I am an academic scum. I am not good at studying, but I am lazy. Unwilling to study. Like to play. What should I do?

This requires adults to patiently accompany their children and guide them to learn. Adults should have enough patience to accompany their children to study slowly and feel the happiness in learning. They shouldn't force children to do it, because children are rebellious. The more you force them to study, the more you want to explore the fun of learning with them. Let children set their own goals and ways to achieve them.

Michelle Whitney, a doctor of clinical psychology in the United States, suggested in "Children, you are enlightened" that children should think about short-term goals and try to make their own plans. However, Whitney suggested that children can decide when to implement or terminate the program. Of course, parents should restrain their children's plans and add some terms, such as coming home on time every day, doing homework first, and not being distracted when studying. "The plan itself does not necessarily enable children to achieve a certain goal, but depends on whether they can successfully follow the plan and stick to it." Whitney said that if you persist, children will feel that the initiative of learning is in their own hands, and let them see that they have the ability and confidence to achieve their goals, which will stimulate the initiative of spontaneous learning.

Cultivate interest and establish good habits

We've all had this experience. Time flies, and we're not happy until we get carried away. Mihaly, head of the Cultural Research Group of the Media Laboratory of MIT, mentioned that if people have experienced the taste of forgetting themselves for the sake of interest since childhood, they will feel happy and have been actively looking for this kind of fun. Therefore, letting children start from their hobbies, such as letting children who like to solve math problems do more challenging problems, can stimulate their spirit of selflessness and desire to conquer. Over time, they will take the initiative to experience this feeling.

Understand the advantages and disadvantages of children.

If the child is not good at math, but good at English, parents should not force the child to learn both subjects well, but should hold the idea that "the advantage is better and the weak score is just right". Just like a teacher, in order to encourage those children with artistic expertise to feel love and trust actively, he hangs pictures of these children at home to make them feel a sense of accomplishment. At the same time, teachers often praise these children for their future success in painting. This will enable children to play their advantages more actively. In addition, they will not allow their weaknesses to be too bad and will study hard.

If you want him to love learning ~ ~, you must understand why he doesn't love learning ~ ~

First, replace education with punishment. Let children be tired of learning and pessimistic.

Punishment is a teacher's unique skill. They don't work hard to improve classroom efficiency and tap their potential inward. They don't pay attention to teaching links such as preparing lessons, teaching, assisting, correcting, testing and evaluating, and only know how to punish foolishly. If you lose one point, you will be fined once. If you make another mistake, you will be fined twice. Most of the classes are only 70 to 80, and many children copy until two or three in the morning. Of course, parents "join hands". Some children said, let me die. If I die, I need not be punished for anything. A primary school girl was punished for falling asleep at her desk. Later, she was awakened by urine and broke into a cold sweat. Then she continued to copy until dawn.

Second, replace teaching with humiliation. Seriously hurt students' health and self-esteem.

The ear was torn, the eardrum was pierced, and the words "I am a pig" were tattooed on my face. Let the students fan their mouths, eat their own shit, hit their petite arms with a big stick with nails, stand in the summer sun and bake until they faint, and kick them with pointed shoes. Throw the female students out of the classroom on the fifth floor like garbage. This is teacher China's "torture", which is much harsher and more brilliant than the ancient year!

Pedagogically speaking, education is an activity to cultivate people. But this activity is so shocking.

Third, substitute fake for teaching. Let students become the heirs of hypocrites

The inspection team came from above and lectured the students in advance yesterday: all the materials are at home, and whoever takes them will copy the papers. Parents are not allowed to choose schoolbags for their children to go to school (because there are too many books, some parents usually choose schoolbags for their children and become bookworms). When they meet strangers, they must greet the procession or pay attention with a smile. Ask the teacher if he has given any information, but don't say. He should say, "No, our teacher strictly implements the regulations of the education functional department." Later, all the students asked didn't leave a word behind. The inspection team was extremely happy. Later, I learned that a student couldn't say the word "functional department" during the lecture and practiced until 7 pm until the parents found a school. Where is the teacher? No, he asked a student to supervise the student.

Completing the assessment indicators of the higher authorities will not affect the "average score" of students. Before the exam, either, ask a few children with unsatisfactory normal intelligence to do "mental retardation identification", so that parents can find ways to prove that they are mentally retarded, so that children will not get an average score and can graduate smoothly; Or, let these children go home and be checked by their superiors, and they will be "not counted", and the rest of the children will pass. The teacher said that those bad children didn't do well in the exam, and everyone was happy to do so.

Fourth, preach with laziness. Let students become the beat generation.

There are engineering students as well. Why, because of laziness, but also because of poor physical fitness. Whose credit is this?

In the children's circle, kindergarten teachers wipe their children's bottoms with dirty mops, which is laziness. In fact, why are you lazy? ), sit and lecture, ask students to pour water, ask students to go to the toilet to get toilet paper, and ask students to cook. Not only they, but also students are not allowed to work. Of course, working for a teacher doesn't count, even singing lessons are cancelled, which is euphemistically called: seize the opportunity and challenge the "young exam" You know the quiz of the college entrance examination, but I'm afraid I don't understand it. It's just a "challenge panda class exam" before the children leave the park, and they are assigned to high-quality primary schools to read the first grade according to their grades. Another school wrote down the countdown time with a metal sign: "A few days before the kindergarten exam".

In such an environment, such a lazy teacher, plus a full belly of chicken legs and French fries containing hydrogenated oil, how can children be good?

Bing Xin once said, let children grow like weeds!

Chen Ye, an expert in early childhood education, taught us that games are children's lives.

Children's intelligence has its own development law. Aren't these so-called exams a little hasty?

Fifth, preach by ugliness. Let students become uneducated people

In elementary school, a so-called top student did badly in the exam, and the teacher asked him why. The students faltered before they understood. The invigilator sat behind the students that day, took off his socks and put them on the students' stools to scratch his feet. The students were so nervous that they sneezed and wanted to vomit. The students are afraid to keep quiet. Can students make achievements in such a soft environment? The student also said that after the exam, the invigilator would also help to scratch her Hong Kong foot. She felt nauseous and scratched.

I can't write any more, just throw up for a while. Later, the invigilator praised her as a gifted student with light hands and feet, which was really comfortable to scratch. Go back and ask the class teacher to praise her. Put on the "demonstration student" epaulettes for him.

There is also a teacher who takes her students out for exams. After eating bananas, it was difficult for the princess to move, and her mouth curled. She asked the schoolgirl to throw the banana peel out of the car. The students felt uncomfortable, so they wrapped them in paper bags and prepared to get off and put them in the trash can. The teacher saw it and said, it's really stupid and useless. Grab the banana peel and bang! Banana peels are flying around outside the car.

Can such a teacher teach a wise and knowledgeable modern lady?

Sixth, take pleasure in death. Cultivate students into learning machines

Death is rigid.

What is rigid is curriculum standards, rigid class teaching system, rigid learning methods and rigid teachers. They pursue the uniqueness of everything and the so-called objectivity. This is the direct reason why our students lack creative thinking methods and creativity.

Look at a question: "What did the ice melt into?"

The student replied, "Spring." The teacher made a big fork. The standard answer is water. To be clear, this question is not asked in physics class.

Now, you know how far China is from the Nobel Prize! Go for another thousand years!

7. Be proud of stability. Cultivate students into timid, adventurous and anxious mental patients.

In kindergarten, we often hear such a dialogue: Are you seated? It's done! Did you take your hand away? Put it away!

This is the so-called formative education. They say we should form good study habits. But that's all about study habits. Are they formed like this?

In every primary school, we will see "ten prohibitions on campus" and "one-day code of conduct". What are these things! Everything is off-limits, and there are thunder pools everywhere. What about our students? Sit still in the classroom There is danger if you don't move, and you will suddenly fly down and press on you!

Do the students want to go for a spring outing? Only dreams! Let's go Those swaying mountain flowers, those young white clouds. It is stipulated by the superior that spring outing is not allowed in principle. If something goes wrong, who is responsible!

Is our teacher helpless about safety?

Eight, obsessed with money. Cultivate students into greedy and selfish money slaves

After the parent-teacher conference, the teacher finally reminded parents that children's education needs the joint efforts of home and school, and it also costs money. I sincerely hope that parents will discuss their children's learning with me. What is mine? What is mine? Where do I live? I usually stay at home in the evening. School is too busy during the day. Parents are welcome to visit my home in the evening. Finally, the teacher also called the parents' names one by one, which was understood!

Is this what the teacher said? What a butcher look!

However, what the teacher said is the imperial edict for children. Even more imperial than imperial edict. Under no circumstances can it be changed. That day, the teacher said to the child, why doesn't your father care about you? He hasn't had me for a long time.

The child told his father, and his father smiled bitterly: I am not empty-handed every time! The teacher can't touch it, it's a mess! But if you don't touch it, the child is not the teacher's "meat on the chopping block." I'd better cook this meat for the sake of the children! "artificial knife"

Nine, my words come first. Educate students into paranoia lacking consciousness and cooperative spirit.

A city holds the "Thought Olympics". Students were asked to work together to make a model, but the teacher mobilized the students to register themselves. What happened? No one signed up. The teacher ordered food by force, and Lang Lang cooperated: several students were ordered. These students are still disobedient. You said I was ugly and didn't want to be with me. I said you were too stupid to be with you. He said that according to his request, he would become a captain. ...

Finally, I miscarried when I participated in the sports meeting.

Ten, educate people with evil. Cultivate students into inhuman animals

Do you need to go to the bathroom? No, you can't go to the bathroom in class. In my hometown, the "yellow" news that "junior high school students shit in their pants" broke out more than once. The reason is that students are afraid to ask for leave in class because of cold diarrhea. If they do this, the teacher will criticize them. The teacher argued that some students were tired of studying and wanted to shit for fun.

Whatever the reason, should teachers look at students' expressions and sick leave notes? The final result of the investigation is that this student is a good student (timid student) and won't and won't go out to play.

The emperor has three urgent matters!

If you don't eat, you can be hungry; Do not pull. Who got it? Is this inhuman? Is abnormal education and abnormal teachers at the expense of innocent students?