What is love like in ancient style?

With regard to ancient love poems, I quite agree with Mr. Qian Zhongshu's words to the effect that those elaborate theoretical system buildings can't escape the fate of collapse in the end, only the remaining bricks and tiles are of some use in the end. I hope a few words in the article can inspire everyone. On the usefulness of The Book of Songs or poems, Confucius made a general exposition in The Analects of Confucius, which can be found in The Analects of Yang Huo. "Confucius said,' Boy, why don't you learn poetry? Poetry can be wonderful, ornamental, grouped and resentful; Your father is a thing, and your father is a distant thing; Learn more about the names of birds, animals and plants. "This sentence of Confucius covers the' Xing, Guan, Qun and Yuan' summarized by later generations, and the interpretation of these four words is different. The general meaning is: Xing means lyrical, or it is a feeling,' I don't see you for a day, it looks like Xi'; View, is to reflect the reality, "a gentleman in service, I don't know its period"; Group is communication, "hold your hand and grow old with your son"; Hate is hate. "Know me that I worry, don't know me that I want. Long time no see. Who are you? We usually say in Mencius that it is better to believe in books than to have no books. This "book" originally refers to the minister; Similarly, most of the "poems" mentioned in the pre-Qin classics refer to "300 Poems", which is called the Book of Songs in later generations. Since poetry has so many functions, why should we say "poetry can complain"? Because "resentment" is really the mainstream of China's poetry. We call poets "poets" or "literati poets", and this "Sao" is simply the "Sao" of "resentment". Ouyang Xiu wrote in "Preface to Friends' Poems": "It is said that poets are few and poor, what a pity. Most of the poets handed down from the world come from the words of the poor in ancient times, and the poorer they are, the more their works become. However, it is not poetry that can help the poor, and the poor will have to work in the future. " This sentence is straightforward and there is nothing to explain. What needs attention is "poverty" and "poverty". The word "poor" in contemporary Chinese is actually "poor" in ancient times, and "poor" has a richer meaning in ancient times, mainly referring to hardship and disappointment, not just lack of money.