Xu Beihong: In order to marry a beautiful wife, he published in the newspaper twice and abandoned his wife for 28 years, so he lost everything.

1930, Xu Beihong kissed his female student Sun Duoci and confessed to his wife Jiang Biwei, "I told her to go home, but I kissed her on the forehead." 13 years later, Jiang Biwei moved in with Xu Beihong's best friend, and made four demands on Xu Beihong, making him lose everything.

Xu Beihong experienced four feelings in his life.

The first time I fell in love was when Xu Beihong 17 years old, and my parents arranged the engagement.

At that time, his father was seriously ill, and Xu Beihong, who was very filial, could not disobey his father's wishes and was forced to agree.

His wife is a poor peasant girl in a neighboring village. Due to congenital deficiency, she is weak and sick. Having a child after marriage is called "robbery".

Shortly after Xu Beihong came to Shanghai for the second time, his wife died unfortunately. Later, the robber died of smallpox.

When Xu Beihong came to Shanghai to study painting for the second time, he was attracted by Jiang Biwei, the second daughter of his teacher, Jiang Meisheng, and thus had feelings.

However, Jiang Biwei was betrothed to Suzhou Tea House at the age of 13 and was about to get married.

19 17, Jiang Biwei, a daughter of a famous family, quietly left a farewell letter to her parents, pretending that she was deeply bored with life and seemed to have suicidal intentions, so she left home in a hurry and eloped with Xu Beihong without hesitation.

In May, the lovestruck couple boarded a seagoing ship from Shanghai to Japan.

The sudden disappearance of her daughter made Jiang Meisheng and his wife terrified and worried. When they found her farewell letter, they were even more in tears. But parents know their daughters after all.

They estimated that their daughter would not commit suicide, and probably went abroad with Xu Beihong.

Even so, this elopement is a great shame for the Chiang family and will be criticized by everyone.

Jiang Meisheng and his wife had to pretend that Jiang Biwei died of a sudden illness, and they were afraid that their unmarried son-in-law would find out, so they bought a coffin with many stones on it and carried it to a temple in Suzhou for storage to deceive their families.

They went to Japan and France, Xu Beihong studied painting, and Jiang Biwei did odd jobs, trying to earn money to support his family every day, so that Xu Beihong could concentrate on his creation without worries. Their lives are poor but sweet.

10 years later, they returned to China. Xu Beihong lived up to Jiang Biwei's expectations and became a famous painter. A painting can sell a lot of money and have a successful career. His children are both beautiful and beautiful.

The two also got Jiang Meisheng's understanding, and the family was as happy as ever.

This kind of life is perfect, and this feeling should be the strongest. I have been following it to death, feeling the same pain and having a romantic past.

But there are so many talented and attractive girls in the world. Successful men never lack talented women and beautiful women.

But Xu Beihong is an affectionate artist. How can he make himself so dull that he can see his head at a glance?

So Xu Beihong was taken in. ...

When he met Sun Duoci, who was young and beautiful and had the same language as himself, Xu Beihong's long-lost heart suddenly beat violently, and he was moved.

Compared with many students, Sun Duoci, who is seventeen years younger than Xu Beihong, is undoubtedly very different.

God seems to favor her alone. She is not only young and beautiful, but also has great talent in painting.

Nothing Xu Beihong is the darling of heaven. He even involuntarily painted Sun Duoci's every move into oil paintings and sketches many times.

This talented woman disturbed him.

1930, Xu Beihong kissed his female student Sun Duoci and confessed to his wife Jiang Biwei, "I told her to go home, but I kissed her on the forehead."

While Jiang Biwei went home to attend the funeral, Xu Beihong couldn't help it any longer. He took Sun Duoci home, painted her and took the opportunity to kiss her.

Later, he wrote to urge his wife, "Come back soon, I like someone else!" " "

When Jiang Biwei received the letter, she thought it was her husband's joke and didn't care. She didn't go home until her aunt was buried. Unexpectedly, what Xu Beihong said as soon as she entered the door almost made her faint.

The husband said, "While you were away, I fell in love with Sun Duoci and asked her to have a portrait at home. Speaking of hometown, she cried and I kissed her on the forehead. But don't worry, I will not divorce you! "

When she saw Sun Duoci in Xu Beihong's painting, a woman's sixth sense told her that this beautiful young girl might destroy the home she had run for nearly half her life.

Jiang Biwei was speechless, but Xu Beihong vowed never to have anything to do with her, and she was relieved.

It wasn't long before she found that her husband came home late every day, painting with Sun Duoci, and wanted to help her apply for studying abroad.

They even took advantage of Jiang Biwei's absence to dig and bury a pair of love birds in the backyard. When burying birds, Xu Beihong also said, "It's not bad to die together."

When he went out to eat, he secretly packed candy into his bag, which was also for Sun Duoci.

Their stories are widely circulated in universities. When they climbed the mountain, they were photographed as "kissing in the mountains" by photographers. This is circulated by the students.

Jiang Biwei was almost driven crazy, and he was suspicious all day.

1932 One day, Jiang Biwei kicked the door of Xu Beihong's studio, tore up several portraits of Sun Duoci, and pointed at Xu Beihong and shouted, "You bastard!" I also wrote to Sun Duoci's parents, asking them to take good care of their daughter.

Eloping for love ruined marriage, trapped parents in injustice, and was poor for 15 years, but got the word "cohabitation". Jiang Biwei was disheartened and gave up the entanglement.

Xu Beihong took the opportunity to propose to the Sun family and was scolded by Sun Laohan. Sun Laohan quickly moved his family and married his daughter to Xu Shaodi, director of the Education Department who lost his wife.

Both ends failed, Xu Beihong regretted it, and was busy smiling to please Jiang Biwei.

Alas, Xu Beihong, who achieved great success in art, didn't realize the "pride" of celebrities.

Jiang Biwei gave him numerous doors, accepted the confession of her husband's old friend Zhang Daofan, and moved in with him. At this point, a couple finally separated.

At the end of 1945, Xu Beihong once again ended her cohabitation with Jiang Biwei for a woman. Jiang Biwei wry smile "why let me make a fool of myself again!"

His daughter, Xu Lili, even accused her father: "Every time we talked about love, we broke up with our mother in the newspaper and kept saying that you just lived together.". Are you going to continue this injury indefinitely? "

Seeing through Xu Beihong's ruthlessness, Jiang Biwei retorted angrily: "Divorce is ok, give me 100 calligraphy and painting; 1 10,000 breakup fee; 40 ancient paintings; 40,000 months for ",Xu Beihong promised his new love one by one.

This time, Jiang Biwei has been criticized by the world for a long time, becoming a vicious and dissatisfied wife, and accusing her of betraying her husband, destroying her friend's marriage and not keeping women's morals.

And Xu Beihong has also been criticized by his words and deeds, with mixed praise and criticism.

1953 On September 26th, Xu Beihong passed away in Beijing. When sorting out his relics, he found that he had always treasured the pocket watch presented by Jiang Biwei.

1978 February 16, Jiang Biwei died of illness. People found the Piano Lesson painted by Xu Beihong hanging on the wall of her bedroom.

There is no winner in this marriage.

References:

Xu Beihong's life

Biography of Xu Beihong