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Who knows how much the bride price is in Xuzhuang Township, Ji County, Hengshui City? general idea

On the surface, the bride price is a custom of about 200 thousand. In fact, it is agreed according to the specific situation of the family. The actual gap is very big, and the tricks are all in the dowry.

If you marry a rich girl, a daughter of the Kochi family or a daughter of the city, then 200,000 bride price will be returned to the young couple as the dowry of the daughter's family, and the father-in-law will bring it to the young couple's family together with a generous dowry, such as a car. Bridal gifts and dowry will generally become the bride's private money. Wealthy families and highly educated families marry their daughters only for their happiness, and the young couple live comfortably. After marriage, the young couple are very sweet. When money is needed, the daughter-in-law takes it out.

If you marry the daughter-in-law of a poor place where son preference is serious, the man's 200,000 bride price will be withheld by his father-in-law, which may be a dowry for your brother-in-law, and may be just a few quilts.

Of course, there are also 20 betrothal gifts, half of which are refunded and half deducted.

On the surface, it's all 200 thousand, just for good looks, but in fact, the gap between the specific situations has widened. Mother-in-law may insist on returning 200 thousand bride price from all over the country, so if you can't scare you, you will break up and change to another home. It depends on the results of the two families sitting together before marriage.

In the most extreme case, when talking before marriage, the woman promised to go through the bride price formalities and return it after marriage. Don't say you are a rogue after marriage, and your daughter-in-law will cry and beg you not to force her parents.

Obviously, if you marry a daughter-in-law, you will definitely be willing to give priority to the daughters of rich families, Kochi families and urban families, but the competition is fierce, as everyone knows.

Men and women in the city get married, and the bride price is not big.

When men and women get married in the village, although the bride price is big, it is not a big problem that one is willing to fight and the other is willing to get it.

It will be a bit tangled for a village man to marry a city girl, commonly known as Phoenix Man. But generally speaking, it is earned, so the relatives of the man should not go too far.

It is the most tangled thing for rural daughter-in-law to marry into the city.

The phenomenon of low marriage and high marriage is widespread in all parts of China. The girls in the village want to marry into the city. Everyone in the town wants to marry into the county seat. People from the county want to marry into the urban provincial capital. The provincial capital wants to marry in Beishangguang.

The man does not have the custom of sky-high bride price, but just wants to give a red envelope of 1 10,000.

This woman wants to get rich again.

The man's family makes the woman and the girl very tempted.

The mother-in-law advised her son to find a daughter-in-law in the city so as not to marry a brother's helper.

While emphasizing customs, the woman's mother-in-law hid her daughter's household registration book with pesticides, forcing her daughter to earn a bride price in order to marry her brother in the future.

The boyfriend in the city is penniless, and there are young people in the village to propose marriage. They are willing to pay 300 thousand bride price instead of dowry.

Girls' ideas are also very different.

Some steal the household registration book to register with their boyfriends, deduct the bride price money themselves and raise their sons after marriage. Her parents accused her of being heartless, and she accused her parents of betraying her daughter. I can't tell who is right and who is wrong.

Some resolutely earn a lot of bride price money for their parents' family, even if they go to their husband's family to suffer and pay their debts after marriage. Earn some money at ordinary times, just like Fan, try very hard to supplement his parents' family, and take care of his younger brother regardless of his son after marriage. Husband accused her of being a helper, and she accused her husband of having no conscience. I wonder if I can live.