What is the last thing a couple over 60 can do?

Old people over 60 had better not live a husband-and-wife life! Wang Laotou, a 62-year-old villager, died three days after his second marriage. It is said that the young old lady he married killed him. True story

Wang Laotou's wife died in her fifties. At that time, everyone in the village said they would introduce his wife to him, but he didn't want it. He said second marriage was too much trouble. After a few years, a person still feels too lonely, so he looks for a matchmaker to introduce him.

Soon, the matchmaker introduced him to a 58-year-old woman from a neighboring village. Her husband died and she lived alone. After the blind date, both of them were very satisfied. Five days later, she invited three tables at home and was married.

After getting married, the old lady gets up every morning to pick vegetables and cook in the vegetable field. The two of them sat at the door with big bowls, talking and laughing, and often greeted friends passing by, which was especially loving.

After dinner, they closed the door and never went out again. For three days in a row, I didn't go out in the morning.

Early in the morning on the fourth day, I heard the old lady shout loudly, Come on! Lao Wang's head is dying. Hearing this, Uncle Zhang, a neighbor, rushed over and found Lao Wang lying in bed with a quilt on his head, flushed and short of breath.

Uncle Zhang quickly dialed 120. Half an hour later, when 120 arrived, Lao Wang's head was no longer breathing. Later, Pharaoh's children came. They called the old lady a fox. It was she who charmed her old father and drove her home.

My second aunt found a 60-year-old wife and was cheated of all her money. It turns out that the bad guys are really old!

When my second aunt was 50 years old, my uncle left her because of illness. To this end, the second aunt was sad for several years. It is said that there is a sense of old age, but my second aunt is often alone in her later years. Her children are busy working in the outside city, and her second aunt can only guard the old house in her hometown alone.

My second aunt likes to dance square dance and often organizes old people to play in the community. So, my second aunt met an old man in the society. The old man is five years older than his second aunt. It is said that he was a cadre of a public institution before he retired. After retirement, he was keen on dancing and photography. Judging from his appearance, he is definitely human.

The old man saw the interesting feeling of the second aunt, so he contacted the second aunt more frequently. In the long run, they also fell in love and became old boyfriend and girlfriend. It seems that everything is going well.

Later, the old man slowly let go of the derailed tail, because the children at home were sick and began to use money urgently. In order to buy an internal welfare house and marry my second aunt, he cheated my second aunt for 500 thousand one after another, and finally persuaded my second aunt to sell the house and buy a house with him in a big city.

At that time, Er Yi did not doubt the old man, but also told the children the news of buying a house in a big city. Hearing this, the second aunt's children thought it was a typical swindler's trick.

The second aunt's children became suspicious and told her the old man's name, telephone number, retirement unit and the old man's housing address. When the second aunt's child was checked by the police at the county police station, what the old man said was false! There is not an old man in the retirement unit, even the old man's house is rented, and this old man has a lot of criminal records. He is a typical slick operator who eats, drinks and drinks!

The facts are clear. My second aunt asked the old man to pay her back. She didn't even think about it. The old man said that he had spent all his money and looked like a scoundrel. Anyway, he wants money, but this is a gesture of death!

My second aunt called the police and the police filed a case. However, the second aunt lent money to the elderly, which was an act during her love, and it was not enough to constitute fraud, so she had to continue to collect debts. So, my second aunt really broke her heart. It was an old-age love, but it turned into a scam.

1, if the elderly want to talk about old-age love, they must know people, know people, and then know people. It's not that the old people are getting worse, but that the bad guys in society are getting old!

2. If the elderly are single, then try to stay single and cultivate some good hobbies of the elderly, such as square dancing and playing Tik Tok. At worst, watching TV, going out to play and traveling to places you have never been to are all healthy behaviors.

3, the old man has worked hard all his life, and he should enjoy late happiness in his later years. Therefore, they should never do what young people can do against their lives, and follow the trend and drift with the tide in order to live a wonderful life for the elderly.

60 years old, it's time to fight. Family and career have become qualitative, good and bad, rich and poor, wonderful and mediocre. The change of the status quo cannot be subverted by a 60-year-old.

It's not that we don't want to have better economic conditions to enjoy and have, but that our physical bodies don't allow us to be overloaded and stressed.

The material conditions are not satisfactory, but they can be improved gradually. Move when you can, but don't hurt your body too much. Health is the most important thing. Children and grandchildren should also have their own blessings, and don't compete with them.

The last thing a couple over 60 should do is not understand, communicate, live unharmoniously in thought and psychology.

Young couple, old partner! Most of them have worked hard to raise their children, and they have succeeded in their studies. Today, when they get married and start a family, they are still enjoying themselves. Just like young people, they quarrel with each other, have a cold war and sleep in separate rooms. You ignore me and I ignore you, making them feel heavy and unhappy all day, which is extremely harmful to their physical and mental health. In the long run, it will cause.

It doesn't matter how much money you have,

Understand tolerance first!

There is no doubt that they communicate with each other,

Yes, yes, love, love, smile.

Happy every day,

Bald head will never regret it.

It's a tragedy to talk about this. There is a 65-year-old grandfather in our village. He has a successful career, his children have already got married, and he has also become a grandfather. With good family conditions and filial children, he could have lived a happy and stable old age, but unfortunately he didn't know how to be self-disciplined and finally died in bed.

The grandfather in our village, at the age of 45, his wife died of illness. At that time, because the child was underage and he shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family, he never got married again. Later, when his son grew up, he gave his career to him and retired to the second line. After he retired, he was free every day. He just fishes and dances in the square dance.

Once he went fishing by the river and met his first girlfriend. His first girlfriend was from a neighboring village. He happened to see her when she came to the river to fetch water and water vegetables. So the two of them sat by the river and chatted. When his first girlfriend told him that his spouse had died, he had the idea of marrying her home. At that time, he was 64 years old.

When he came home, he discussed with his children to marry them a stepmother. His children are very happy after hearing this, because he has spent all these years alone, and his loneliness is warm and cold, and his children can see it. And that uncle has the idea of remarriage. As children, they are naturally happy for him and agree with him.

Later, his children held a wedding banquet for him and invited the whole village to his house for dinner. Because their family is very rich, and they are getting married when they are old, when they are told to go to his house for dinner, they also specifically told the villagers not to give gifts, just to go to his house for dinner, which is very embarrassing. On his wedding day, he hosted a 130 banquet at his house, and the whole village came to attend. It was very lively.

Since he married his first girlfriend, he stopped fishing by the river and traveled around the world with his first girlfriend. Every day he is either on his way around the world or at home. But it didn't last long. They had just been married for a year when he died, and he died in bed. His son felt something was wrong, because his father was in good health, and sudden death really didn't make sense.

So his son took his body to the hospital to examine the doctor and identify the cause of death. After the doctor passed the examination, he told his son that his father had died suddenly. But his son didn't know what sudden death syndrome was, so the doctor told him in an easy-to-understand way that his sudden death was due to the high frequency of sexual life, which led to the inability to keep up with nutrition.

After uncle's death, his son found a lot of tonics when cleaning up the relics in the room. Uncle's bank card and other finances are in the hands of his wife, and the children have not let her take them. After her uncle died, she consciously took them out and gave them to his children. Then she wanted to move back to her home, but her uncle's children didn't agree.

They thought that the stepmother was the love of her father's life and would provide for her old age anyway, so they didn't let her go. She stayed in the village, and everyone in the village talked about her, saying that she was unlucky, but their family was not superstitious, so they didn't care what people in the village talked about. It has been many years now, and it will still be told as a story by the villagers.

Judging from what happened in our village, I think the last thing couples in their sixties can do is to have frequent sex. This aspect should be appropriate, not to mention taking tonics like that uncle in our village. In my opinion, couples over 60 should take good care of themselves, do more exercise, improve their physical fitness and take good care of their bodies in order to live longer.

This is a sad story. His father, my uncle, grew up on a large pension after retirement. He could have lived a quality old age, but because of his indulgence, he fell out of bed and died.

Uncle has worked on the ship for many years and rarely comes back several times a year. He is black and strong. According to him, being beaten by wind and rain on the boat and eating seafood make you fat every day.

Because my uncle seldom comes back every year, his wife can't stand it, so she leaves with others. Since then, my uncle in his thirties has been single, and his children are taken care of by his grandparents. Everyone asked my uncle to find another one while he was young, but he didn't want to. Just because of the nature of his work, many girls don't want to live like this, so my uncle has been retiring alone.

After retiring two years ago, my uncle lived with his 80-year-old mother and took care of his grandson. His pension is several thousand dollars a month, and he is doing well, at least there is no pressure.

One day, my uncle took his grandson to the park to play and was fascinated when he saw someone dancing square dance. My uncle jumped up, not to mention decent, because his fat body jumped up with a sense of joy, which attracted everyone to applaud again and again. My uncle found confidence and became addicted.

Whenever he is free, his uncle will wander around the square, and when he sees someone dancing, he will go up and twist a few times. His uncle is also careless and talkative. Plus, he was tall and burly, and soon found the other half.

From then on, my uncle even ignored his grandson and gave it back to his son. He stayed with this partner all day. Over time, they also developed feelings and wanted to get married. Of course, this operation was opposed by their children, but my uncle is financially independent and can make his own decisions. He was too lazy to take care of these opponents and decided to marry his partner.

At this point, my uncle is over 60 years old and my mother is almost 90 years old. My uncle likes this partner very much Maybe it's the emptiness of being single for so many years, or maybe he has a soul mate with the same hobby now.

Uncle often feels that he is still very young and indulges his desires to the extreme. After being married for a month or two, it is obvious that his qi and blood are not enough. Everyone advised uncle to pay attention to his health and eat more good supplements. However, his uncle thought that everyone was laughing at him and casually said, I am in good health. I've had enough seafood for so many years. What can I make up for after a lifetime?

Until one morning, my uncle felt very tired and couldn't wake up. At this time, my aunt got up and went to wash. My uncle managed to stand up, but he fell to the ground before standing firm, still with his head on the ground. He fell heavily and let out a muffled sound. My aunt shouted after hearing the sound in the bathroom: What is my husband doing? There is no reply.

Aunt didn't think much, thinking that something could happen to such a big person, she continued to wash and make up, and didn't go to the bedroom to find her uncle until everything was ready, but at this time there was blood all over the floor, and her uncle was cold. Later, I learned that my uncle was weak because he often indulged after marriage. I woke up in the morning and fainted and fell dead.

After my uncle died unexpectedly, my mother, who was nearly ninety years old, couldn't stand this change. It was very painful for white-haired people to send black-haired people, and the old man left in a few days. This is really a miserable old age.

My cousin has been married for a long time and doesn't know much about their family. After my cousin left, so did she. Maybe she was afraid, so she went to another city.

Judging from my uncle's story, people must recognize themselves in their sixties. When you get old, you get old, and your physical function can't be compared with when you were young. Therefore, the life of husband and wife must be moderate, enough is enough, and not excessive indulgence.

Old people over 60 should live a healthy and green life, drink tea and play chess, chat with old friends, buy food and cook with their wives, and enjoy family happiness.

After retirement, at least two "big" or "small" things should not be done first, and the "past" should not be "noisy". The past was a "big event". Over 60 years old, along the way, you may have gains and losses, ups and downs, joys and sorrows, luck and misfortune. When the past is turned over again, it may bring a tone of "confrontation" to the other party, and there may be an impulse to expose "scars" to the other party. In fact, what happened in the long years of life seems to be a cliche, but it is a major event in life. It is also a good memory shared by both husband and wife. Whether it is sweet, sour, bitter or spicy, mixed Chen is worth remembering. Therefore, such a "life event" is worth cherishing and memorable. Second, "trivial matters" are not "entangled". Retirement at home, what I face and do seems to be trivial things. However, it is often just trivial things, which will make the other party entangled, procrastinating, holding their own opinions and sticking to their own opinions. For example, what order to do things, where to put things and so on. How to do "trivial things" without "tangling", 1, trivial things are trivial things, don't get angry and hurt your heart; 2. Little things don't interfere with big things. Therefore, we should be equal in major matters, abandon differences, take a step back and be harmonious and smooth.

Don't take seriously the three things that couples over 60 can't do!

Couples who are over 60 years old have been in love for decades, experienced ups and downs, and tasted the ups and downs. In the limited time, we must cherish each other, take care of each other, and stay together for the rest of our lives without regrets.

Old couples of this age should do the following three things.

First, don't mess around.

Sixty years old is not old. People in their seventies and eighties are getting weaker and weaker, most of them are sick and their legs and feet are not good. Try not to travel far. As the saying goes, 70 don't stay overnight, 80 don't stay overnight, and 90 don't stay overnight. This tells us that when we get old, we should try not to travel and travel. Because you must be old and inconvenient to walk, it is easy for unexpected things to happen. It is appropriate to enjoy one's old age at home. Eat whatever you want, do whatever you want, and live a quiet and peaceful old age.

Second, don't worry about your children and grandchildren.

As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't be scapegoats for them. In the process of sending my granddaughter to school, I once saw a spontaneous haggard grandmother sitting on the iron railing at the school gate, waiting to pick up her children. When the school bell rang, she struggled to get up, and then a fourth-grade girl came to her grandmother, taller than her grandmother. If the elderly don't have cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, it's okay to take the children for a walk, but if not, the possibility of sudden accidents can't be controlled. Therefore, for the elderly, if they are in poor health, don't force yourself for children and grandchildren. At this age, you should enjoy your old age, even if you are selfish, you can feel at ease. It's good to take care of yourself without dragging down the children and worrying about them.

Third, don't scrimp, don't want to eat or drink.

In real life, many elderly people have developed a good habit of frugality and housekeeping because of their hardships in the past. Therefore, they often buy cheap vegetables and discounted goods, and they are unwilling to throw away leftovers. It's obviously something you like, but it's too expensive, and you can't even afford to take a taxi when you travel. In fact, this is really a little sorry for myself. After suffering for most of my life, I am still cruel to myself when I am old. Life is short. If you don't treat yourself well, there will be no chance.

Be good at persuading the old people in the world to cherish their unique self. Get over it, and you will understand that in this world, you are you, and no one can replace you. If you hurt, you hurt yourself; You are tired, tired of yourself; You are bitter, you are bitter. Even if someone sympathizes with you, so what? In the end, you will be the one who will clean up the mess. It's not that children are unfilial, and it's not that no one is with them, but that children can't cope with their own needs.

What happened? It's just between husband and wife. There is an old Chinese doctor in our village, who is still very powerful. He told the old people in the village all day that when people reach a certain age, especially those in their sixties, they should not sleep in the same room all day. They have to sleep separately, for fear that they will always do husband-and-wife things together. In case of physical problems, they will be in trouble.

An old man heard what the old Chinese doctor said, but he didn't believe it or listen. He was used to being happy when he was young, so he didn't believe it.

Who knows that once I heard that he went to the hospital or came back from the rescue, people became unable to walk.

Finally, I heard that it was the accident that caused the trouble, and all the children at home were angry. It is said that he is old and shameless, and the children who have suffered have to take turns to take care of them.

Therefore, you should listen to the doctor, or you will suffer yourself and your family.

There is a man who got rich first in our village, about 55 years old. It was because he was so happy about his second marriage that he left. He married a woman in her forties, and she got married for the second time. Two of a kind was very happy. But it happened a few days after the wedding, and both his sons regretted it.

In the 1990s, this man's wife left, and it was too stressful to take care of his two sons alone. So he gave his two sons to his parents to raise. He went out to work alone.

According to the villagers, he lived up to expectations and worked hard. After about five years, I opened my own small processing factory outside before I was 40 years old.

His small factory grew bigger and bigger. Later, he took all the young people in the village out to work in his factory and raised the whole living standard of our village.

His two sons also went to work in his factory after graduating from college. The three fathers and sons made his factory a listed company together.

It is really a father and son, brothers are United, their profits are broken, and unity is the city, which has become a model of our village.

Old people in the village educate young people or children, and they all come up with their own cases.

It may be because he worked too hard when he was young, and there seemed to be many minor physical problems, so at the age of 50, when his two sons could take over, he retired from the background and left many things in the company to his two sons.

His son thinks that he is alone in the village, and there are many inconveniences in his life. He wants to find a nanny for him.

He was reluctant at first. He said that he was used to a person's life in these years, and suddenly one more person came out, which made him very uncomfortable.

But his son said, just find someone to help him cook, wash clothes and do odd jobs. If he insists, he can still do it.

He knew that his two sons were very filial, and he didn't force them in the end.

His son also found him a relatively young single woman.

This woman is really hard-working, and her father is also very polite. She is not allowed to do many things.

But this woman can always stand up and do housework.

After a long time, his father gradually got used to letting women do housework.

Later, after the two met, his father often didn't go out, and many living habits changed.

She used to walk in the small park in the village, grow vegetables in the fields and play chess with the old people in the village. I basically don't do it now.

He often stays at home, and many people say that he has found new feelings.

These things spread to his two sons, who not only had no opinion, but also were happy to publicize his father's happy event.

Everyone was happy and the two chose a good day to get married.

Since their father was taken care of, their two sons are more at ease, because after all, they are already a family.

But not long after they got married, his father had a problem and left.

The reason for leaving was a fight, but it was not made public. Their two sons were very sad and regretted doing such a thing.

Confucius said: You know your destiny at fifty! Many times we should know what age we are and what we should do.

If there is a small excitement shock, you should control your emotions and avoid good things from turning into bad things.

Older people should be pessimistic about everything.

This reason is that many things on the body have begun to age, which has to be admitted!

Stability and health are our main life pursuits!

"What is the last thing a couple over 60 can do?" Let me answer:

Let me tell you something first. I have an old superior who retired and went home. The life of the old couple should be a happy old age. But my son worked in Nanjing, got married, had a house and a car to show his filial piety to the old couple. He said to his father, "Dad, sell the house at home and come to Nanjing with me. My husband and wife will support you. " At first, the old couple didn't want to go, saying that strangers were strangers. What should we do there? The son may really want his parents to go to Nanjing, just for his wife and daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law is from Nanjing, Nanjing people will say, and so will the old couple. The two really sold the house together with the homestead and took their son to Nanjing. Just when everyone thought the old couple were doing well in Nanjing, the old man came back with his sick old woman. As for why they came back, the old couple didn't say when they would come back, and it was hard for others to ask. Guess for yourself.

After coming back, the two wanted to get the homestead back first. But people say that it is impossible to build a house after buying it. They had no choice but to go to the nearest eldest daughter's house. A few years later, they passed away one after another. At that time, some people commented that if the old couple didn't sell their real estate and homestead, didn't take their son there and had a pension, they would certainly not die early.

At the end of the story, I answered the landlord's question: the last thing a person can do when he is in his sixties is to sell his hometown. With the old nest, blocking the wind and rain and leaving homesickness is the best health! !