A letter to a bosom friend.

After years of accumulation, letters have gradually acquired and improved the aesthetic attributes of literature. So, how to write a letter to a confidante? Below I have compiled a demonstration letter to a confidante for your reference!

A letter to Fan, a confidante.

There are three kinds of relationships between men and women in the world: men, women and men and women. The first two relationships, intimate, brotherly, hostile or deceptive, can be in any form. The latter relationship is abnormal except that husband and wife can get close at zero distance. Of course, the times have improved, and now there is a confidante besides husband and wife and ordinary friends. From the point of view of women, it is called a blue confidante.

When you look at Baidu, you will know that the confidante is based on spiritual independence and spiritual equality, and can achieve profound * * *, and is a close female friend of men. A confidante believes that true love spans the length of life and soul and can exist in various forms. In this world, what a man needs most, besides his wife, is a confidante. Of course, the confidante will adhere to a standard, that is, not to cross the line. After crossing the border, the confidante changed her identity, either as a lover or as a wife. One of its symbols, a simple word is sex. This is a physical crossing, and the psychological crossing is relatively complicated.

There are many reasons for confidante. For example, childhood friends didn't fall in love and met by chance. When your husband got married, or your wife got married, then you can only become confidante sadly. This can be easily applied to primary school students, high school students, college students, master students, doctoral students, students of the Central Party School, and students of the crash course of saints. After entering the society, colleagues also have similar relationships. First, through the friendship of friends, it belongs to normal communication, adding color to each other's emotional life, and then gradually entering the category of confidante. These are the ups and downs of love stories between the opposite sex from acquaintance to acquaintance to love.

A confidante can't break through, so why should a man pursue such an illusory and disturbing thing? There are several reasons:

1, when a man is frustrated, it is not convenient to get drunk and cry in front of his wife, nor is it suitable for his male friends. Female confidantes are different. They love men's occasional weakness in front of them, and prefer to truly appreciate this weakness. How can such a gentle hug not make a man move?

2, confidantes are usually excellent, can help a man at a critical moment, without asking for anything in return. No one can refuse a man's help.

3. Some women are born friends. They are open-minded by nature and are the type of friends that men appreciate. So even if it's not like that? Confidante? Men also like to make friends with such women and enjoy the care and closeness of women other than wives or lovers, which greatly satisfies men's vanity. Did you have a good time? Iron buddy? Really make men proud.

4. Love is too short and marriage is too boring. In front of the confidante, without the daily necessities of the family, the nagging of three aunts and four grandmothers, and the intrigue of interpersonal relationships, people seem to be in a paradise of a capitalist society. A good friend is wine, and a female friend is undoubtedly the intoxicating kind.

For men, a confidante is a form of love that is spiritually superior to his wife, an ideological lover who can't be together with sheets rolled up, and a spiritual companion whose soul communication is better than physical communication. The laws of physics tell us that stillness is relative and motion is eternal. Is it true that a man's devotion to a beautiful woman or a confidante's devotion to a man will stay in this place forever? Obviously, a confidante can't beat this physical law.

Many times, the starting point of a confidante is just to be a more intimate role than a friend. As everyone knows, feelings are just talk. Men who have no spiritual communication just for sensuality are low-level animals. Men prefer confidante lovers, who can hug when they go to bed and talk when they get out of bed. The more men with some status, the more they love this circuitous derailment war, which makes him look a little literary and charming.

Women always think that men are too pure, so they give men the opportunity to be impure. Holding the title of confidante, I keep telling myself: that's not love, just dependence. When you start to rely on someone, naturally he has the charm to convince you. This is a kind of admiration, a kind of faith, a kind of admiration, and this resultant force is rooted in the heart like faith, and its power is uncontrollable. In fact, this power is the power of love, but everyone is unwilling to admit it, or the secular does not admit it.

The confidante will cry foul: why do we refuse the temptation of men again and again, but those men are getting more and more rampant? Because the communication between bosom friends is beyond the enjoyment of spirit and flesh. Sometimes, you refuse, but you can't bear to refuse, and your eyes are full of expressions that you are forced to endure love under the pressure of reality. In this case, your refusal becomes an encouragement, and he is more confident when he sees your struggle. You think that's a rejection. In his view, it's just shyness. If you persist a few times, he is confident that he can completely conquer you.

In the face of deep love beyond the soul of a confidante, few people can carry Plato through to the end. The confidantes have fallen, and even feel that if they can't come together because of the barrier of time and space or the bondage of ethics, it will teach people to die unsatisfied. Suddenly, I realized that my heart was not enough, but I still had it.

I don't necessarily want to, but I can't get rid of it in my dreams.

Confidants can speak freely, but they can't warm each other. The only way to keep warm between intimate friends is to keep warm in your heart, and don't turn it into body heating. Once the body warms up, bosom friends will face two consequences, either losing or upgrading to lovers. There is a certain foundation for men and women to break through the boundaries of confidante, whether it is love or sex first. It is impossible for a person to like only one opposite sex in his life, and it is impossible to be liked by only one opposite sex. The confidante is obviously the gorgeous spare tire. Because it is a spare tire, it looks glamorous after being maintained in the trunk for a long time. Compared with people who are licensed to live, it will naturally make people feel: why can't people who love each other be together! This desire will naturally encourage one or two people to break through the shackles in their hearts.

Close friends who love each other are always looking forward to meeting each other, always looking forward to having each other truly, and at the same time staying in the same space with each other and breathing together. No matter how far it used to be, I always think there is no distance in the end. After the harmony of the mind, I always long for the combination of the body. Women don't want to, men do. Men are restrained, but women are not necessarily allowed. The suffering of lovesickness always keeps the lovers close. Finally, I have to have sex in bed. Enter tolerance and have each other. If you don't do it, it's not true love, not all love.

Man is a strange animal, what he can't get is always the best. After a confidante becomes a lover or even a mistress after divorce, her psychology will gradually change after the initial affection. Or no longer tolerate the shortcomings of the other party, or ask the other party to pay more, ask the other party to do more, and think that the other party should do it. Maybe there will be a few people who are still considering each other's feelings and thinking about each other and can go on together. But it is not easy to keep the red flag at home and the colorful flags fluttering outside. People are always selfish animals, and good things don't like to be shared with others, especially when it comes to sex and affection. What about the one at home?

When men and women cross the border, they initially use the theory of imagination to dominate their actions in order to obtain temporary peace of mind. In fact, their hearts are always full of guilt and conscience. Once we are really together, our enthusiasm will decrease, our reason will rise, our patience will weaken, resentment will arise, our emotions will come to reality, and breaking up will be inevitable. As some friends said, I'm afraid I can't even be friends in the end, right? When you are ecstatic, you forget each other? .

Some love, like fireworks, should be silent once it is brilliant.

In everyone's heart, there will be some regrets about love.

A letter to Fan, a confidante.

Official development assistance:

Hello! I don't remember how long you have been in Hebei. I often miss you when I am in a daze, your silly smile and your angry face! Far away, far away, very close, very close to miss. Missing never hangs on a man's mouth, but falls deeply in his heart.

Let's not talk about beauty for a while. I miss your elegance, your shrewdness, your aggressiveness, your gentleness and delicacy. I never asked you what constellation you were. I didn't seem to care much about the family affairs of these women before. Or ask and forget, you know, I have a bad memory! However, I guess you should be Pisces or Capricorn. That's how partners match! ? Oh, my God, you are a shooter! The shooter's is also good! Perfect match, isn't it?

I'm glad to meet you at the university. Who should I thank, God? Hehe? I won't talk about those empty routines, and you know I don't like beating around the bush! Today, you said that you envy me more and more, which is wrong! Actually I love you more and more! I have always been very distressed by you! I always feel that you are carrying too much and too tired! In the field, remember to pity yourself, not be negative to the whole world, but also be good to yourself! (seems a little too much? Although you are strong, your friends still want to protect you and eliminate all interference factors, including LZ, so please understand and forgive me!

There is still a paragraph to say to you:

Do you know our present capital? Our greatest wealth is that we are young. Our young blood is boiling! I don't think I can delay my youth for a moment. I can't splurge any more! That's why we must fight! Work hard! Work hard! Be enterprising! Work hard! Self-reliance. Stop complaining! Stop complaining about everything! Stop all self-deception. As long as we work hard and dare, all miracles will happen. Isn't it? Fangfang, so we must refuel! Believe in yourself! Be more optimistic and open-minded to face all injustice! Let injustice yield to our feet!

Love a bird, but you can't keep it in your own cage to enjoy it. That's not to love it, but to lose selfishness and let it enjoy its own happiness! Me too. I will always pay attention to your take-off, growth and maturity?

May your wings become fuller and fuller!

May your sky become wider and wider!

I am a cloud during the day and a star at night! Right next to you! Never leave, live together day and night!

The words are a bit ambiguous! But being emotional is enough, okay?

Good wishes!

fly

Written on 08.6.2.

A letter to Fan Wensan, a confidante.

How time flies! Twenty-four spring and autumn years have passed in a blink of an eye. The wind in winter is blowing quietly, as if to catch the tail of winter and prevent the early arrival of spring. Seeing the leaves on the road in a mess, like masterpieces after the raging winter wind, pedestrians on the road are still busy with their own affairs. At this moment, there are too many worries to express.

I remember when I was a teenager, I was ambitious and dreamed that one day I would ride a horse with a sword in my hand. Follow the example of Emperor Gaozu, be unique in the world, and make a name for yourself in history. So a little lofty, leading to students' doubts and incomprehension. Later, I felt that this dream was unrealistic and the times changed. I dream that one day, I will ride a horse and my beloved to roam the world on the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau. Later, I found that no girl wanted to do this and was forced to put up with it. Today, although I am still young, I still have nothing in my career and love. Compared with Sun Quan of Soochow, I am a mess. In the past, someone misjudged me, today I am mistaken, and I may be mistaken in the future, but I am still me, and I am never afraid of being misunderstood by others. Since ancient times, the big ones have been hidden in the city and the small ones have been hidden in the wild to show their ambitions. Now it seems that most people don't understand. In fact, it is just a state of mind in the world life. A hundred years later, it is still the dead bones buried in the wilderness, which makes people feel a lot.

Throughout the world, everyone has their own way of life. There is nothing wrong with people who live with dreams, people who slowly degenerate, and so on. Although I am just a drop in the ocean, I also have my own life rules. I think people can be tired and fall all their lives, but they can't live in a mess, otherwise it will be a lifelong regret. Talk about feelings or not. People who let go are looked down upon, and people who play with feelings are no different from animals. They are not responsible for themselves, but also ignore and trample on the dignity of others' lives. There are two kinds of depraved people in the world, one is physical depravity and the other is ideological depravity. The fall of the body hurts itself, and the fall of the mind not only hurts itself, but also hurts others, even the whole country and nation. So is love. I am a person who doesn't want to get along emotionally, and love and marriage themselves can't get along. Some people like gorgeous girls, others like kind and simple girls. Anyway, love without love is like a living person losing his heart, and marriage without love is like two people living in a grave, which is very unfortunate. You can play anything, don't play with feelings, you can live anything. A person's life, from birth to the end of life, is not easy, because you not only have to experience the ups and downs in the world, but also may encounter disasters of one kind or another. It is not easy to live safely when you are old, so why be too materialistic. A person should at least be worthy of his own life.

For the people I once loved, the past is the past. Since time has faded everything, why should I care? I want to say to those who will live with me for the rest of my life, if I choose you, you also choose me. I don't ask you to be gorgeous or considerate. At least, you have to love me. This is my only request.

May all lovers get married!