without excluding the shy element. If a prudent person can see a trace of disgust in the bride's eyes, it is reported that the husband and wife who have just been married for half a year will divorce. The reason is hard to imagine. The wife allows her husband to live as husband and wife, but he is not allowed to kiss. The whole process is like lying on a corpse. This is what we call "inner compromise, body uncompromising". Reader Hong Xiao is such a poor woman.

When I was in college, Hong Xiao met her first boyfriend. It was love at first sight. Although her boyfriend is not the kind of person with outstanding ability, Hong Xiao feels very practical with him, and even she is willing to accompany him to endure hardships. They also agreed to go to the city to work hard after graduation, which backfired. On the eve of graduation, Hong Xiao's parents explicitly told Hong Xiao that they must go back to their hometown to work after graduation, or they would break off relations with Hong Xiao. Although Hong Xiao didn't want to, he didn't want to.

From then on, Hong Xiao stopped talking about men and women, and devoted all her energy to her work. Seeing that her daughter was going to enter the leftover women industry, Hong Xiao's parents were very anxious, so they asked someone to introduce Hong Xiao. At first, Hong Xiao didn't want to go on a blind date, but her parents forced her to die. Hong Xiao had to compromise and go back and forth several times. There are also many men with good conditions, but for Hong Xiao, they are not moved. Finally, under the semi-compulsion of parents, we had to compromise.

To be fair, this person has excellent conditions and can be worthy of Hong Xiao, but Hong Xiao always feels that something is missing. Although this man often asks Hong Xiao out to eat, go shopping and go to the movies, and shows gentlemanly manners everywhere, Hong Xiao still can't get over it. After getting along for half a year, Hong Xiao finally gave in to himself. They met their parents and set a wedding date. When Hong Xiao and her fiance took wedding photos, no matter what the photographer said or how her fiance coaxed her, Hong Xiao never smiled.

After marriage, Hong Xiao and her husband are living together. They are each responsible for their own affairs. Her husband works hard to earn money to support his family, and Hong Xiao is responsible for raising children and doing housework. In others' eyes, Hong Xiao is happy because her husband is very kind to her, but only Hong Xiao knows that the happiness she longed for has been lost that night. People always say that Hong Xiao married love and money, but Hong Xiao knew that she married patience and compromise.

Hong Xiao's marriage is really pitiful, but isn't her marriage the marriage of most of us? We are eager to marry love, but when the reality gives us too many hardships, we gradually compromise and know how to bear it until we give up. Many people always look pale when talking about marriage, and even avoid talking about marriage. Contemporary marriage is gradually becoming polarized. Finally, Xiao Qiang wants to tell female readers that if you choose to marry love, you should understand that love is not a preservative. If you choose to marry money, you have to understand that money is in your eyes. So no matter what kind of decision you make, you must have the courage to bear the consequences.