What moment suddenly makes you feel that high emotional intelligence is really important?

For a moment in Heze, I think high EQ is very important, but in many cases, high EQ is good. For example, when others treat you, if your emotional intelligence is not high, you may not know how to respond to the next sentence, or when you are in a case, the other party is competing with you. If you have a high emotional intelligence in this case, then you can take this case without strength, so high emotional intelligence is very important.