How much harm does the second-child sister-in-law combination do to her sister? Will there be a good relationship?

At the same time as the second child policy is liberalized. The best idea of many parents who want to have a second child is a sister and a brother. They all have the same concept of food. If the first child is a girl, you can do housework by yourself to help yourself reduce the burden. After giving birth to a second child, you can also take care of your own children. If the elder sister grows up, she can also help her younger brother after marrying a good man. Sometimes at family dinners, grandparents often say that we finally have a big grandson, and we are considered successors.

Everyone thinks from the granddaughter's point of view, so how much trauma will it have on the female doll as a sister. This sentence will make them feel redundant, unexpected and born to take care of their younger brother. In such a sister-in-law family, the existence of my sister is very humble, which is not conducive to my sister's growth. Unconsciously, I was eccentric and injured. I believe my parents wanted her for my younger brother. Before my brother, it was my parents' favorite baby, but after my brother came, it suddenly became a green leaf. How do ordinary children accept it? At this time, they will be disobedient. But parents don't care about the girl's change, but think it's unreasonable and just scolding.

These children who are neglected by their parents will become more unhealthy and insecure than the average person. At the same time, insecure children are easily biased by bad things from outside, and their development is not good, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth. Or in order to get more love than her younger brother, girls will be more obedient and do everything perfectly. If you become blind and obedient, you will become timid and introverted, and later you will become timid and dare not say no.

Relationships are maintained by people. At this time, it depends on parents' practice. Parents should treat their children fairly. Don't get too excited about the boy's arrival. When children quarrel and fight, they should ask what happened, distinguish right from wrong, and punish the doll according to right and wrong. Generally speaking, parents should be fair when dealing with their children. When they both reach a certain age, housework is divided equally by them. At the same time, we should always teach them how to respect the elders and love the young, so that the elder sister loves the younger brother and the younger brother loves the elder sister, so that the elder sister and the younger brother can be truly harmonious.