Why is father always sad?

Today, I got such a video: On my daughter's wedding day, I sat at home and took photos with my relatives and friends. Then the cameraman said to the bride, "Bride, give your mother a hug and take a picture, okay?" Then the bride hugged her mother and smiled happily. The photographer said to the bride, "Good, then let's hug Dad again." After listening to the photographer, the bride turned to look at her father. I was about to hug my father when he suddenly turned his back on his daughter and covered his face. The original festive atmosphere suddenly changed. The photographer quickly asked the bride to hug her father. At this time, my father actually began to cry. The bride hugged her father and whispered, "Dad, what are you doing on such a big day? Stop crying! " Seeing her father crying, the bride couldn't help crying. No matter how busy it is around and how noisy friends and relatives are, the bride and father may not feel it at that moment. They were just immersed in that inseparable grief and hugged each other in tears. Mother sat beside her, not so heavy, and now it's sad to watch her daughter and father cry. A family of three just sat there crying. What my father didn't say on weekdays finally came into being at the moment when my daughter got married. For a long time, the father image in children's eyes may be a cold male god, who is not good at words and can't express himself, but he is always paying silently in his own way. It is said that the married daughter poured water, but she worked hard to raise "water" for more than 20 years. How can she say that she will spill it? It is said that my daughter is my father's intimate little cotton-padded jacket, but she has been wearing it for more than 20 years. How can she give it to others? My daughter, who has lived together for more than 20 years, is going to marry a woman now, and her father will really find it difficult to adapt! On her daughter's wedding day, her husband's family was smiling and her mother's family was sad. I have raised flowers for more than 20 years, and now people bring them in the washbasin. This is not only because my daughter wants to leave her side, but also because her parents care and worry too much about her. A father knows his daughter's temper and character best. It is the most important thing for my father to be able to handle the interpersonal relationship of my husband's family and be bullied in the future. There is a saying in the west: the daughter is the lover of her father in his last life, so her father is the last person to let her get married. The father was afraid that his daughter would be wronged without his own protection during her husband's family's life. As a father, I'm not afraid of anything. I'm afraid my daughter will get married. After her daughter got married, she started a new life journey. From then on, I have to bear more responsibilities: wife, daughter-in-law, mother, husband and wife, filial piety to in-laws. Parents have long known the hardships along the way, how can they not worry? I believe every father will find it difficult to control his emotions when his daughter gets married, because he loves his daughter too much, so he will be particularly sad. So even if you are a wife and a mother, you should go home to see your parents more often, because you are their child and their weakness. Because some women's fathers think that "married daughters pour water." The daughter who has worked hard to raise has become a member of other people's families, and she is also worried about whether the married daughter will be wronged and bullied. My father-in-law was, on the day my wife and I finally got married, he suddenly cried without warning, and I panicked. A man about to retire cried sadly. Her father said: Xiao X, my girl will be a member of your family in the future, so be sure to be kind to her. I'm a little in distress situation. What do you mean by "our family"? I was about to retort when my wife gave me a hand and winked at me to stop talking. Later, she told me that because the county where she lives is relatively backward, at least a little behind my home, I can't say anything but prove it with practical actions. This Spring Festival is the second year of our marriage. I called my mother directly, and then I went to her house for the New Year. This is also what I discussed when I was in a long-distance relationship with her. After marriage, every family takes turns to celebrate the New Year. That's what I said when I discussed with my family before marriage. My family is more open-minded, and I have the final say in my own affairs. My mother also said that's good. (Your daughter-in-law) is a treasure in her parents, and it must be a treasure in our family! When I told my father-in-law this by video phone, he stared at the boss: Don't you say it at home? Do your parents allow her to come back for the Spring Festival? I just said what I didn't say at first: Dad, just because she married me doesn't mean she is a member of our family. You and mom are still her parents, and they are also my parents. She has me and her small family, and our family loves her more. Isn't that great? If the custom is really unchangeable, I respect and abide by it. If you and mom agree, it's settled. Then she went with a big bag, and her mother-in-law and sister (unmarried) looked envious. Later, my daughter-in-law told me that her mother had never returned to her parents' home for the New Year and the New Year's Day since she could remember, and she hurried back the next day. Her elder sister's former partner made a rule that she would only spend the Spring Festival at the man's house before marriage, so both her mother and her elder sister envied her.