What are the special wedding customs in Guilin?

1. Generally, there are not many wedding customs passed down in urban areas of Guilin, but there are more in rural areas, and many forms are relatively ancient.

2. In the mountain village area of ??Guilin, many villages actually have their own temple fairs. On that day, people will go to the temple fair to kill a pig. This is done by each family in turn, and every year If a family goes there to kill pigs, it is best for a couple to get married on that day, so if you decide to get married that year, it will also be arranged for a couple to get married on the day of the temple fair. This is also a custom that has been passed down for many years, but if no one gets married that year, a mage must be invited to do a special dojo.

Many people may say that no couple wants to get married on this day, because it is a custom and they cannot follow their own plans. However, the reality is the opposite. If it is decided that year If they get married, many couples will choose to get married on that day, because in our opinion, couples who get married on that day will receive blessings and blessings from many people, and generally they will be able to grow old together. In the 20 years since I grew up, almost all the couples who got married on that day in that year were indeed in a better relationship, and none of them got divorced.

3. In fact, in our village, the betrothal gift required when we get married is not a lot. It is just a form. No matter how much it is, it is a kind of intention. But the parents of the married daughters will give them a bottle. Ner Hong, this bottle of Ner Hong has been hidden under the soil for more than a year, and it is also hidden in temple fairs. The daughter red hidden in the temple fair is also refined through some special and mysterious processes. Therefore, if any family has daughters, they will usually make wine like daughter red wine when they turn 18, and drink it until they get married.

4. Maybe now when weddings are held, two people prepare together. Until the wedding day, both people appear together. But when getting married in rural areas, three days before the wedding, the groom and the bride are together. If they cannot meet in person, if they want to prepare for the wedding, they can only prepare it before this period of time. They can only wait for the groom to marry the bride on the wedding day before they can meet, especially the night before is unlucky.

5. Nowadays, when getting married in rural areas, people are more willing to use photography, and then film the wedding process and carve it into a disc. When getting married in rural areas, the couple does not enter the bridal chamber that night, but sings A night of folk songs. Because many people in rural areas prefer to listen to local folk songs, so when they get married, everyone sings together, records the moment, and then takes out the discs to play.