About "Appearance Anxiety"

In this age of looking at faces, who doesn't have appearance anxiety? In this society, there are really too many standards for appearance and figure, such as "A4 waist", "coin in collarbone", "butterfly bone" and "right shoulder" ... Even pregnant women will be questioned if they are fat, and their figure management is not good ... Is this society too demanding of the outside world?

There is no denying that I also have appearance anxiety, which was quite serious once. If anyone has seen my video, they should find that my lip shape is inherently flawed. Once upon a time, I was also very inferior. When I walk on the road, I always subconsciously look at the ground. If someone whispers next to me, I always take it for granted that I am the object of discussion, and I will deliberately avoid the camera when taking pictures. The biggest idea every day is that others don't look at me.

When I was in middle school, I was teased and laughed at by my friends. At that time, seriously, I even thought about not going to school, just hiding.

Now look at yourself. It's really funny. We can't change natural things. God gave me a distinctive appearance, but also gave me a slender figure. I am tall, well-proportioned and thin. If I don't look at my face according to my figure, I think I'm ok, so I tell myself, don't always stare at your defects. Besides, you're not that important. You think people are whispering because of your shortcomings, but in fact they may just be chatting. You think people always notice your imperfections at a glance. In fact, many people don't notice those places when dealing with you.

So don't always stare at your own shortcomings. You also have an advantage. Now, I don't mind being on camera. I can generously share with you the products that I think are very useful in cameras. I think I have some valuable experience. If someone sees my difference, ask me, and I will frankly say that it is natural. I don't go for plastic surgery because I don't think it's necessary to play games with my life. I will try the red color, but I really haven't tried this color in my mouth, because my lip shape is not perfect and the effect is not good, so I will say that my lip shape is not good, so I will try this color on my arm.

I won't shy away now. I am confident to walk on the road, I will be happy to say hello to others, and I will be happy to buy food at buy buy. Not as taboo as before.

So don't care too much about your appearance. If you look good, you will get some preferential treatment. However, if you are ugly, your life may not be gloomy. Your ability, your kindness and everything about you will always be seen and recognized by others, and those who say you are ugly, let him say it, in a word. Since you can't stop other people's mouths, just be a gust of wind. People who love you will not leave you because of your small shortcomings, and people who don't like you may not really like you even if you are beautiful.