Huang Lei Sun Li is so sweet, a good marriage can be seen by looking at her eyes. Do you envy them?

Watching "The Life I Desire" at home, all the guests in this issue are performing actors in the drama, including Sun Li, the wife of teacher Huang Lei. I have rarely seen Sun Li since the first issue of Where is Dad? She is completely slim, like a girl, with a happy smile. Sun Li picked peppers, Huang Lei greeted with a smile, Sun Li took photos of Huang Lei, Huang Lei cooperated with Buzz to sell the lovely Sun Li boasted that Huang Lei pig's feet were stewed delicious, and Huang Lei directly said that he would go home and give them to stew. No matter how beautiful a person is, his wife's expression can show his family situation. Huang Lei Sun Li and Zhang Jiayi said very similar things: Women should find a man who takes care of you like a father, not an inclusive son who wants you to go. The highest level of a man's love for you is to raise you as a daughter, while a man who doesn't cherish you at all will regard you as a mother. I saw comments from netizens on the Internet: Even if people love chilies, people who love their wives think they can do it. People who don't love their wives won't think so even if you attend a grand banquet. A good marriage will be my life.

I remember Huang Lei once said in the procedure, "I am very opposed to husband and wife becoming relatives. My mother and daughter are my relatives, and my wife will always be my lover. My wife and I are still lovers, and I should be lovers all my life. "Relatives and lovers are two concepts. Although family members are legally related to people and spouses, there will be greater emotional tolerance among family members, and they will understand that this relationship will last forever. Lovers refer to people they admire, objects of love or objects of marriage, and this relationship can be released. With your wife as your lover, you will always be grateful, and always strive to maintain the relationship with your lover, and properly handle this relationship, so as to keep it sweet and devote your energy to their lives and make continuous progress. If you regard your wife as a relative, you will have a steady stream of demands and conditions, thinking that every mistake you make in your wife can be forgiven, and equating this relationship with the blood relationship, thinking that everything can be accommodated.

Although the way to maintain a long-term relationship between husband and wife is tolerance, the word "tolerance" has no conditions for relatives, but it has conditions for lovers. Every lover has his own bottom line. Except for the bottom line, this relationship will only exist by name. For example, in the TV series "Pi", Qian Sanyi's parents survived for 15 years, and Qian Sanyi's father was cheated when he was a child. Although his parents never released the marriage relationship within 15 years, in fact, this was only in the name of husband and wife, not the reality of husband and wife. This relationship has exceeded the bottom line. Due to the lack of economic ability and various reasons, many women in society can't retreat. They are still married. There is a saying in The Perfect Divorce that the worst ending of marriage is not divorce, but "masked couple". There is enough disappointment, no expectation, no care and no love for the other party, but it is the greatest misfortune of marriage to have to live together because of children or some factors.

There are many women who have rebuilt this marriage relationship after their husbands cheated. Like the article, although he cheated Mayili's second child and Mayili chose to forgive, he did not break the marriage, but began to rebuild the relationship. To rebuild their relationship. In short, a good marriage will make two people lovers for the rest of their lives. Etiquette and blessings between lovers must be taken out when necessary. This is a reward for marriage. A good marriage is not to say that there is no conflict, but it can solve the conflict quickly. The reporter interviewed an elderly couple and asked the man, "Sir, you have a lot of money. Why are you still loyal to your wife?" The man replied, "because it was hard for her to be with me when she was young!" " Then he asked the woman, "madam, why were you with you when you were a child?" How is the husband's life? " The woman replied, "because I believe he can live a good life with me when he is old!" " The most touching thing for this couple is their trust in each other.

In Pi, when Lin Miaomiao's parents divorced, her father had an accident and entered the police station. Her mother asked for leave and then ran to save her father. I believe that she believes that Lin Dawei's actions will not be deceived. The two of them put the divorce on the agenda, but the reason for delaying the divorce was that the contradiction was solved relatively quickly. Lin Miaomiao's mother was bad enough, but she knew her husband had a good personality. Although her father had many small problems in his life, he could admit his mistakes in time and prevent them from developing into big ones. There is no quarrel in marriage, even the enviable Max Zhang Ada Choi is no exception. Ada Choi said in the procedure that once she and Max Zhang had a serious quarrel, they fell into a cold war. At this point, Ada Choi secretly raised his head, glanced at Max Zhang's side and suddenly said to Max Zhang's face: "It's so handsome!" Max Zhang, who was very angry at that time, was "forced" by this sentence, took the initiative to apologize to his wife, and quickly resolved the conflict. A good marriage is not without contradictions, but the ability to solve contradictions and know how to stop losses in time. You can tell a good marriage by the expression in your eyes.

the tragedies of love are inseparable. But indifferent. Good marriage, they both have two pairs of gentle eyes. When they look at each other, the tacit understanding of their eyes has told you three words "I love you". In The Life I yearn for, the eyes full of love in Huang Lei Sun Li proved that there is always true love in this world. She is willing to give up her career and have three children, not because of anything else, but because of love. Only love in life can make people brave and strong. Eyes with love are gentle, eyes without love are indifferent. Lin Qingxuan said: the beginning of love is appearance, and the end of love is infinite sky. In the process of love, not only is the expression of eyes at the beginning of love, but also the meeting between eyes is essential.

I believe that the eyes of a partner without love will never collide with the spark of love. A couple who don't love each other began to quarrel endlessly, and there was nothing to say, even at first sight. I remember reading an article on the Internet and vividly describing marriage: marriage is a private bank, which stores sincere love and tacit understanding and extracts happiness. And joy. Husband and wife are each other's accounts, and the passbook is the latest, which can be deposited and withdrawn at any time, while the family is the counter of this bank. Through it, husband and wife can deposit their happiness, sadness, sadness and joy in each other's bank. And you can pick up a smile at any time. I hope you can also store your true love and tacit understanding in this bank in time.