Those who are still posting on Moments

Text | Li Siyuan · Anchor | Jixiang · Photography | Dahuang Xiaocao · Editor | Yibai

I wonder if you have noticed: nowadays, fewer and fewer people post on Moments.

It’s not that they have nothing to post, but that after thinking about it, they decided not to post it again.

Because there are too many people who are prejudiced against those who like to post in WeChat Moments, saying that they like to show off, are shallow, and even go so far as to attack their lives.

There is a saying: "Everyone is an island."

In fact, in our increasingly busy work and life, it is difficult for us to have too many Time and energy to understand others and be understood by others.

But no matter how independent everyone is, they still need to be cared for and cared about.

Sometimes, the reason why people are still willing to post on Moments is because in their hearts, they are actually willing to open up to you and let you see their life, status, and small daily things that happen. .

They know that they will be misunderstood, and they also know that they will attract bad comments, but they are still willing to leave a channel for those who are willing to understand them.

Many times, because we are afraid of not being understood, we completely shut out others, but those who are open-minded enough never care and do not like their own people, but are willing to The steaming self is optimistically displayed in front of everyone.

Are there people like this around you:

When you meet interesting people, new things, and unforgettable experiences, you like to post them on Moments.

In fact, most of the time, they are not showing off the delicious food, fun places, and funny clips, but just so that others can do it at the same time.

I once read this passage:

Everyone’s habits are different. Some people like to chatter endlessly with their friends, while some people like to brew silently in their own hearts.

Some people like to crush their emotions into pictures, while others like to write them down as a kind of memory and nostalgia.

A person is willing to share good articles with you so that you can gain something and be inspired after reading them.

A person is willing to share beautiful things with you so that you can have a better mood.

When a person is willing to share his happiness with you, he hopes that you can feel sincere love and touch from it.

People who love to share deserve to be respected and treated kindly.

There is such a heart-wrenching reality that many people not only don’t post in Moments, but have blocked you or made your group invisible.

Sometimes, we can see a person posting in Moments, which at least proves that he still regards you as a friend, so that he will let you appear in his Moments.

Only if they treat you as a good friend, they will be willing to let you into their lives and understand their truest side.

No matter what the purpose is, there are always some real people in the circle of friends who are willing to let you know and who are willing to understand you.

But people who like to post in Moments are always visible to you, which is enough to show that they have trust and sincerity in you.

Even if a person does not agree, he should not let down those who treat you sincerely.

Maybe you just meet by chance, maybe you only have a casual acquaintance, but as long as others treat you sincerely, you shouldn't have too many prejudices and judgments about them.

Many times, the way we view our circle of friends also reflects our own character.

There are always people who say bad things about Moments, but there are also people who have gained a lot of knowledge and broadened their horizons from Moments.

In psychology, there is a projection effect.

We are often accustomed to using what we think and see in our hearts as a yardstick to analyze and judge. This is also true for the people we know and the things we encounter.

When you feel that the people who post in Moments are showing off, it may be because of your inferiority complex or jealousy.

When you feel that the people you post on Moments are shallow, it may be because you are not profound enough or you are not generous enough.

There is a saying: "Beauty and beauty are harmonious but different."

In this world, everyone has their own way of expression, and those who are silent are not necessarily Represents depth. A person who is taciturn does not necessarily mean he is thoughtful.

A person’s greatest accomplishment is not to judge others at will, but to learn to truly respect and appreciate others.

In fact, it is everyone’s freedom to post or not to Moments.

But when we don’t post, but we look at those who love to post on Moments and bring us good sharing and delivery, perhaps we should give them more kindness and understanding.

Have fun with your friends.

-Author-

-Anchor-

Jixiang: Radio host, youth broadcasting and hosting teacher, reading enthusiast.

-Photography-

Dahuang Xiaocao: Photography enthusiasts who grew up in the black land of Beidahuang, Heilongjiang, are willing to use their third eyes to discover beauty, show beauty, and spread beauty in the world. . Wechat ID xgm650708

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