A promise as good as a promise, when you give a promise that you can't make, how can you make up for your mistakes?

If you can't fulfill your promise to others, don't make a promise to others easily. Once you make a promise to others, others will have hope for you to make this promise. When you suddenly tell the other person that you can't make this promise one day, it will cause a huge gap in the other person's heart and make the other person very sad. His trust in you will continue to decrease, and even your image in the other person's heart will be greatly reduced. If you can't do it, it will cause a huge gap.

Usually, I think this kind of commitment behavior often happens between couples. Sometimes a boyfriend will make a small promise to his girlfriend that he will quit smoking. However, when you make a promise, you don't work hard for it. You still smoke and drink some wine every day, and it's foggy every day. In other words, you will be together for life. At that time, you made a beautiful promise. As time goes by, all this disappears, because I don't know which day you suddenly find that you are not fresh about your girlfriend or wife, and then you think that your wife or girlfriend is also a shortcoming here and there, which is far from the one you knew at first, and then you start looking for other women outside, and finally you cheat.

To say how to make up for the mistakes you made because you didn't make a promise, you must first understand that the person you promised, does he value your promise very much? Does he expect you to promise him? If he doesn't care about your promise, you will be relaxed. Admit your mistake to the other person, or give her some gifts she likes, maybe he will forgive you easily.

If the other person really pays attention to a person's integrity, then I think you may be finished. First of all, you made a promise, but you didn't fulfill it. This is your fault. I think he should blacklist you as soon as possible. There is an old saying that a gentleman must not break his word. Since you have not fulfilled your promise, what kind of gentleman is that? At best, you are a hypocrite. When you don't make a promise, you want to make up for it. Why don't you think about the promise you made at that time and whether you can complete it? Don't you know how much you can do? If I know today, why should I know?