Are American beauties open to sex? Thank you, and God bless you.

What is the attitude of Americans towards sex? First of all, Americans regard "sex" as a need of life, a physiological need, and a topic that needs no taboo or avoidance. The logic of Americans is "hungry needs to eat, tired needs to sleep, and lustful needs to be freed." Except in some conservative places with strong religious power in the United States, "premarital sex" is recognized, because in the eyes of most non-conservative Americans, it is cruel to use an artificial social system like marriage to restrain people's physiological needs. This is what you will see in some American movies. When the heroine learns that the hero has never been a womanizer again after losing his wife, she will be amazed after being single for eight years, and then she will admire and admire, because in the eyes of American women, "abstinence" is by no means an ordinary person. Every time I see such a scene, I will scoff and laugh. What's the big deal? In China, for the sake of children's happiness, there are many people who don't get married. I've never seen anyone think of themselves as saints or heroes or anything. Speaking of which, if I give you the impression that "Americans regard' sex' as a routine, which is very casual", then I want to say that you have misunderstood. This leads to what I want to talk about next. Most Americans think that sex is an expression of love. I know what you want to refute me. My mind is full of "one-night stand" Indeed, many people separate "love" from "sex" and show mercy everywhere. I have met many people who spread seeds. That's why I'm careful to say "most" instead of "all" here. Anyway, let's recall how the protagonists express their love in some classic American movies. In Titanic, Jack and Rose fell in love. They immediately found a deserted place and started their passionate journey in full swing. The most unforgettable "love" in the heroine's life in The Bridges of Madison County is the four-day passionate lingering with the photographer who met by chance. Even the movie Brokeback Mountain, which describes homosexuality, is based on two "comrades-in-arms" spending an unforgettable night together and unfolding their tortuous love story. Indeed, "sex" is a big selling point of movies, but in American movies, the formulaic situational reasoning is that they have sex because they love each other. For this, our famous director Zhang Yimou has a deep understanding and is good at applying what he has learned. In the movie "House of Flying Daggers", the passionate scenes of Zhang Ziyi and Takeshi Kaneshiro made it clear to the western audience that Zhang Ziyi was in love with Takeshi Kaneshiro. When Zhang Ziyi refused to make out with the protagonist played by Andy Lau, the western audience soon understood that Zhang Ziyi did not love Andy Lau. This is very different from China's film and television dramas. First of all, China's film and television dramas usually only "hint" at their "that", and the camera stops, so switch quickly. In addition, in China's TV series, women who have had sexual relations with male protagonists are usually bad women, and their final fate seems to be not very good. China's film and television dramas are characterized by "hugging and holding hands", which is definitely love. "Kissed", a little erotic in it, but it can barely be regarded as love. "Sex", that is simply "animal desire"! Watch, it won't be long before they finish the script. And usually the heroine dies miserably. Last time I went back to China, I saw a domestic movie called Curiosity Killed the Cat, and the plot was roughly like this. Speaking of the ubiquitous "sex" in American movies, this kind of propaganda to prove love by "having physical relations" has a deep influence on American teenagers. As a result of Hollywood blockbusters, a teenager will tell his parents that the reason for their devotion to chastity is that they have "found true love". This reminds me of my attitude towards love TV series when I was young. I remember that whenever I watched Aunt Qiong Yao's movie with several children under the guidance of adults, when there was a kissing scene on TV, we would turn our heads in different directions voluntarily. We are not pretending to be "prudes" and sneaking around while adults are not looking. At that time, we really thought kissing was a "bad lens", and it would be bad after watching it. This attitude of "distinguishing right from wrong" continued until my freshman year. I remember that when I was in the first grade, most of the foreign movies I watched in the school English study room were mainly The Little Prince and the Little Princess. Without some miscellaneous temptations, my childhood and adolescent life are simple and unadulterated. Such a living environment has allowed many traditional outlook on life and values to precipitate and take root in my thoughts. In today's social environment, the insistence on "true love" and the belief in non-fast food love may not seem fashionable enough, but it makes me feel practical and full from the bottom of my heart. I sympathize with children born in the high-tech era. The development of media communication not only brings convenience to them, but also deprives children of a piece of pure land, so that they enter the adult world prematurely when they should fully enjoy their childhood and adolescence, and are "at a loss" by the "information" and "resources" disturbed by this world before their outlook on life is formed. Let's get down to business again. Americans not only think that sex is a physiological need and an expression of love, but also think that sex is a kind of enjoyment of life and a kind of "fun", and its significance far exceeds its role as a tool for human reproduction. Sometimes in American TV dramas, you will hear the heroine say to the hero, "What are we? It's always underground. We might as well tell the public generously that we are in contact and are boyfriend and girlfriend. " At this time, if you want to continue to learn dance, the hero who doesn't want to be bound by women will say, "Didn't we have a good time?" (Aren't we so happy? )。 I have met many boys and girls (mainly boys) in the United States who only pursue "having fun" with multiple opposite sexes all their lives and never promise anyone. Of course, for these people, "sex" is no longer an expression of love, but a part of their hobbies and a way of entertainment. In the eyes of these people, "love" and "sex" can not exist with each other. They are the people who are not what I call "the majority". Because of the emphasis on "sexual enjoyment", Americans still attach great importance to "sexual harmony" in sexual relations. This is why in Sex and the City, the heroine Charlotte divorced her husband "Trey" mainly because of their sexual incompatibility, which led to their parting ways.