What problems should we pay attention to when getting married?

See what we need to consider when we get married.

1. Be sure to withdraw money.

Just like the settlement between brothers, don't feel embarrassed about the wedding expenses such as house decoration and bride price before marriage, but look on the bright side. Make it clear, there will be no heartfelt words that will be the cause of future quarrels. The other person's kindness to you is too illusory, because he may be bad to you at any time, and the cost of mental sinking is not unreasonable (the more you invest, the less willing you are to let go).

Considering the personality factors of two people, feelings need to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is fine with each other and have the idea of being together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and he will become his ideal partner when his mind is hot. First of all, feelings need the right personality of the other person. If you have a different personality, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your marriage life is prone to contradictions and quarrels, and it is difficult to keep love sweet. Without common interests and topics, getting married is not a simple matter. You must consider your future. Life is long. When two people have nothing to say, they will become very distant and their feelings will become weaker and weaker. When there is a distance between them, the marriage should be over. With a person who has the same hobby as himself, you can do what you like and talk about things together. Even if two people sit there quietly, they will not feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Don't get married too early and don't get married too far.

Mother always said, "Don't get married too early. It is best to find a boyfriend after the age of 25. Don't get married too far. Parents are too far away to see you easily and don't trust you. However, at the age of 20, I "got married early" and married far away from other provinces. The whole family is against it. I always thought that the transportation was convenient and it was easy to go home now. At that time, when preparing for the wedding, my in-laws never met, nor did my in-laws meet. I don't want to do it myself. My parents are angry and sad. Because of different living habits and customs after marriage, my husband is not at home all the year round. My relationship with my mother-in-law is very tense, and my relationship with my husband is getting weaker. A few years ago, my husband betrayed me and wanted a divorce ... At that time, going home was more difficult than going to heaven.