People with the same frequency will always meet.

After the age of 30, I often feel lonely, and there are fewer and fewer friends in my soul, but I am still looking for friends who share the same interests, have the same views, can talk and are relaxed together.

I'm glad I found it. Her name is Xin Juan, an alumnus of my normal school, younger than me. It's been nearly 20 years. I got in touch with WeChat last Tuesday and look forward to meeting you. When we met in the bookstore last Thursday, we only felt that it had been a long time. With a pot of tea, we talked for five or six hours. I said: similar people will always meet. Xin Juan said: "People with the same frequency will always meet. Her point of view is more novel, and she uses her words to make a fuss about the topic.

We all like Sister Xue Xiaochan, and what we talk about most is Sister Xue. We like our sister's fairy spirit and envy her for living like a girl all the time. We admire our sister's real life. My sister said that I should be loyal to life and art, and my senior sister has been practicing her own views. Sister Xue's profound aesthetic accomplishment, cultural heritage and eager pursuit of art make everyday dull as a poem. Although I can't do it, I yearn for it. Looking at the daily life of my sister's circle of friends every day, we will silently tell ourselves: this is the life I want, and we will work together. Xin Juan said: My sister also has a "Zen Garden to Listen to Snow" in Xi 'an. I look forward to her coming to Xi again in September. We will chase after her and enjoy the touching life of "playing chess, painting and poetry".

Let's talk about reading-we all think that reading has a gradient. When your appreciation of reading is getting higher and higher, you will constantly ask yourself to read more difficult books. I used to like reading novels because the plot was touching and particularly attractive. Later, I like reading prose, thinking that prose can make my mind calm and I can feel the author's joys and sorrows with my heart. I recently started studying history. It is impossible for a person who doesn't know the history of his country to really fall in love with the traditional culture of this country. I'm going to read the ancient books recommended by Xin Juan during the holiday and chew them slowly bit by bit. As long as I understand ancient books, I will find it easy to read other words. We are not particularly interested in current online novels and bestsellers.

I am ashamed to say that I think I have read a lot of books, and I often bask in my reading comprehension in my circle of friends, but compared with Xinjuan, the books I read are too simple. Xin Juan recommended me to read The View of Ancient Chinese Literature, The Context of China and The Book of Songs. She also recommended 200 ancient Chinese literature reading books and a guide to children's China culture to encourage me to recite them with my children. I bought all the books recommended by Xinjuan and read them with my children during the holidays. Poetry and distance, not only on the road, but also in ordinary days every day.

We talked about our own experience-Xin Juan said: Everyone's road will not be in vain, and we will gradually become stronger in hardships. What she experienced can be written as a touching family drama, and what I experienced can be written as a dog's blood love drama. But we are all indomitable people. When we go through difficulties, we can hide in a corner where no one cries, but as long as we get through it, we all downplay the past as if it had nothing to do with us. We don't complain that we "meet people badly", but we just feel that when we are not in good condition, we don't have enough cultivation. Don't blame others, don't treat others, just reflect on yourself.

We talked about our hobbies-Xinjuan loves calligraphy and I love writing. Xinjuan told me that in order to write a word well, she can write it twenty or thirty times a day, even if it is written in one day. She likes to write official script now, and she should be upright and upright, but women should be gentle and jade-like. She said that when she wrote calligraphy, her heart was quiet. When she reads the copybook, she can understand the state and mood of the writer from one word. Xin Juan is also good at writing articles. The propaganda draft she wrote for Xue Xiaochan's sister was passed directly without trial. I told him that I joined the "007 net group" and wrote an article every week for seven years. Since June 65438+ 10, I have written thirty or forty articles on "". We all feel that we can't do "daily necessities" to smooth out the pursuit of good things.

She likes practicing yoga and has obtained a certificate as a yoga instructor. I like running, listening to songs and flying. The long road of life, if there is no pursuit, there is no value in living.

Let's talk about the history of spiritual growth first-in this world, no one can be absolutely reliable, and many times they can only rely on themselves. I used to be a very emotional person, and meeting a little thing may make me feel bad for a long time. Now with the growth of age, there are fewer and fewer things that can make me sad. As Xin Juan said: I'm still marking time and I want something in my heart.

Let's talk about art-all art is understandable, whether it's literature, calligraphy, photography, music, opera ... Although these artistic expressions are different, they are all beautiful things, all for purifying the soul and cultivating sentiment. Let's live more deeply in this changeable world.

We talk about our families and our husbands. Xin Juan said: Husband's spoil gives us time to pursue our spiritual world. I said: Yes, my husband is very supportive of me to buy books and study. He also began to like reading books now. Xinjuan's husband is Xinjuan's reading guide and will advise Xinjuan what books to read and how to read them. We study together and make progress together. Family harmony does not require two people to understand and tolerate each other. Blaming and complaining blindly will only make couples happier and more nervous.

We talk about children-parents are always their first teachers. Both Xinjuan and I like to take our children to the bookstore and read with them. Xinjuan also likes to practice calligraphy and recite ancient Chinese with her children. I want to learn from her. Parents can't just ask their children to study, play mobile phones by themselves, and feel the best with their children.

We talked a lot.

It's not too much to fall in love at first sight.

Looking forward to our next crazy chat.